To answer why I did it. Simply twenty years from now when I look back on life and reflect on who I am as a person, or what I've done throughout the years. The DJ Bible was THE turning point, THE defining moment. Like I said, I didn't solely use the DJ Bible to go pick up chicks or learn how to hook up with girls. It was a complete lifestyle change, it taught me how to be a person.
From focusing on building inner confidence, how to dress, how to present yourself, how to be vocal, proper etiquette, how to talk properly, how to be observant. I mean maybe all of you questioning me have some or all of these skills your entire lives. Well two thumbs up for you, have a cookie and shove it. I did NOT have ANY of those qualities growing up, they just weren't taught to me until this DJ board came into my life. Maybe you guys learned it from your parents or siblings at a young age or are just natural at it, well I'm not embarrassed to say I had to learn about it from reading a forum online. Being raised in an Asian household, learning how to build character and personality, and a lifestyle wasn't acceptable. The only thing that mattered was grades. Might sound unfathomable to you guys but that's how I was raised.
From being passive, a doormat, quiet, and the guy that stood in the background at parties, pre-DJ. To the alpha male, to the person that everyone didn't want to leave at parties, the person that gets told "man it won't be the same if you don't come out with us." This DJ board was the one single moment that will stand out in my life where I can absolutely look back, point to it and say I am the person that I am now because of it and nothing else.
I haven't kept up with the forums for a while, so maybe things have changed. The bible I realize, to all these newer folks that are members from 2006, 2008, 2009 just might not understand the bible like I do. Because the resources for self-help, pick up game, and all that are infinite nowadays with all these books, shows, radio interviews, and videos. Well back then there may have only been a handful of places you could go for this information and the sosuave was one of them. You might even look at the DJ bible right now and think all that stuff is wrong, and maybe in 2010 some of that stuff might not work, but in 2003 all those things did work, that's why they were there. Back then, on this board we exclusively used the term DJ to described somebody with game, before the term PUA started becoming popular and more widely accepted. Some history for you younger kids.
As far as my board name goes I stopped logging in back in 2004, and was a member in early 2003 or late 2002. That's why I have the MMIII on the spine of the bible, to remind me of when the turning point was for me. But I can't remember the name, I even tried a member search from specific dates and went through the list of 12,000 names trying to see a name that would jump out at me and click in my head but it didn't work. But if after reading this, you can't see how passionate I am about this, or think I got the tattoo on a whim. I put a lot of careful thought into it, and I would be proud to take this tattoo to the grave with me.
