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[Silk]

Week 2, Day 6

Hey there,

No convo's today. When I was at the test I wanted to start a convo but didn't feel like it. When the test was over everyone started talking to their friends and people they knew in groups. It's the same with coffee breaks. They all stand in groups. Just like you said Lancelot. Has anyone else tried to open up a convo when people are talking to each other on breaks or something?

When I was in the lab I commented on some guys who were reading program code from an MSN screen. MSN scrambled some of the code with emoticons because of some characters in the code.We laughed about it. I couldn't think of anything more to say.

Also, I've been very busy on a project for my study. This week I didn't actually went out to get convo's, had some other stuff to do. Tomorrow I'm busy again with the project so I don't have time to go anywhere to get convo's.

This week is going a little better but still bad like the other week. One thing that's better is that I at least say something to people, allthough it's difficult to maintain a convo. Funny thing is that the two convo's I did had were with girls whereas the other failed attempts were with guys or adults. When I was doing the convo's it was also more natural than when I just said something to people and ended it.

Total convo's: 2

 

[Evo]

this just hit me today when i was talking to this girl that i didnt really have a chance to have a convo with and a random girl in the library. my classmate/friends would try to get in on it after they c me successfully in appoarching them and talking to them for about 2 -3 mins like in italian class the girl i said hi few time but today i really talked to her and suddenly one of my friend from a group of ppl came over and look at me and introduce himself to her and after he did they shake hands and he tries to ask this girl a question and she answer and he looked at her for like 1 sec or 2 and he went back to his group and me and this girl resume our convo (i think to myself yea i thought so seeing me successfully appoarching and starting a convo with this girl u gonna try to rub it in like that to get close to her) and in the lilbrary this girl in the pc i walked over and talk to her and then after a few mins of talking my other tutor parnter/friend (who was on a pc checking out yankees' stuff) shows up just like my other friend in italian class and he was trying to get in the convo himself too he said "she is in one of my class" and she goes "yea" and thats about it their convo was over and i resume mine convo with her while my friend stand there and i think to myself again" well wat do u kno they're same class but he wait until i appoarched and talked to her for a few mins and he decided to show up now and try to get in on the convo too i mean it would have been easier for him to start a convo with that girl cuz they r in the same class but still its all good)
so i find that many ppl r afraid to appoarch (so they try to take a piece of my hard work holding on to my balls and going out of my comfort zone, while fighting with myself saying "u r going over there and talk to her now!! or u r a fu*king p*ssy") but i must say talking to ppl is getting easiler
wat about u guys? any other friends trying to get some of ur hard work?
(not that i would flip out on them and hate them i just find it funny that they r afraid so they try to get in after they c one of their friend starting to laugh and have a convo with a girl and come to think of it, it does bug me wat if that was someone i want a # close and my friend comes in and interrupts ?"

 

[Nickell511`]

week 2 day 6

a lot of mini convos as usual, but didn't really attempt to sustain any...funny thing about this lesson is that most of the time i really don't conciously try to start convos with strangers, i just come home and think about my day and sometimes i realize i got a convo and sometimes i don't, today being the former...the truth is i really hate these kids.
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Evo, you have big bull balls man, but with the acquisition of such you will sometimes find a few tics (AFCs/your friends) hanging from your scrotum trying to leach off of your seccess. i've also seen and exprerienced this on a few occasions...those *****es, but when they attempt to do this with me i find that most of the time they aren't able to carry on a convo with the girl themselves, which is my cue to give them a big sarcastic grin, you had your chance and you made a fool of yourself, now split!.

nestea, of course you can join us, but you're gonna have to pace yourself (lessen the days of each lesson) a bit so you can catch up with us eventually. glad to have you aboard man.

Convos: still 5

~Nickell

 

[Sir Lancelot]

Nickell, I totally know what you are talking about. Most of the time when I'm talking to a stranger I don't consciously realize it (at least at school, that is). So I usually don't count it -- until I get to the end of the day, and I realize I talked to a stranger for a while so I add it on to my convo list. I think the goal of this week is to get you comfortable walking up and talking to people who are intriguing (sp?) to you.

Nestea, good luck. I know what it's like to be kind of shy like that, it sucks. After you get that first "hi" out to somebody, the rest of them are a breeze. I believe the common saying on these forums is "Just Do It!"

