Lostsoul85 said:
I feel like i am not a very interesting person and even if i get phone numbers from women while doing the DJ bootcamp i don't think i can offer them much besides my desire for sex.The only area which i am knowledgeable about is sports, i know a little bit for psychology(from my years of studying Pua), a little bit about Philosophy/religion.I don't know much about pop culture since i don't really watch tv or listen to music.So i was thinking if i should spend a month going to comedy clubs reading pop culture magazines or something appealing to women so i can have something interesting to say.Or should i just start the bootcamp?
You're trying too hard to please the girl.
Stop trying to please her and stop trying to get her to like you. Just figure out if you like her and be really, really ambiguous and secretive. If it doesn't work at first,
don't worry about it. Nobody does a backflip perfectly on their first try without practice, and nobody benches 300 lbs. if they've never even been to the gym.
Just keep going, keep your head up and remember that it's not about the girls. It's about
you. Stay happy without girls and make sure
YOU are the one testing the
GIRLS.
Just start by asking her questions about herself. When she says something interesting, ask about it. Keep going. Add input if you like, but don't tell her your life story right away.
YOU are testing
HER. If you tell her your life story, you've already deemed her "worthy", and are therefore
not testing her anymore.
Keep testing her. Make her feel on edge. Like she has to
work for you.
Basic questions: Where are you from?
What do you like to do in your free time?
Do you enjoy (insert something you really enjoy here)?
Etc.
Remember, men are creatures of
action. Women are the ones who
talk. You want to be able to
listen to her
and do action.
Don't talk a woman to death. She wants a man,
not another woman.
Like many people have suggested, try an "Action date". Those will keep you entertained and not awkward. I find that I can think more clearly when I'm moving, anyways. Plus, it will give you something fun to talk about and it will show her that you're not another boring AFC.
Most of all, man, just have
fun with this. It's not about success every time. Remember that
life is a journey, and you are to be growing every day. If you fvck up today, you have tomorrow to try again when you're stronger.
Namaste.