Player Supreme, thanks for being so straight-forward. I like that.
This was actually the scenario:
Her: Guess what? I'm gonna go to the club on Thursday!
Moi: Cool. *I start wondering if she's gonna grind with other guys* Who u going with?
Her: My girlfriends.
Moi: Who u gonna dance with?
Her: Um.. people. Guys?
Moi: Oh. Cool. I was wondering.. isn't grinding kinda like cheating?
Her: It's just dancing. Besides, I don't dance like that.
Moi: Just dancing? What if I go to the strip club and a stripper rubs all over me?
Her: Um.. I don't know.
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I know the way I responded was pretty AFCish, but she never said she was gonna grind with other guys. She said she doesn't dance like "that," meaning she doesn't grind, but I know that guys are gonna go up to her and attempt to grind. Its inevitable. If she were a good girl, she'd back away. I should go grind with other girls, but I don't wanna be a hyprocrite. If I saw her doing it, then I would. I'd prolly dump her too afterwards. I just don't view grinding with other guys to be suitable in a relationship.
I apologize for not being specific about the scenario in my first post, but you guys have given me some really good responses.
Player_Supreme, I like your straight-forward style. Some DJs are easy on AFCs fearing that they're being too harsh. All-out is the way to go.