"Naturals" that are quiet

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i'm not going to write an analysis on psychology out here but i'll just try a modest approach to figure out what buttons they are pushing and what are the factors that are working for them.

1. they are quiet. they creates a kind of mystery. mystery is challenge. mystery attracts.
2. quiet only works when they are different and automatically gets attention. whether they are childish nerd working on his computer all the time, whether he is muscular jock dancing on the field, whatever. he is different.
3. who said girls won't approach you? they will. but you need to create the situation. but that is hard. girls naturally flirt. girls naturally seduce. girls naturally look at a guy at the corner of their eye and lure him to come over to them rather than go up straight to him and say "you are interesting; i'd like to get to you better". but when such a girl sees you everyday and you get her attention and she is curious to know more about you and you have the situation where she might one day decide to come to you for some reason, then you got it. it's simple.

if you have read robert greene's book "art of seduction", you would understand this is coquetry at play.

you would see that most of these guys are playing hard to get and even have girls obsessing over them...this is the power of indirect game.
 

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Austin3.8 said:
Haha yeah, it works for me, thats all I can say.

I should also say that I don't do all that to girls that I want to date.
what do you mean by motorboat? like is that when you vibrate your lips to make a Motor sound, and blow into her cleavage?
 

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The only way to be a quiet natural is if you are extremely good looking. Then you are simply using your looks to do for you what your mouth does not need too.

If you try to play the quiet game around a confident, well-spoken natural, you are going to get outgamed in most cases because they will engage your target, have a fun stimulating conversation while you stand there doing your "quiet game" thing.
 

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There are quiet guys who get women, but you don't read about them much because that style would be very hard to teach. Most pickup material would have you believe that it's only the dancing monkey/life of the party that makes himself the center of attention that gets laid. That style is easy to teach and probably most maximizes your chances.

Some guys aren't comfortable in crowds but are really good one on one.

Some guys aren't shy, but just aren't interested in being very social. If they see someone they want to talk to though, they will. There was this guy I used to work with, hardly ever said a word but talked to all the prettiest girls all the time.

Some girls see a quiet guy and it drives them crazy that he doesn't act interested in them because they're used to guys falling all over them. So they go out of their way to interest him.

James Bond never said much, he was more the strong silent type. He was self assured, but wasn't the life of the party type.
 

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itishe said:
My question is I see guys who are quiet that get a ton of ass. They'll be dead silent around women yet some how manage to bang over 20 chicks by the time college rolls around. I'm curious how their "style" works in a system that advocates constant jabbering over subjects we all could care less to hear about.
i disagree that ther are THAT many quiet naturals many of them are probably lying

OR maybe they just use Rohypnol?
 

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Maxtro said:
Quiet guys that get lots of girls? I think "quiet natural" is an oxymoron.

I'm a quiet guy and I've gotten no ass because of it.
Maxtro, imagine you're a guy already successful with women, and then you come across a guy called "Maxtro".
You're curious and so you review some of his 2,426 posts.

You realise something is wrong, something is very wrong here.
In all his wisdom and glory, he's still acting no better than a regular in the HS Forums.

You ask yourself: "Why can't Maxtro get laid?"
 

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I'm normally quiet and successful nonetheless. I'm very confident. My body language is perfect (read: alpha). I flirt out of habit with nearly every girl I talk to, just saying less than they do. I always control the frame. Don't know what else to say.... Roissy describes alot of the things I do when he talks about game.
 

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BeyondCharm said:
The only way to be a quiet natural is if you are extremely good looking. Then you are simply using your looks to do for you what your mouth does not need too.

If you try to play the quiet game around a confident, well-spoken natural, you are going to get outgamed in most cases because they will engage your target, have a fun stimulating conversation while you stand there doing your "quiet game" thing.
Quiet natural is on oxymoron unless like BeyondCharm said, you're extremely good looking. Also if you're a low-key rich guy or have high status, then being a quiet natural can help here.

A quiet natural is one who doesn't have to try. Otherwise, here again, it's an oxymoron. If you're a natural and you're trying and you're verbally initiating, you're a natural, minus the quiet.
 

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