I'm kind of new here, so I'm going to give you guys a little backround on myself. I'm currently in my 2nd year of college. I look at myself as quite a good-looking guy, in fact I think i rely too much on my looks to pull girls. Now I know you guys are thinking ok this kid gets no a$$, but thats not it at all. See my problem I feel is quite unique. If I'm just going up to a girl that I've known for a while I can sit there and talk to her for however long I want. But if I go up to a girl with intentions of trying to hook her in, I 95% of the time blank out. I don't know what it is but it happens. I'll talk to them for 2 minutes, then have ABSOLUTELY nothing to say...Now you guys are thinking...how does he get a$$ then. I really couldn't tell you. Sometimes I just don't realize that I'm hitting on a girl (yes sounds weird but its true) and I end up being able to talk to them till forever and end up pulling them, but I want to change this because I don't want to not be able to pull who I want, when i want.
So here's my most recent example.
I made out with a girl last weekend. She just broke up with her BF so shes on the rebound and since then I have been trying to pull her. 2 nights ago I was talking to her and all that I heard myself talking to her about was taking shots and that kind of stuff and I mean I know thats fun to talk about in moderation while your out but I really had NOTHING else to say. Last night same story only I went up to her said hello talked for about 2 minutes then turned around to talk to someone else because I was out of stuff to talk about. Now this girl is gorgeous (one of the hottest girls I've EVER made out with) and I want to keep this going. I CAN NOT mess this up.
So heres my question to you guys...WHY do I blank out and how can I fix this. Its not even that I get nervous because I really don't I just dont know what is wrong with me and I need to fix this...QUICK.
So here's my most recent example.
I made out with a girl last weekend. She just broke up with her BF so shes on the rebound and since then I have been trying to pull her. 2 nights ago I was talking to her and all that I heard myself talking to her about was taking shots and that kind of stuff and I mean I know thats fun to talk about in moderation while your out but I really had NOTHING else to say. Last night same story only I went up to her said hello talked for about 2 minutes then turned around to talk to someone else because I was out of stuff to talk about. Now this girl is gorgeous (one of the hottest girls I've EVER made out with) and I want to keep this going. I CAN NOT mess this up.
So heres my question to you guys...WHY do I blank out and how can I fix this. Its not even that I get nervous because I really don't I just dont know what is wrong with me and I need to fix this...QUICK.