Anyway, I got in one more convo today. It was with a fairly hot chick (I'd say a solid 8.5, maybe even a 9 on some days). I've known her for a while though, we just haven't really ever talked that much before. Since it was pouring down rain I used something like this as an opener:

Me: "Great weather today, huh?"

she just giggled and said "Oh yeah"

Me: "I'm gonna go to the beach after school" <smile>

Her: "Really? Sounds like fun" <still giggling>

... and we had some basic fluff talk for a few more minutes. Then I had to leave to go to class. I came out again later, and I saw her in the halls again. I used some cliche line like this: "xxx, are you stalking me!?" with a grin on my face, and she just cracked up.

Making an HB laugh gives a really good feeling inside.

I knew her already, however, so I'm not gonna count it. Still good experience though.

 

[Zeus]

I was on a little "date" yesterday with this girl. A HB-8.

She already had a boyfriend that she likes and we only went out as friends, but we had fun like hell. I tryed C+F and it works really good actully, will have to keep that in mind.

If i count my dates and the convos i had, i have like 5 total. And the week is over tomorrow.. I feel a little bit of presure now.

I'am very glad to see you guys doing well!!!


Should we make "Just Do It" as our new thing =)

 

[Evo]

week 2 day 6
well i guess my big bull balls shrink into to small lil balls like the movie Van wilder after the the dog got wack off by Van lol cuz no convo today i must finish it tomoro!!!!!
i had mini convo too just like Nickell and Sir Lancelot i like ur "nice wheather?" "i am going to the beach after school" and "r uwell i guess my big bull balls shrink into to small lil balls like the movie Van wilder after the the dog got wack off by Van lol cuz no convo today i must finish it tomoro!!!!!
i had mini convo too just like Nickell and Sir Lancelot i like ur "nice wheather?" "i am going to the beach after school" and "r u stalking me?" u r swift. i'm gonna try to throw in some funny lines like those tomoro cuz i have to work on C+F in my convo and end it when i am at a high point of the convo (if the convo pass 2 mins mark) cuz i want to get in the habit of ending convo when its still interesting and C+F when i talk, and the "just do it" i had that typed in my cell a while ago so every time i flip my phone open i c "JUST DO IT!" just like that.
so tomoro is the last day, I must finish my last 2 convo and u guys "JUST DO IT" and finish off the convos its only the 2nd week we can talk to anyone right now, so imagine week 3 only talk to girls (not that much of a difference but talking to anymore helps u just enough to get that extra convos u need) and not to mention the 10 rejection week that some after so we must finish week 2!!!
so super size ur balls for tomoro guys and finish up the convo
Total convo : 8 (not going home till i hit 10 tomoro!!!!!! GRRRRRR ) yea "Just do it" should be our new thing actually it should be "JUST DO IT!". also u guys have aim? maybe we can get each others and chat and stuff

 

[KoSkit]

Hi guys!

I got no new convos.

I was in a bad mood the last few days so I didnt feel like talking to someone. This is not easy. I feel better now tho.

Total convos: 2

 

[Evo]

koskit!!! nice to have u back man !!!

 

[Sir Lancelot]

Week 2 Day 7

Got in 3 convo's today. 2 girls, one guy. The only interesting convo I had was with a girl I sat by in class. I hadn't ever talked to her before. I basically cracked a joke about some laptops that were handed out to us (don't remember exactly what I did, but it was funny) and she couldnt stop laughing. We talked about the reports we were writing and who we were doing them on.

She was only a HB5 though (if you can even consider that an HB, lol) I probably wouldn't date her.

I still have 2 convos left... I'll have to go out and finish them up.

Total Convos: 8

JUST DO IT!

 

[Silk]

Week 2, Day 7

Hey guys.

Worked on my project all day. So I did two convo's this week, a disappointing result, however I have been busy with other things so haven't made a big effort.

I don't feel like trying Week 2 again. Instead I just wanna move along Week 3, which will be hard but, I have convo's with girls I actually like. To get their number will get me more excited to go and talk to them. When I had a convo last week I just should have number closed but thought to myself to keep practising convo's and closing later. From now on I'm gonna close to get some different experience than just trying bootcamping.

