Most and Least Attractive Male Hobbies

[zekko]

Awesome. I'm sure you had fun. Playing tennis regularly is more likely to get any man get laid indirectly (exercise helping with physique) than directly getting laid (meeting women through it).

Fair point. Tennis is great cardio. I don't think I ever had an ounce of body fat on me when I was playing.
Your joints can take a pounding though. I had a lot of foot pain in my middle age years that I attribute in part to my years playing tennis. It's gone away now though.

 

[SW15]

Tennis is great cardio. I don't think I ever had an ounce of body fat on me when I was playing.
Your joints can take a pounding though. I had a lot of foot pain in my middle age years that I attribute in part to my years playing tennis. It's gone away now though.

It's a great sport. The running will help with weight management and keeping a man slimmer.

It's a tough sport from an orthopedic perspective. It is common for players to have knee, back, and shoulder problems. At the pro level, Roger Federer and Novak Djokovic had torn meniscii in their knees. Torn meniscus repair is an unpleasant procedure for non-pro level athletes and can have long term effects. Maria Sharapova had shoulder problems. All of these injuries are known to happen at both the pro level and the for regular recreation level player.

 

[The Diver]

I'm surprised clubbing, marijuana, and drinking are on the list of unattractive hobbies. From what I've seen, men who partake in those hobbies have an easy time getting a woman.

I think many missed the comments made at the end of the article that explains why clubbing and Marijuana considered unattractive in this survey:

Quote:
"our samples skew disproportionately toward women of high social status, high level of education (45% had a Master’s degree in the previous survey), and who are predominately White (> 90% in the last survey). Popular hobbies like “clubbing,” which was rated low in our sample, may be perceived as more attractive in other populations."

 

[GoodMan32]

I think many missed the comments made at the end of the article that explains why clubbing and Marijuana considered unattractive in this survey:

Quote:
"our samples skew disproportionately toward women of high social status, high level of education (45% had a Master’s degree in the previous survey), and who are predominately White (> 90% in the last survey). Popular hobbies like “clubbing,” which was rated low in our sample, may be perceived as more attractive in other populations."

Ok, that explains a lot.

Pretty sure clubbing is pretty common with White broads overall (so I don't know why they felt the need to point out race). But the high social status and high education levels would explain why clubbing isn't popular with the surveyed demographic.

 

[SW15]

Regarding motorbikes, majority of women don't really care about your bike. However a small number of women who love bikes will show huge interest if you have an exciting bike. Personally, I don't like "biker" chicks, but whatever. I love women who are very new to bikes so I can provide them with experience of riding two-up. It's much sweeter that way.
Being a biker will only score you a point in the "daredevil" factor, the fact that you are doing something considered a bit dangerous and "selfish".

Most riders don't ride as a hobby even, it's just to cultivate an image of themselves and nothing more. The day I see a Harley/cruiser rider out when it's raining or cold outside, I'll change my mind.

In the Manosphere/red pill space, Aaron Clarey is a proponent of the motorcycles = pussie idea.

 

[jhonny9546]

No, I took the snapshot. We were taking a break from riding the countryside north of Amsterdam.

This is me, same place but with my other ride.
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You look like a really bold men! Congrats! It would be awesome to see you in a video, so we can see your gesture, how you do move, speak, etc.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

While you shouldnt give a fvck on a womans opinion about your hobby, you still want to sell yourself to her. You want to paint a picture of yourself she can get wet on.

Once you created that badass image and fvcked her good, you can inform her down the road on your more exotic hobbies.

What sold me best was , martial arts, shooting(guns), pets and cooking.
What didnt fly well was tabletop gaming and pc gaming, so i stopped telling them about it until they found out somewhere down the road after a few dates.

I understand that there are a lot more gamer chicks these days then 20 years ago, so this could play out in my favor depending on the woman.

Over the years i tried some activities that women tend to favor.
I tried to get into dancing for a while, even took some classes but i ended up being bored, didnt like the music and my approaches on women felt so forced that i quit. It ended up about the same way with beach volleyball.

Picking a hobby for the sake of procuring pvssy is not worth your time. Do whatever you like and sell what is in demand, the rest you keep to yourself.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

I think the list is pretty accurate. Self destructivd behaviors (over indulgence in vices) is not an attractive quality. The article skews toward women who are going to be more relationship oriented and equipped, why would such a woman seriously consider a man who exhibits self destructive behavior for a LTR?

She would not want such a man to father her children. He's irresponsible, self destructive & selfish.

Not good husband/father contenders.

I routinely turned down men with bad habits in my 20s. I realized old habits die hard.....I knew if you married that guy you married the bad habit too....and I dated with a LTR mindset so those self destructive habits were instant DQ.....no matter how hot or cool the guy was..... I can remember when hanging out with a great friend & total playboy & partier (he never had a chance to date me because of his bad habits but he was fun to be buddies with) had a good friend who had married a hot girl. She complained constantly and loudly about him being stoned or drunk, and having trouble with work & not wanting a family.

I was like Wow. She's pretty dum b to have married a guy with those habits. Those habits were on display when they were dating.

