So I have a friend that i've been close to for about 3-4 years now. We never went passed Friendship even though she wanted to and I kinda did. Now 4 years later I want to, but she is really interrested in another guy. I might have messed up by telling her exactly how I feel and all that mushy stuff instead of playing it cool.
She says she wants to just be friends atm because of this other guy, but I know if he wasn't in the picture it would be more than friends. How do I make her more attracted to me then him? Physically I got him beat hands down, but she still preferrs him right now. Should I just play the part of a friend still while taking her out and trying to get closer to her? Could I have already ruined it by spilling everything I felt about her? I know I already messed up by coming off as needy, but not sure what my next move should be.
Yes I like her more than other girls, and really want a shot with her.....just can't figure out how to get her mind off this other guy. Her and the other guy arn't currently dating but she thinks they will be soon and she wants to obviously.
She says she wants to just be friends atm because of this other guy, but I know if he wasn't in the picture it would be more than friends. How do I make her more attracted to me then him? Physically I got him beat hands down, but she still preferrs him right now. Should I just play the part of a friend still while taking her out and trying to get closer to her? Could I have already ruined it by spilling everything I felt about her? I know I already messed up by coming off as needy, but not sure what my next move should be.
Yes I like her more than other girls, and really want a shot with her.....just can't figure out how to get her mind off this other guy. Her and the other guy arn't currently dating but she thinks they will be soon and she wants to obviously.