Need Help guys... VACATION GONE BAD

[comic_relief]

My advice after having been in a one year LTR and in another for almost nine months, my advice is as follows:

My ex-girlfriend was a great girl (I use the term great as never cheated on me and would always be there to see me), but she was very manipulative, stalker-ish, and very clingy to the point that we would always get into fights over stupid sh!t. After a year and a few months, I broke it off completely and was extremely happy without the relationship.

If you are posting a post like this, then I see it as you are having doubts about the relationship (which would actually mean that you are thinking about breaking up).

I am not going to tell you what to do, but I think "you can't see the forest because of the trees."

comic_relief

 

[DonGorgon]

Sounds like PMS to me... When women are emotionally invested in you their PMS GETS VERY TERRIBLE in many cases. You need to have a calm talk with her about the situation if she does not want to improve it then bail. Cause sometimes women start missbehaving hen they are about to leave you.

 

[romangod]

Thanks for the help guys...

I guess I am gonna have to do some soul searching


Alot of the problem is I read FR's on here and get jealous because I want to be goign out with/ laying multiple women. I am only 21 and shouldnt be tied down.

There is another side to me however that says I have a good thing here and shouldnt ruin it.

You hit the nail on the head. Do some soul searching and get the answers to your questions. You are young and will have many more women after this one. Put it all in its proper perspective and everything will work out fine. Good luck.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Here's some advice: Next time she runs up to the car as you're about to put it in drive, put it in drive and drive. The moment you hesitated was the moment she knew she had you. This was the point you capitulated to her frame. This was the moment she knew she had control.

You already know you need to DTB, you don't need anyone here to tell you this. You only need to ask yourself what's stopping you from doing so.