i'm not going to write an analysis on psychology out here but i'll just try a modest approach to figure out what buttons they are pushing and what are the factors that are working for them.
1. they are quiet. they creates a kind of mystery. mystery is challenge. mystery attracts.
2. quiet only works when they are different and automatically gets attention. whether they are childish nerd working on his computer all the time, whether he is muscular jock dancing on the field, whatever. he is different.
3. who said girls won't approach you? they will. but you need to create the situation. but that is hard. girls naturally flirt. girls naturally seduce. girls naturally look at a guy at the corner of their eye and lure him to come over to them rather than go up straight to him and say "you are interesting; i'd like to get to you better". but when such a girl sees you everyday and you get her attention and she is curious to know more about you and you have the situation where she might one day decide to come to you for some reason, then you got it. it's simple.
if you have read robert greene's book "art of seduction", you would understand this is coquetry at play.
you would see that most of these guys are playing hard to get and even have girls obsessing over them...this is the power of indirect game.
1. they are quiet. they creates a kind of mystery. mystery is challenge. mystery attracts.
2. quiet only works when they are different and automatically gets attention. whether they are childish nerd working on his computer all the time, whether he is muscular jock dancing on the field, whatever. he is different.
3. who said girls won't approach you? they will. but you need to create the situation. but that is hard. girls naturally flirt. girls naturally seduce. girls naturally look at a guy at the corner of their eye and lure him to come over to them rather than go up straight to him and say "you are interesting; i'd like to get to you better". but when such a girl sees you everyday and you get her attention and she is curious to know more about you and you have the situation where she might one day decide to come to you for some reason, then you got it. it's simple.
if you have read robert greene's book "art of seduction", you would understand this is coquetry at play.
you would see that most of these guys are playing hard to get and even have girls obsessing over them...this is the power of indirect game.