Co-signed the stop drinking. It combined with depressive thoughts from the divorce will drag you down further and deeper. It's about the worse thing you can do. It's time to take some control and put together a male action plan and implement it daily. Don't ask wife to come home, she has to ask you. Instead focus on getting better.
Actually, one of the additional problems he has is mixing business with pleasure. There's no way his wife should have been helping build the company, while he also carries on an on-going relationship with an employee of the company.
There is actually a much easier guideline to follow from now on........
Dude if she is willing to do the divorce but NOT clean you out......consider that a hugeeeeeee blessing.
He will probably get married again in the future I can almost guarantee it. His wife is an anomaly but quality women do exist, they just end up married to guys like him that take them for granted lol. Funny world we live in.
Did he say he was Indian? Their women tend to be loyal.
My position isn't that quality women don't exist, my stances (in that regard) have always been the following:
Yes here it depends on which part of country you are. My wife was very loyal to me and I cheated on her but the same way around my gf cheated on me. Girls are very confused in India.
You know what real quality is to me? It's nothing more than me benefiting from being with her.Like today she invites me to Thanksgiving dinner with all the trimmings,I tell her that this is the real test to see what a good cook she is.....she tells me she is making a pumpkin pie (even though I don't eat carbs she knows this) I tell her she is a very naughty girl,she says what are you going to do about it ? the frame push never ends.
I always enjoy this playful banter. I would respond with "I will spank your ass repeatedly until you beg for mercy. Wait till I see you!"
The point I was trying to illustrate is that there are women who aren't interested in cleaning you out in court even in the event that you are to divorce. It's a character they have probably due to upbringing, sadly American women aren't like this so no luck there (by the various accounts I've read online). It does show that cultural differences play a big part in these types of character traits, the likelihood of an African American woman behaving like this Indian lady, the types of women you predominantly go after, is almost nil.
You're seriously delusional if you think your world views are shared by everyone else or worse yet that our experiences and conclusions will align. That is stupidity. You had a harem and have gone out picking up women and discovered this 10 years ago through your experiences and knowledge. Good for you, how is that relevant to anyone else? You expect other people to not chase what they determine by their own criteria are quality women because you were hanging with a handful of women and conjured up a theory!
So you cheated on you wife and your girlfriend cheated on you...deal with it and move on. Either stop cheating or find someone else to do it with. Problem solved.
