Moved in with girlfriend and no sex

[Nutz]

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Last time she came twice and trust me it wasnt fake i wont go into details but it wasnt.

Based on what else you have said so far, I wouldn't count on that.

Well that I assure you wasn't fake, i wasnt gonna go into detail but i might as weel to explain it. I didnt cvm yet and there was cvm to be seen, so if it wasnt mine it had to be somebodys.

Dude, uh, that means someone else nutted up inside her. Chicks dont have semen, so either you busted one and didn't realize it (not likely) or she slept with someone else and that was his jizz leaking out.

 

[crazymedstudent]

Dude, uh, that means someone else nutted up inside her. Chicks dont have semen, so either you busted one and didn't realize it (not likely) or she slept with someone else and that was his jizz leaking out.

dude...girls can have ejaculate too. you should know that from your name!

 

[Nutz]

dude...girls can have ejaculate too. you should know that from your name!

It's way different from what men usually have though.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Dude, uh, that means someone else nutted up inside her. Chicks dont have semen, so either you busted one and didn't realize it (not likely) or she slept with someone else and that was his jizz leaking out.

umm i never called it semen, but yes chicks do *** r u serious lol?

 

[DJinTraining06]

It's way different from what men usually have though.

Of course it's different but i've had enough experience to know what it looks like. It wasn't mine and it wasn't another guys leaking out she was with my since the night before lol

 

[DJinTraining06]

I love this guy. :high five!: I can't agree more with everything he said.

For guys in similar situations like the OP, start listening to Tom Leykis please. Almost all of this crap can be prevented if you took his finer points seriously.

Yea i really regret movin in with her, i mean i do eventually want to be married with kids, but why did i take away the remaining good times (with her i mean) before marriage. She was so different and there was like a mystery, she had no idea what i was doing for all she knew i was cheatin on her and she actually did suspect stuff a few times. She used always dress and look great wheneer i saw her, now we live together and she wears old ratty clothes and i see her ass crack sometimes. She eats unhealthy food and has been gaining weight and burps constantly, which is cool for a girl but all the time? Im just bummed about this lately, cuz really what is in this relationship for me? Girls seem to think were so damm lucky to have them, but meanwhile they stop doin everything that attracted us to them in the first place. No more bj's, no more sex, looks sloppy and gaining weight, hardly ever cooks and if she does god forbid she doesnt leaving me a sink full of dishes and pans even if she was home all day and i worked. She cleans half of wat i do, maybe im just a neat guy but hey i like to take care of my place and possessions not leave them all over the place where the cat can get to them.

Now u say why r u still there? Why not leave? But really isnt it like this with every girl? Sure i could b out playin the field sleeping with more than 1 woman, but eventually im gonna wanna settle down, and wont all girls be like this? Once they got u they put no effort into the realtionship and still expect u to treat them like some beautiful princess

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

She used always dress and look great wheneer i saw her, now we live together and she wears old ratty clothes and i see her ass crack sometimes. She eats unhealthy food and has been gaining weight and burps constantly,.. No more bj's, no more sex, looks sloppy and gaining weight, hardly ever cooks and if she does god forbid she doesnt leaving me a sink full of dishes and pans even if she was home all day and i worked.

If you took this story over to LoveShack.org and reversed the genders by saying, "He used always dress and look great wheneer i saw him, now we live together and he wears old ratty clothes and i see his ass crack sometimes. He eats unhealthy food and has been gaining weight and burps constantly,..", I assure you, every woman in that forum would be screaming at their monitors at the top of their lungs, JUST LEAVE HIM GIRL!!!

But not you, you're in love, you want to breed and raise children with this girl.

 

[Guoy Darko]

First page. Bible Belt is right.

 

[The Logical Player]

look at the threads you have started about this guuuuuurlfriend of yours (you have been dating for 2 years, so these are about her I am 100% sure:

Girlfriend's demanding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131788

Relationships are not all that great:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=120608

Im in the doghouse:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147199

Girlfriend's behavior changing:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=120054

GF getting on my nerves:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=118229



DUDE, YOU are part of the reason that society has turned so AFC, from deciding to "have a guuuurlfriend" because thats what your AFC mind has been programmed to do, to tolerating BULLSHYT behavior, which all of your threads reference, to not being the LEADER and the MAN in your relationship (I mean shyt, if you are going to be in a committed relationship, you gotta at least do it the right way!!!), and now you have moved in with this bytch, and are manipulated by a love that isn't real, and all in all....i just can't give you advice, so I hope your soul and heart get ripped open by this bytch, because thats the ONLY way you will learn - **** you dude seriously, for not taking dozens and dozens of pages of advice, and continuing to be a MAJOR AFC

I only wish you had called Tom Leykis while he was on the air, he would have EMBARASSED YOU for being such a loser

 

[Nutz]

If you took this story over to LoveShack.org and reversed the genders by saying, "He used always dress and look great wheneer i saw him, now we live together and he wears old ratty clothes and i see his ass crack sometimes. He eats unhealthy food and has been gaining weight and burps constantly,..", I assure you, every woman in that forum would be screaming at their monitors at the top of their lungs, JUST LEAVE HIM GIRL!!!

But not you, you're in love, you want to breed and raise children with this girl.

