Alright!
Last week i had a job interview. I recently quit my study because i didn't like it, and i will start a different one after the summer holiday. Till then i'm going to work full-time.
I e-mailed them with a good letter (i'm good at writing, i always was). I got invited for an interview with a phone number i had to call. It was a woman on the other end of the phone and the conversation went great. I made jokes but still kept it polite enough to stay professional. Then i made an appointment for the actual interview. It was a blonde girl, nice figure and a pretty hot face. She really had a vibe of confidence. I mean, if you'd see her in a photo, you'd probably not find her attractive. But her vibe, her naughty-ish way of smiling, screamed "i'm a beast in bed and i know it". The interview went fucking great. I was totally confident, held eye contact and was ****y as hell compared to my usual style.
some examples:
(her telling about the company, it's a huge computer store that's aimed at customizing your own computer)
Her: the average age of people working here is around 25
Me: alright, so i'll be bringing down that average a bit, haha (i'm 21)
Her: yea, i guess (i could tell she liked the funny little comment)
Me: And of course,.. you too [big shark smile]
Her: ha ha [breaking eye contact, looking down] i guess
BOOM GOAL i yelled inside my head. Another example:
Her: We have a really informal atmosphere here
Me: So i shouldn't say 'you' to you (in Dutch, there are two ways of saying the word you to someone. One normal way, and one formal/respective way. The last one is used in buisness meetings, people who are your boss, the elderly, the police etc... If you'd use the informal way in those situations, it's considered inappropriate or even offensive/disrespectful)
Her: noooo, i'd feel old hahaha
Me: Ah get outta here. I already made clear i don't think you look old (i guess her around 25)
She loved it. It was awesome.
Another one:
Her: We also dress casually, so you don't have to worry about that
Me: Well i guess i'm a bit overdressed here (i had my suit on)
Her: No. That's good, you did great.
Sweet, a compliment.
She also told me she thought it was cool i played the electric guitar (i also had a section of 'hobbies' in my profile i sent them)
To test my basic PC-knowledge, there was a mainboard with some cards in it and i had to tell what was what. When we both left the room i spasticly looked left and right and pretended to put one of the cards that was on the mainboard in my blazer to steal it. She laughed her ass off and thought it was the funniest thing.
The very next day i got a call that i got the job.
Afterwards i couldn't believe how confident, relaxed and cool i was during that conversation. A year ago i wouldn't be able to pull this off. I'm not hooking up with chicks yet or getting laid, but this is definitely a very nice and big step in the right direction. I'm now being calm, confident and in control of situations and conversations with chicks that are HOT. This is normal for a lot of guys, but this is new for me. The confidence and coolness i radiate outw_ards (is that a swear word? Just turn that stupid nonsense filter off for ****s sake) is times 1000 compared to a year ago. I worked two days there now [just got home] and all my collegues love me (even though i'm a ****ing newbie idiot who asks stupid questions every 5 minutes). I'm getting out of, what you guys call, the AFC zone. **** YEA. I feel ****ING GREAT.
Another update soon...
Last week i had a job interview. I recently quit my study because i didn't like it, and i will start a different one after the summer holiday. Till then i'm going to work full-time.
I e-mailed them with a good letter (i'm good at writing, i always was). I got invited for an interview with a phone number i had to call. It was a woman on the other end of the phone and the conversation went great. I made jokes but still kept it polite enough to stay professional. Then i made an appointment for the actual interview. It was a blonde girl, nice figure and a pretty hot face. She really had a vibe of confidence. I mean, if you'd see her in a photo, you'd probably not find her attractive. But her vibe, her naughty-ish way of smiling, screamed "i'm a beast in bed and i know it". The interview went fucking great. I was totally confident, held eye contact and was ****y as hell compared to my usual style.
some examples:
(her telling about the company, it's a huge computer store that's aimed at customizing your own computer)
Her: the average age of people working here is around 25
Me: alright, so i'll be bringing down that average a bit, haha (i'm 21)
Her: yea, i guess (i could tell she liked the funny little comment)
Me: And of course,.. you too [big shark smile]
Her: ha ha [breaking eye contact, looking down] i guess
BOOM GOAL i yelled inside my head. Another example:
Her: We have a really informal atmosphere here
Me: So i shouldn't say 'you' to you (in Dutch, there are two ways of saying the word you to someone. One normal way, and one formal/respective way. The last one is used in buisness meetings, people who are your boss, the elderly, the police etc... If you'd use the informal way in those situations, it's considered inappropriate or even offensive/disrespectful)
Her: noooo, i'd feel old hahaha
Me: Ah get outta here. I already made clear i don't think you look old (i guess her around 25)
She loved it. It was awesome.
Another one:
Her: We also dress casually, so you don't have to worry about that
Me: Well i guess i'm a bit overdressed here (i had my suit on)
Her: No. That's good, you did great.
Sweet, a compliment.
She also told me she thought it was cool i played the electric guitar (i also had a section of 'hobbies' in my profile i sent them)
To test my basic PC-knowledge, there was a mainboard with some cards in it and i had to tell what was what. When we both left the room i spasticly looked left and right and pretended to put one of the cards that was on the mainboard in my blazer to steal it. She laughed her ass off and thought it was the funniest thing.
The very next day i got a call that i got the job.
Afterwards i couldn't believe how confident, relaxed and cool i was during that conversation. A year ago i wouldn't be able to pull this off. I'm not hooking up with chicks yet or getting laid, but this is definitely a very nice and big step in the right direction. I'm now being calm, confident and in control of situations and conversations with chicks that are HOT. This is normal for a lot of guys, but this is new for me. The confidence and coolness i radiate outw_ards (is that a swear word? Just turn that stupid nonsense filter off for ****s sake) is times 1000 compared to a year ago. I worked two days there now [just got home] and all my collegues love me (even though i'm a ****ing newbie idiot who asks stupid questions every 5 minutes). I'm getting out of, what you guys call, the AFC zone. **** YEA. I feel ****ING GREAT.
Another update soon...
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