Regarding "Seduction Techniques"
Universe, PDX, and others – have you discarded anything? If I were to hand you a simple test, where for every correct answer and idea regarding seduction you wrote you were paid 100 dollars, I believe you guys would make quite a profit! If I showed flashcard of girls and their body language in relation to a man, I bet you could tell me if they were interested.
Having been at this site for a few years, I have been through the cycle of harsh failure, researching specific techniques, applying those tools, mildly succeeding, assimilating the tools that worked into my character, and truly succeeding many times. None of these cycles has been as explicitly defined as the current:
After my first relationship (half a year) came to a crashing halt, I immediately attempted to rebound and meet new women to help me forget the last. After I struggled, finding the confidence to make one (disastrous) approach over the course of a three hour evening, I realized I was rusty. I promised myself I would make 1,000 approaches as fast as possible in order to make up for time lost. I hoped that by 100 I would find moderate success, by 300 I would be as good as I was just prior to entering the relationship, by 500 I would be noticeably better than I was in my ‘prime,’ and by 1,000 I would be one of the best PUAs in the Western New York State area, regardless of age, income, or special circumstance.
I surfed the net, spoke with a few PUA friends, and scribbled out a note card of all of the most important techniques in seduction. Things I did with little thought only half a year earlier, now required a constant, tangible reminder.
At first, I would re-read my note card in the men’s room moments before a hesitant, half hearted approach. At a lul in the conversation I would remember “Kino!” and work to implement it during the rest of the conversation. I would realize that 15 minutes had passed and I was still in the first set of average looking girls Id opened that night, and I wanted to work the room and be a “Challenge!” I would see some gorgeous girls, take a deep breath, contemplate running away, and realize “Confidence!”
Six weeks and 172 approaches later I am approaching very well. I see hot girls and I “Confidently” walk up. I “Charismatically” enter the set, inviting everyone around me into a fun, interesting conversation. I “Charmingly” display my interest towards a target and isolate. When girls leave themselves open, I tease them in a “****y, yet funny” way, without even thinking. I do not formally employ patterns, but I do choose my words carefully in order to “Stimulate” and “Create Emotion.”
I am a soccer goalkeeper on the state team. If someone throws a soccer ball at me, I catch it without thinking. If I see a girl, I apply a plethora of techniques without even thinking. I am willing to wager that if I were to wing for you, I could notice hundreds of specific incidents over the course of a night where you employed seduction tools. I do not believe you have disregarded them… I think you have assimilated them.
