Evensteven
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I'm going to David D's Man Transformation seminar in LA in a couple weeks and need to figure a few things out. I'm from NC so I'm taking a weeks vacation to go and not really comfortable telling people why I'm going.
The main problem is I'm fairly new to the game and have suddenly found myself very sexually involved with this girl I've been dating and I'm not sure what to tell her when I leave in a few weeks. We've been talking/having sex for several weeks and although I have not indicated any interest in a serious/exclusive relationship I think she is falling pretty hard. I don't want to be careless with her and I'm not ready to end this relationship either. Just want to keep dating other people even though I'm not really seeing anyone else right now. I could make something up (but I really don't want to) or tell her I'm just going by myself for the hell of it but that might seem weird.
Any ideas? What if I just tell her why I am going? It WAS planned before we ever met. I totally expect to have a "what are we" conversation with her at some point wether I like it or not but not really ready for that yet. The sex is effing incredible BTW.
I don't really know what to tell other people in my life either. With people at work I can just say I'm going. Parents: I can probably tell them and it won't really matter but they won't understand (they are really conservative). Good friends: kind of not sure how to explain disappearing to LA for a week. As a bit of background, I usually either go see friends somewhere on vacation or go on a huge kayaking or snowboarding adventure so this is a little out of character for me since I don't know anyone in LA.
Again the goal is to avoid lying because I don't want to weave a tangled web with anyone really.
The main problem is I'm fairly new to the game and have suddenly found myself very sexually involved with this girl I've been dating and I'm not sure what to tell her when I leave in a few weeks. We've been talking/having sex for several weeks and although I have not indicated any interest in a serious/exclusive relationship I think she is falling pretty hard. I don't want to be careless with her and I'm not ready to end this relationship either. Just want to keep dating other people even though I'm not really seeing anyone else right now. I could make something up (but I really don't want to) or tell her I'm just going by myself for the hell of it but that might seem weird.
Any ideas? What if I just tell her why I am going? It WAS planned before we ever met. I totally expect to have a "what are we" conversation with her at some point wether I like it or not but not really ready for that yet. The sex is effing incredible BTW.
I don't really know what to tell other people in my life either. With people at work I can just say I'm going. Parents: I can probably tell them and it won't really matter but they won't understand (they are really conservative). Good friends: kind of not sure how to explain disappearing to LA for a week. As a bit of background, I usually either go see friends somewhere on vacation or go on a huge kayaking or snowboarding adventure so this is a little out of character for me since I don't know anyone in LA.
Again the goal is to avoid lying because I don't want to weave a tangled web with anyone really.