Hobbies that are not self destructive should be for you, not for purpose of meeting women. Gaming can be a little tiresome. But its cool. When my husband is wanting to spend time gaming I take that opportunity to go do stuff by myself or with friends.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I have a bookcase full off European comics/graphic novels (like Milo Manara, Moebius, Hugo Pratt, Franquin, Walthèry) and a few American comics (Calvin & Hobbes, Pogo, Krazy Kat), that I've been collecting since I was 10-12 years old

US publishers outside of The Big 2 regularly put forth product that isn't superhero, and which refuses to patronize readers with infantile tales of Good triumphing over Evil https://cmykcomics.wordpress.com/20...-seven-to-eternity-vol-1-the-god-of-whispers/

Even when they sell well(By contemporary standards anyway), mainstream Hollywood rarely has any desire to adapt them for film, and our current social climate is one in which most audiences think along these lines

* Thus, almost everyone thinks "Superheroes", when it comes to US comics


*Maker Of Life bless Critical Drinker, he's entertained me several times over, nonetheless his argument attests to just how far the artistic and intellectual regression we're in the midst of has gone. He/most filmgoers miss the alleged "good ol' days" of Iron Man I and The Dark Knight, without realizing... Such pablum was no less designed for pre-adolescents than alleged "bad flicks" like The Marvels is

 

[Travel memoir21]

I don’t know about ‘attractive’ hobbies to attract these ho bags we got these days, but I will give you a few to attract a Quality woman, here’s a couple of them:

- Meditation
-Yoga
- Walking your dog in the park or in nature
- Weight lifting
- Skateboarding for spiritual reasons, not to show off
- Singing Holy music and hymns on a Guitar
- Sailing and combining that with Photography
- Learning martial arts for spiritual reasons
- Poetry
- Sketching or drawing holy characters or uplifting material
- Learning to dance at a Hebrew wedding festival or Buddhist gathering.
- Gardening
- Going to a crocheting class
- And of course cooking and learning a few vegeterian dishes.
- Don’t do this solo with a girl you just met, but invite her with a group of friends to go Bowling.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Again, the attraction isn't in the act of, but rather the why; if it was not, we could just state the reason of doing the hobby as tail chasing and society wouldn't push back.

The reason we can't directly intention ourselves is because it will lead to conflict the second we have to issue a rejection or rather who we choose to spend our time with will be seen as a rejection by those who don't have our time, even if we do want them to have it.

Were back to trying to boil down having a purpose in life into something else, but like every other time we rehash this in the forum, somebody always brings it back to purpose and today I guess thats me.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

That's not surprising to me; my experience has been lukewarm to neutral reactions at best. I once had a women flake and ghost before our date last second because I slipped in that I was riding mine out. I've only ever met 2 women who wanted to ride on it with me or expressed interest in learning about it, the rest of them never once brought it up a single time.

I literally had a women flake on a date at the last possible second because I slipped in that I was riding mine out. I think it's one of those myths similar to the bodybuilder physique; men think because other men like it so much, they project and assume women must like it too. In regards to that "bad boy" biker image, I think that's just a marketing meme that isn't reflective of reality. Have you ever seen an attractive women on the back of a bike, let alone flirt with bikers? It literally never happens. I suspect it's a result of all the diabetic, attention-seeking boomer clowns on modified exhaust Harleys ruining the image, along with the general dirtbag/immature/attention seeking behavior of most bikers in general.

Even in regards to cars, it doesn't seem to me like modern women care or appreciate nice cars unless it's some trendy NPC clown car like a Camaro or Range Rover. Obviously if it's incredibly expensive/flashy they will care, but only as a status symbol, nothing more.



This is true, but some of the results seem self-evident, I've never seen a guy into MTG/card games, magic tricks, bowling, anime/comic books or other autistic weeb shvt get pvssy.

Now you have.
I literally lost my V-card to a girl I met playing a CCG.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Now you have.
I literally lost my V-card to a girl I met playing a CCG.

I lost my V-card in an Orgy

 

[Hamurabimbi]

One of my big hobbies is gaming. Now a days, mostly historical board games or CCG’s. Granted. Pretty nerdy and male dominated.

I think a guy’s hobbies are white noise to women. Mostly irrelevant.

For example, My friends (guys) & I occasionally play CCG’s at a few local cafe’s. I have been approached by women while I was playing several times. They expressed zero interest in the game. They just wanted to talk to me.

Just enjoy what you enjoy. As an aside, my GF HATES games.

 

[CornbreadFed]

One of my big hobbies is gaming. Now a days, mostly historical board games or CCG’s. Granted. Pretty nerdy and male dominated.

I think a guy’s hobbies are white noise to women. Mostly irrelevant.

For example, My friends (guys) & I occasionally play CCG’s at a few local cafe’s. I have been approached by women while I was playing several times. They expressed zero interest in the game. They just wanted to talk to me.

Just enjoy what you enjoy. As an aside, my GF HATES games.

depends, I am a major history nut which has led me to travelling. Women are shocked by a guy of my appearance that has visited every continent and more countries than them.