Moderators Insulting Members is Inappropriate

[Wyldfire]

Eternal
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Gio, Wyld, chill out, both of you.

Wyld - You complain about people derailing threads, yet this spate keeps going.

Gio - If we have learned anything, it is that Wyld must always be right for some reason. Leave it be before she claims shes pregnant with your kid and is yelling that your sperm traveled from Detroit to her uterus.

Anymore flaming/back and forth bickering will cause me to delete those spates. Don't bother yelling Wyld, you want this thing modded, it'll be modded.





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Now, it was not I who was off topic or making personal attacks towards anyone. I was disagreeing with an opinion on the topic. I made a very polite post to Eternal explaining that, and it was deleted. However, all of Gio's posts (including personal attacks on me) were not deleted. Eternal also insults me and makes a personal attack on me in his post.

This is why I find it so incredibly difficult to respect Eternal or Gio. They show no respect for others, conduct themselves horribly and behave in the most blatantly hypocritical way.

Furthermore...in the thread in question, Gio makes several personal attacks on me. I don't attack or insult him at all and stay on topic. Why haven't Gio's posts been deleted? It was his behavior that was out of line, not mine.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=64215

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
It was his behavior that was out of line, not mine.

How bout that, a girl admitting she did nothing wrong and places all the blame on the guy.

I never thought something like that would ever happen.

 

[Spike_the_Dragon]

Gio - "If we have learned anything, it is that Wyld must always be right for some reason. Leave it be before she claims shes pregnant with your kid and is yelling that your sperm traveled from Detroit to her uterus."

ROTFLMAO!... Yet another classic quote from Gio. Funny stuff.


Wyldfire, why don't you just calm down and tell your good friend Spike what is really bothering you?

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: Re: Moderators Insulting Members is Inappropriate

Originally posted by Vincent
How bout that, a girl admitting she did nothing wrong and places all the blame on the guy.

I never thought something like that would ever happen.

Vincent, did you read the thread? I made no flames or attacks on Gio in that thread. I disagreed with his opinion in a very calm way. Furthermore, he is behaving this way on any thread I post on.

Another example of him trying to incite a flame war with me on General Discussion:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18520

Please find just one post I made to Gio that was a personal attack. I haven't. He is the one attempting to create a problem and I am not giving him the reaction he wants.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
ROTFLMAO!... Yet another classic quote from Gio. Funny stuff.


Wyldfire, why don't you just calm down and tell your good friend Spike what is really bothering you?

I am calm. I'm simply reporting what I consider to be inappropriate behavior by two moderators.

You know what's really sad is that I keep getting requests for private advice via PM because those people have no faith in asking advice on the forum because of the horrible and insulting attitude often displayed there. What's particularly sad is that a good number of the insults come from those same moderators.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

your taking things to seriously, this is only an internet forum, if you get so upset about it, it can only be because this is your life. and you do not have a life off of sosuave. Im not stating that because i dont know you, its just that why else would you be so upset about an internet forum.

~take a pill chill~

 

[Dillinger]

I thought you are suppose to pm this to the sosuave.com guy? Instead of wasteing space..i mean posting it here?

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by Dillinger
I thought you are suppose to pm this to the sosuave.com guy? Instead of wasteing space..i mean posting it here?

the sosuave.com guy has a name! its bartholamu, nah just twisting your arm its allen or at least thats what we have been told!

 

[Wyldfire]

No, it's not my life. If it were I wouldn't have stayed away for most of the last several years.

I stopped by for the first time in quite awhile to find the site to be seriously lacking in quality. I wanted to try to make it better.

Clearly there just aren't enough people who care.

 

[SDFUandDie]

Guys I will have to side with Wyld.

Even though they were spatting back and fourth with each other I do notice how only certain moderators attack any and most women who do come to this forum.

*No wonder newbies rarely return*

They are so busy insulting them and everyone is laughing at it the forget to help the poor soul.

Regaurdless if he read the dj bible or not:

Politeness costs nothing
and gains everything!!

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
ROTFLMAO!... Yet another classic quote from Gio. Funny stuff.

Can't take credit for that... Eternal said it, not me.

