Hi,
Well I'm new to this forum so I hope this goes here. Anyways my name is Jonathan, and the thing is that I've had "one-itis" with this girl for almost 3 years now (which happens to be my best friend) and it has only accomplish one thing sunk me even deeper into relationships basically since I've only had 1 gf before I met this girl. But anyways a few days ago I decided to start letting her go, because I'm sure you all know it ain't that easy, not like saying yeah ok I'm over it, let's continue. So it's been kinda rough for me, but I'm hanging in there, however since she is my best friend, she just asked me a few days ago if we could just hang out, go to the movies, eat, etc.
And well I honestly couldn't deny for 2 reasons she being my best friend and good old "one-itis" however I want to know if you guys could give me some advice on what should I do, like stop seeing her for a while or if we go out like try to keep it as short as possible in the meaning that, for example we go to see a movie and that's it, movie ends everyone goes to his own way.
So what should I do?
Sorry for all the text up there, just need some help in getting over this, so I can move on and really start having a good time with friends and girls.
Well I'm new to this forum so I hope this goes here. Anyways my name is Jonathan, and the thing is that I've had "one-itis" with this girl for almost 3 years now (which happens to be my best friend) and it has only accomplish one thing sunk me even deeper into relationships basically since I've only had 1 gf before I met this girl. But anyways a few days ago I decided to start letting her go, because I'm sure you all know it ain't that easy, not like saying yeah ok I'm over it, let's continue. So it's been kinda rough for me, but I'm hanging in there, however since she is my best friend, she just asked me a few days ago if we could just hang out, go to the movies, eat, etc.
And well I honestly couldn't deny for 2 reasons she being my best friend and good old "one-itis" however I want to know if you guys could give me some advice on what should I do, like stop seeing her for a while or if we go out like try to keep it as short as possible in the meaning that, for example we go to see a movie and that's it, movie ends everyone goes to his own way.
So what should I do?
Sorry for all the text up there, just need some help in getting over this, so I can move on and really start having a good time with friends and girls.