Silk

 

[nestea16]

Sup guys, im here to report that im a loser haha

It's been day 3 and i still haven't said ONE hi yet, only made eye contact and i found that hard to do.... i have all the DJ knowledge in the world but im too shy to apply it. Lancelot u made sense by saying after the first one, the rest are a breeze so i will try that tomorrow and see how it is.

However, im pretty quiet in my school and im sure other people know it, and it just feels weird to all of a sudden be an outgoing DJ from 4 years of complete shyness...

 

[Nickell511`]

Whew, thought we lost you for a sec there KoSkit, glad to have you back

week 2 day 7

didn't have any convos today either. i woke up kinda late and have been doing my laundry since

Convos: 5

~Nickell

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you know what i really want to do and keep telling myself is, if even just for one day, just stop giving a fuk and start convos with girls left and right; delaying and rationalizing an approach does you no good, it only makes you whimper away like a virtical slit. AND after everything is said and done, or should i say, after nothing is said or done you then end up getting pissed at yourself...we're giving girls way too much credit and too little to ourselves...you're gonna have to face the music and master the approach sometime if you're really serious about becomming a DJ, you might as well get used to it now, keep that in mind during your hunts.

 

[Nickell511`]

week 3 Exercises (by Nicholas hill):

While last week we went out and spoke with ten strangers, male or female, young or old, this time our weekly exercise is to go and hold a short conversation (2 – 10 minute each in length) with women that you would normally be interested in dating.

Now, this may seem a little daunting for some people, but when you stop and think about it, there really is no difference between a drop-dead gorgeous babe and middle-aged guy, at least when it comes to holding a brief conversation.

To be successful, just keep everything in perspective... humans are humans. Do this and you won't have any more trouble with this lesson than you did with the one from last week.

Also, in addition to the reading material from this week, you might want to refresh on the reading material from last week since those articles will be just as useful.

After each conversation, write the results in your journal. After completing the assignment, report back to the response thread and share with us one or two of your encounters.

You have until this time next week, to finish this lesson. As well, keep on practicing the skills you learned in the previous two lessons, so that you don't lose them.

And don't forget the 3-second rule discussed in the previous lesson. You'll find that it will be ten times more powerful now, since it will force you to overcome the fear that often develops when you think too much about approaching an attractive girl. Here's a copy-and-paste of the 3-second rule from last week...

"Also, a tip that might help you with this lesson, and the next few lessons, is the 3 second rule (You can find it on ASF). What this means is that when you find someone you might be interested in approaching, don't give yourself more than 3 seconds from the moment you are able, to approach them. Anything longer than 3 seconds highly increases the chance that your nerves will work against you, and that you'll chicken out. Even if you have nothing planned to discuss with them, you'll find that you'll amazingly have something to say if you can only force your feet to propel you to the person."

Okay DJs, let's keep up the momentum. We're getting closer and closer!

 

[Sir Lancelot]

Nestea, hang in there. I didn't get started saying hi's until about the 3rd day. It seems daunting at first, but you just gotta go out there and do it. Think to yourself, if a stranger came up to you, said Hi and gave a friendly smile, how would it make you feel? I don't know about you, but if somebody went out of their way to acknowledge me in a friendly way then I feel pretty d*mn good.

Oh, and at school, don't worry too much about your reputation. If you're known as a shy person, but you all of a sudden start opening up and saying Hi / having convo's with people, it will probably have more of a positive effect on your life than a negative. In fact, I don't think there is any negative effect it can have on you.

Week 2 Day 7 continued...

Yay, got one more convo. This one was with a guy I've seen around school before, but never talked to. Turns out he transferred, so I asked him some questions about the new school, etc. Nothing interesting really.

9 convos. Bah! I only have one left.. I'm just gonna say **** it and move on to week 3.

Alright, now we're getting into the meat of BC. It's time to talk to some HBs!

 

[Charm]

Joining in on Week3

The Bootcamp is always fun, and although I am hopping in the race late in the game, I enjoy the refresher. Ill start @ week 3 with the rest of the lot and keep everyone posted on how it goes =)

Good work to all who have made it this far. Best of luck on week 3!