Originally posted by SDFUandDie
Even though they were spatting back and fourth with each other I do notice how only certain moderators attack any and most women who do come to this forum.

I have not had a problem with VeryBadGirl. I have not had a problem with Sexy_Malibu, Ms Thang, Mystery Woman, seabreeze, Fist_of_Fury, Destini, Liz... and certainly not penkitten. I have had a problem with two -- count them -- TWO female posters, and not because they are female.

And I'll keep my mouth shut regarding the original post in this thread.

 

[Eternal]

Funny, I wasn't the one who deleted your reply Wyld. Please don't jump to conclusions anymore. It is annoying.

 

[penkitten]

i thought that wyld and gio always argued their points back and forth to one another.( just like the old days)

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Eternal
Funny, I wasn't the one who deleted your reply Wyld. Please don't jump to conclusions anymore. It is annoying.

If it wasn't you, I apologize for assuming it was. It was a very polite post pointing out that I was not making any personal attacks and was simply disagreeing with the opinion. For anyone who reads that thread, it is quite clear who was trying to turn it into something personal and who wasn't.

I am able to separate my displeasure with certain things about the site from threads asking for advice and input. Apparently some people aren't able to do that.

If you don't want me to jump to conclusions then perhaps you shouldn't make the kind of comments that you did in that post while warning others not to flame. You did exactly what you told me not to do. I wasn't flaming or saying anything deserving of any kind of warning. Gio was the one doing that.

Think about it and maybe go back and read it again. Gio was making the personal attacks and insults, not me. And then you posted, also insulting me and telling me not to insult or flame. What kind of a reaction do you expect to get from people if you treat them that way? In all honestly, they won't be quick to give you the benefit of the doubt about the deletion.

 

[Eternal]

I read the post before it was deleted. I also got it PM'ed to me by the moderator that deleted it. I haven't had time to go back to the thread yet, but I bet it has grown a bit more since I was in there.

I know it seems like I just went after you when I said to stop the flaming. Point is, if there is a long back and forth in a thread like that, BOTH people get the stuff gone so one doesn't feel morally superior to the other. Please don't read that and say "bull" and start a reply saying how that will degrade the site. It really is annoying ma'am.

*Goes back to read that thread.*

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Number of Times My Name Has Been Used in a Negative Way by the Original Poster on This Thread: 8

Number of Times I Have Insulted the Original Poster on This Thread: 0

In case anyone's keeping score.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by penkitten
i thought that wyld and gio always argued their points back and forth to one another.( just like the old days)

Yes, we always seem to disagree on most things. He's also always taken me challenging his opinions as a personal attack rather than a simple case of disagreeing with him. He really doesn't deal with me very well at all.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Number of Times My Name Has Been Used in a Negative Way by the Original Poster on This Thread: 8

Number of Times I Have Insulted the Original Poster on This Thread: 0

In case anyone's keeping score.

That's because you put all your "negative" posts in General Discussion.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Eternal
I read the post before it was deleted. I also got it PM'ed to me by the moderator that deleted it. I haven't had time to go back to the thread yet, but I bet it has grown a bit more since I was in there.

I know it seems like I just went after you when I said to stop the flaming. Point is, if there is a long back and forth in a thread like that, BOTH people get the stuff gone so one doesn't feel morally superior to the other. Please don't read that and say "bull" and start a reply saying how that will degrade the site. It really is annoying ma'am.

*Goes back to read that thread.*

Eternal...I didn't flame anyone in that thread. In fact, I think I showed quite a deal of restraint.

I only started a thread in here because that post I made in response to your post was deleted.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Eternal...I didn't flame anyone in that thread. In fact, I think I showed quite a deal of restraint.

I only started a thread in here because that post I made in response to your post was deleted.

I know you showed a bit of restraint, but it isn't all that great to just have one person get their posts elminated while the others stay. Since you two are going against two different things, that offers two different views, thus showing favortism towards one person if only one gets deleted.

I am not doing it just because a moderator was involved. Hell, ALLEN could have been involved in a back and forth and it'd still get the same action.

I just wonder something Wyld...Why do you always insist on making posts like this? You could have just PM'ed me about the reply, which I would have told you the same thing I said earlier: I saw it but didn't delete it. That would have ended things I hope.