Here's what's up: My best bud's been seeing this girl, we'll call her HBWildEyes for about 4 months now. They like each other enough and get along. Thing is, my friend is an AFC!
On a particularly warm spring afternoon, I chatted to HBWildEyes thru AIM where she revealed to me that she is extremely dissatisfied with the progression of her relationship with my friend.
She says that he is moving WAY to slow. Her own words: "I just want to tell him 'my body is ur temple, do with it as you please' but he just sits there!"
I encouraged her to keep going and tell me what else was wrong. She tells me: "Well, I picked up on this, I guess you'd call it HESITANCY he has about everything"
Ok, so as you can see, he's an AFC. I coax her onward and she tells me "And today my parents aren't even home and he [my friend] isn't even working. I mean hello." I told her that I didn't know why he wasn't doing anything either! I asked her if she wanted me to talk to him, but she said no. A bit more chit-chat and she confesses to me that she is extremely turned-on by me, and I humor her with a "dream" I had of her.
Yes, I am a bad man. But I don't know if I am bad enough to get with her and have my friend hate me forever. I'm trying to find a way to be diplomatic about all of this. This girl is SO COOL, but I want to have everyone happy, or at least not UNHAPPY. I can't think of a way to do this.
BTW, she "took a break" from him, which means they are about to break up.
Please don't say "bros before hos" because I'm not looking at that as an option. I like this girl more than you know, and everything would be smooth-sailing if only my friend could handle this in a mature manner, not give a fukk, or simply never ever know about me and her. I greatly appreciate input, thanks!
On a particularly warm spring afternoon, I chatted to HBWildEyes thru AIM where she revealed to me that she is extremely dissatisfied with the progression of her relationship with my friend.
She says that he is moving WAY to slow. Her own words: "I just want to tell him 'my body is ur temple, do with it as you please' but he just sits there!"
I encouraged her to keep going and tell me what else was wrong. She tells me: "Well, I picked up on this, I guess you'd call it HESITANCY he has about everything"
Ok, so as you can see, he's an AFC. I coax her onward and she tells me "And today my parents aren't even home and he [my friend] isn't even working. I mean hello." I told her that I didn't know why he wasn't doing anything either! I asked her if she wanted me to talk to him, but she said no. A bit more chit-chat and she confesses to me that she is extremely turned-on by me, and I humor her with a "dream" I had of her.
Yes, I am a bad man. But I don't know if I am bad enough to get with her and have my friend hate me forever. I'm trying to find a way to be diplomatic about all of this. This girl is SO COOL, but I want to have everyone happy, or at least not UNHAPPY. I can't think of a way to do this.
BTW, she "took a break" from him, which means they are about to break up.
Please don't say "bros before hos" because I'm not looking at that as an option. I like this girl more than you know, and everything would be smooth-sailing if only my friend could handle this in a mature manner, not give a fukk, or simply never ever know about me and her. I greatly appreciate input, thanks!
) was because hes your BEST FRIEND. I guarantee u, no girl in highschool will ever get inbetween me and my best friend. Think about it. She might be a great girl, but there are plenty others. Anyways, if u still really want this girl, u have to be PATIENT. U have to WAIT. Wait for a few weeks/months after ure friend breaks up with her. THen ask him whether he would mind if u went out with her.