Cant check that site from work, but this weekend I'll have to post over there and do just that. Should be fun when I have the big "reveal" after they all tell me to leave "him" and I post a link to this thread

 

[goodfoot]

Post a link to their thread too so we can see the responses.

 

[Nutz]

Post a link to their thread too so we can see the responses.

Will do.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Now u say why r u still there? Why not leave? But really isnt it like this with every girl? Sure i could b out playin the field sleeping with more than 1 woman, but eventually im gonna wanna settle down, and wont all girls be like this? Once they got u they put no effort into the realtionship and still expect u to treat them like some beautiful princess

Is this the reason you're staying? You think all girls are this way? This is a common thing when moving in with someone, but the point it to find someone worth moving in with. It's clear things don't really work between you, so gtfo already. I'm not sure what else could happen that would make you wake up already.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Is this the reason you're staying? You think all girls are this way? This is a common thing when moving in with someone, but the point it to find someone worth moving in with. It's clear things don't really work between you, so gtfo already. I'm not sure what else could happen that would make you wake up already.

Ok she hasnt been sleepin with me much but i dont think that means i should break up with her imemdiately. That's not what i intended to do, im just tryin to figure out what i can do about this besides breakin up with the girl.

No girls gonna b perfect maybe i just vented a lil too much on here, shes not thaaaat bad. We do have some good times, im just concerned bout the lack of sex.

Besides i have a 5 day trip florida trip booked for next week, nows not the time to break up with her i kinda gotta keep things ok for at least another week lol.
Although i even have somethin that annoys me about the trip. We're now spending 2 of the 5 days in florida with her parents. Just the 4 of us, goin to breakfast lunch dinner and amusement parks for 2 of the 5 days were there. Two of the days r travel days and 2 days in the middle we gotta spend with her 60 something folks and noone else jsut the 4 of us. Thats not what i had in mind for my one and only vacation of the year. Hey i like her parents but c'mon we're only there for 5 days. i went from lookin forward to this trip to feelin like its a chore now. Aren't vacations supposed to be fun? What do u think am i being unreasonable bout her folks coming? I mentioned it was a lil weird and she got highly insulted and thinks i dont want her parents to come. So i never said anything again. She actually said this and i quote "i only have 1 vacation a year and id like to see my parents on it"
Thats a bit of a weird thing to say if u ask me. I mean if it was her whole family borhters and sisters stuff liek that i would think its normal. But the 4 of us?

 

[DJinTraining06]

Hey every couple i know fights alot. You gotta put up with some sh*t. She puts up with some of my sh*T too, relationships r work. They shoudlnt be too much work but thats what im tryin to find out lately. Im not so sure i want to end it yet. Hey u may be right but im not ready to just throw the relationship out yet. According to u i guess any man who gets marrie dis an AFC?

look at the threads you have started about this guuuuuurlfriend of yours (you have been dating for 2 years, so these are about her I am 100% sure:

Girlfriend's demanding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=131788

Relationships are not all that great:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=120608

Im in the doghouse:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147199

Girlfriend's behavior changing:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=120054

GF getting on my nerves:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=118229



DUDE, YOU are part of the reason that society has turned so AFC, from deciding to "have a guuuurlfriend" because thats what your AFC mind has been programmed to do, to tolerating BULLSHYT behavior, which all of your threads reference, to not being the LEADER and the MAN in your relationship (I mean shyt, if you are going to be in a committed relationship, you gotta at least do it the right way!!!), and now you have moved in with this bytch, and are manipulated by a love that isn't real, and all in all....i just can't give you advice, so I hope your soul and heart get ripped open by this bytch, because thats the ONLY way you will learn - **** you dude seriously, for not taking dozens and dozens of pages of advice, and continuing to be a MAJOR AFC

I only wish you had called Tom Leykis while he was on the air, he would have EMBARASSED YOU for being such a loser[/QUOTE

 

[The Logical Player]

relationships are NOT work, NOT work, NOT WORK!!!

ALERT - YOU HAVE THE AFC MINDSET

IF a man decides to be in a relationship, then it certainly needs to be FUN and a GREAT TIME, and NOT WORK

boy, i got no words left for ya

 

[Jitterbug]

Not all girls turn into what your GF has become after they get into a relationship or get married.

If relationship is work, you should send her a bill for your time.

Anyway, this guy is digging a hole for himself and ignoring reality, coz "it's not that bad!". I guess some people have to learn from their own bitter experiences.

OP, save this thread and read back later after you've gone through marriage & divorce & the lot.

 

[The_411]

DJ in training there is never a good time to break up so why continue on with this farce of a relationship?

 

[DonGorgon]

male desperation is the core of feminists power... MEn are desperate cause there are not enough women making women inherently more valuable than men sexually..

 

[DJinTraining06]

I'm pretty sure this b1tch ur with is hooking up with other guy(s). .

I found a small tiny little bottle of KY jelly in her bathroom draw. Should I be concerned? Cuz i know for a fact she never uses it with me. Shes on the pill and i don't use condoms and i just about never see her leave the room before we do it so i dont know when she would even have the chance too. Plus u can tell if that kind of thing has been used if u know what i mean.
Is Ky jelly used for something else that i dont know about? It doesnt look brand new so maybe its just from before she met me, but still seems a lil weird to me. I've openeed her draw instead of mine by mistake many times and never noticed it, but this time it was just plain as day. The KY letters jumped right out at me at the bottom of the draw.