 

[Nemuro]

Well guys, it seems I'm out of the BC for now... Aside from having gotten only 2 conversations this week, I have not been feeling that well these few days. I will probably restart week 2 next week or so, maybe I'll join the other BC that just started. I won't be idle on the meantime, however. I still practice hi'ing and try to have conversations.
Also, this weekend I'm going to a manga (japanese comics/animation) convention which you may be surprised to learn, will be swarming with HB's (really), so I'll try to do something there. Since it's in a different city and I won't be seeing anyone there again it's a good chance to go berserk with the ladies without inhibitions. I'll report back if I acomplish anything interesting.

Glad to see that most of you are going well, and those who aren't should not be discouraged.

Nemuro

 

[Evo]

week 2 day 7
well i talked to two girls today and my schools club fair had mini talk with about 5 new ppl but 2 of them r very short about 45 sec to 1 min and 3 girls(not hb) that was very close to the 2 mins mark i would say the convo was about 1 min 30 - just ova 2mins too close to say if it count or not. and i was selling candy for my club so it was a easy starter for 2 of the 5 convo (2 of the 1.5- 2mins+ convo) then after the 2 convo using "want to buy a candy" i saw this one HB9
i ask her "would u like to buy a candy?"
she and her friend(some ugly friend she has) both said:"no "
me:"ok" *start to walk away* (YYYYYY did i do that????? ARGGGG)
HB9: i am on a diet
Me: u dont need a diet!!! *HB9 crack up but i kept walking away* ( someboby beat the sh*t out of me right now for chickening out on a great chance to follow up a convo!!!!!!)
after a while i c this guy start talking to her *i was IN RAGE seeing this guy talking to her, just wanted to beat myself to death*
so i learn my listen DONT BE A WUSS and chicken out
so total convo : no clue somewhere between 8-11
well week 3 lets do it!!!!

 

[Charm]

Week 3 Day 1

Today I got my 3 conversations with women I found attractive and would like to date.

The first conversation was with a girl named Brittany, who I met in the vending machine area in one of the buildings at the local University. We made eye-contact, i smiled and said hi, and got her name, introduced myself, and we spoke about classes and such. We both agreed about one teacher who is a total nutcase =) I found out she has a 5 year old son, "she's only 20" but got pregnant early, and also she recently got married in May. I basically asked her about that lovely diamond ring she was wearing in a SoSuave manner, and she told me about her marriage and such. We spoke about 10 minutes, maybe slightly longer. Seeing as she was married, I left it at that.

The second conversation was with a girl who has a face of a model and a pretty nice bod (Hb8.5 - i give lower ratings then most, even for the hottest women, since ive learned that not every girl is an HB10!!!). We met in one of my Bio Lab classes, but we had never really spoke. Her name is Kelsey. I joked with her about having such a nice tan (she goes tanning) living here in Alaska.

The third conversation was with a girl named Erin (HB7.5BlondeHUGETits), and we spoke about nursing (the program she is enrolled in), and academia in general. I closed the conversation by getting her # suggesting that we can get together later on. We said our goodbye's!

3 down, 7 to go!

 

[Ratisson]

Guys... forget about the advice on this werbite, i mean some of its good and some of it is bad.

i suggest u all visit www.doclove.com and order "the system"

 

[Nickell511`]

week 3 day 1

had two convos with girls today, i got one of them (about a HB7) to sit with me and help me check IDs and passes in the library for the entire period (40 mins); we had a pretty interesting convo. i was reading this magazine at one point and i remembered an article i read on this site about making her think of sex, so i told her the article i was reading had a poll of it's reader's favorite sex postions, her face lit up, "really!" (of course i was lying, that wouldn't be allowed in the school library). i told her yes, and asked her what her favorite position is, she smiled and asked me what mine is, i told her i wont tell her unless she tells me her's, she told me that she is a virgin and then demanded that i let her see the magazine, which i couldn't do, or i'd be busted and probably be thought of as a perv, but the convo surprisingly got even more interesting from then.

the second convo was with a girl in my Sign Language class, she's about an HB7.5. she was eating chips or something during class and had obviosly gotten some crumbs on her shirt or something, so as she was brushing it off i looked up and saw her, we made eye contact. so i smiled and signed, what are you doing, feeling on your breasts (they are perfect), do that at home. she started laughing and singed, you are just jealous. Me, that i don't have breasts?, and we kept on signing for a total of about a minute.

Convos: 2

~Nickell