Need Help guys... VACATION GONE BAD

[judoguy]

So i went away this weekend with my 2 year LTR.

We fought for 3 hours before we went on Friday night about some stupid bull**** because I didnt want to take my car. I told her I am not going away with her if she continues to behave like this. She then told me to get out of her house and I said fine with me. The fight ended w. her telling me to get out of her house and me leaving. I wa about 2 seconds away from pulling out in my car and leaving. She ended up running to my car to stop me when I was about to put the car in drive.


I ended up having to pack the car and drive 4 hours to Washington Dc while she slept the whole way. What was I gonna do ... I already paid for the dam hotel !


We fought again the next day and then had a fun day on Sunday. We had another huge fight on the way home today which ended with her calling me irresponsible and me screaming and calling her a ****ing *****. Again it was a silent 4 hour car ride. with her crying and sniffling loudly to make sure I heard her cry.

I think I need to end this relationship and just have fun being single. I need your opinion and support though fellas. This girl has been great to me and we have had great times but I just think its over because we just do not get along. I am still an AFC in these regards because I just cant picture her with another guy and I do not want to see her upset. I am also upset cuz she is a good girl and has stayed loyal to me while I was in Afghanistan.

I need motivation from you guys about how I shouldnt have to deal with this **** and teling me to break up with her or even if I should.


Thanks for the help guys....

I know i sound lame.... its hard

 

[judoguy]

man none of yall will help?


This board is not what it used to be...

 

[MushroomGod]

If its going bad then break it off. This decision is up to you.

 

[Killer Six Pac]

Sorry to hear about your problem... but some of us are worse then you and never even been in a relationship...we don't know everything...

 

[j0n024]

Jeez...your the one saying it's a bad relationship so man the fvck up and dump the b1tch **** grab your balls and dump her if not then continue to fight like a little b1tch....

 

[zinc64]

I'll try and help. First off, you shouldn't be calling her a %^%&&. Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship for either of you to me. You should talk to her and discuss that IF things don't change then it would be best for both of you to see other people instead of being unhappy all of the time. Just talk to her and try and change things and if that doesn't work be a man and move on.

 

[judoguy]

you guys suck

supposed to help motivate me and not back down

you just talked ****

 

[Illusionist]

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Hey guys... It's been awhile since I have been here. About 3 years actually.
I used to prowl the forums, my old name was snowboarder6578. Those were the days when Jester was the main poster. Anyway a little quick update and bio about me. I have come a long way in 3 years.

I found the boards and immediately began putting the DJ bible to action. I got into a 1 and 1/2 year LTR that I ended in August of 2005. I spent my 3rd semester in college having fun a few hookups, 1 f-close and a lot of #'s. I ended up joining the Army and got in another LTR.

I have been with my g/f now for over 2 years. I just got back from deployment and she has been faithful... that I know of ... so things are going well. That was May.

I will be attending University again this fall and I am happy with my life. I came on here for two reasons :

1. To say thanks to all the people who helped me become the man I am
2. To inspire people to show that even though you are depressed and sad now things in your life can turn around.

I am here to awnser questions about LTR's and continue to learn and grow as a man.

 

[judoguy]

ok yea... that was my post


and

your point?

 

[Being_the_Don]

Have you two always fought or is this something that's happened since you came back to her?

 

[MacAvoy]

maybe try posting in the MM forum, your audience will make a big difference

 

[sandman6991]

Considering he's 15..and by his responses..I'm not sure he belongs in the MM forum

 

[zinc64]

you guys suck

supposed to help motivate me and not back down

you just talked ****

Look, my post was being 100 percent honest. You need to have a serious convo with your girl about this matter without arguing and let her know that if it can't be fixed then it's time to move on. Otherwise, you are just spinning your wheels. Also, you shouldn't cuss your girl out ever. It's just unhealthy for both of you and will lead to worse things.

 

[Illusionist]

Hey guys... It's been awhile since I have been here. About 3 years actually.
I used to prowl the forums, my old name was snowboarder6578. Those were the days when Jester was the main poster. Anyway a little quick update and bio about me. I have come a long way in 3 years.

I found the boards and immediately began putting the DJ bible to action. I got into a 1 and 1/2 year LTR that I ended in August of 2005. I spent my 3rd semester in college having fun a few hookups, 1 f-close and a lot of #'s. I ended up joining the Army and got in another LTR.

I have been with my g/f now for over 2 years. I just got back from deployment and she has been faithful... that I know of ... so things are going well. That was May.

I will be attending University again this fall and I am happy with my life. I came on here for two reasons :

1. To say thanks to all the people who helped me become the man I am
2. To inspire people to show that even though you are depressed and sad now things in your life can turn around.

I am here to awnser questions about LTR's and continue to learn and grow as a man.

 

[redspicyflag]

holy sh!t

man if you're 15 and having problems like that

I don't know what to say


I've heard tho that if you can't get along on a vacation

it's not going to work when you live together

 

[Ultimate Player]

keep her around for sex and date other girls, its THAT simple

you are a don juan, YOU make YOUR OWN rules

**** what others think or want!!!

 

[DonJuan11]

So i went away this weekend with my 2 year LTR.

We fought for 3 hours before we went on Friday night about some stupid bull**** because I didnt want to take my car. I told her I am not going away with her if she continues to behave like this. She then told me to get out of her house and I said fine with me. The fight ended w. her telling me to get out of her house and me leaving. I wa about 2 seconds away from pulling out in my car and leaving. She ended up running to my car to stop me when I was about to put the car in drive.


I ended up having to pack the car and drive 4 hours to Washington Dc while she slept the whole way. What was I gonna do ... I already paid for the dam hotel !


We fought again the next day and then had a fun day on Sunday. We had another huge fight on the way home today which ended with her calling me irresponsible and me screaming and calling her a ****ing *****. Again it was a silent 4 hour car ride. with her crying and sniffling loudly to make sure I heard her cry.

I think I need to end this relationship and just have fun being single. I need your opinion and support though fellas. This girl has been great to me and we have had great times but I just think its over because we just do not get along. I am still an AFC in these regards because I just cant picture her with another guy and I do not want to see her upset. I am also upset cuz she is a good girl and has stayed loyal to me while I was in Afghanistan.

I need motivation from you guys about how I shouldnt have to deal with this **** and teling me to break up with her or even if I should.

If the good times with her outweigh the bad, then stay with her. If you want to be single because you can't handle the constant fights, then break it off.

It sounds like you want to stay with her because of the sex, but you also want to be single because you don't want to deal with all her emotional baggage. But you also don't want her to date any other guy either. I don't know if it works that way.

 

[judoguy]

Thanks for the help guys...

I guess I am gonna have to do some soul searching


Alot of the problem is I read FR's on here and get jealous because I want to be goign out with/ laying multiple women. I am only 21 and shouldnt be tied down.

There is another side to me however that says I have a good thing here and shouldnt ruin it.


BTW I am 21, not 15. I am a combat vet and have experienced more at 21 then most have their whole lives. IDK where he got that I was 15


Anyway thnx for the help again.

 

[Illusionist]

Thanks for the help guys...

I guess I am gonna have to do some soul searching


Alot of the problem is I read FR's on here and get jealous because I want to be goign out with/ laying multiple women. I am only 21 and shouldnt be tied down.

There is another side to me however that says I have a good thing here and shouldnt ruin it.


BTW I am 21, not 15. I am a combat vet and have experienced more at 21 then most have their whole lives. IDK where he got that I was 15


Anyway thnx for the help again.

ur 15...

 

[judoguy]

wow the quality of this board has really gone done.

Now I have a troll claiming I am 15.



awesome.