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Do you guys ever stop to think that in all this enlightenment and freeing from the matrix, you might start building one yourself?
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Mmm, fair point but let me dismantle this little post here.
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Let me state this: if we can infer that beyond the smokescreen of socially acceptable behavior women are always selfish and in pursue of their own interest, why would it be different for men? In deconstructing women as the cultural idols they are presented to be, why put men on the pedestal and trying repeatedly to build an aura of infallibility around them?
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Why not: Simply seeing the truth about women with out the social gloss we are surrounded by daily, there I like that one better.
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About men hitting women: I used to have a friend who hit all 3 of his former girlfriends. For years I wondered why, and tried to explain away the behavior under alcohol influence. It has very very late came to my attention though that he is in fact a pure selfish jerk, not just using women but his friends, myself included. I won't go into details but know this: men are no saints; you are EACH out to get the most FOR YOU from this world. My friend is not a bad guy, but when a situation develops that is not according to his best interest, he pushes. And that often means hitting. I told him once he should stop sleeping in my bed (when we were roommates), that went against his interest so he hit me. His girlfriends told him not to cheat on them anymore, that went against his interest so he hit them, hard.
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The fact of the matter is he managed to get 3 different girlfriends, they stuck around, so your post is a little contradictory, what where you doing whilst he was banging these chicks in more ways then one?
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Want more proof that sometimes it's not a woman that "provokes" the violence? My father cheated on my mother (out of the simple fact that he COULD cheat, not because he was expanding his horizon or building his dj-ness and the commitment stood in the way). My mother found out and told him. He was so furious that his game was over, that he could no longer pursue his interest and keep the marriage that he hit her, all the time asking "who told you?”.
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There are exceptions to every rule
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Accept this fact if you are serious about lifting the veil of ignorance: men can be jerks. And it is just as unacceptable from them as it is from women.
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Actually the ignorance is spun around the so called matrix, we here try to unravel it. It is society that has the wrong ideals.
You sound like a mangina, or a women who blames men,
I don’t see anything wrong with this thread, it’s very constructive actually, there is nothing wrong with dismantling the other sex, women do it all the time.
The difference is, when women seem to do it, there liberated.
When men get together and do it, where abusive or aggressive or one sided.
The matrix, is reversed, the looking glass presents a TRUE reflection, if you know how a mirror works then its true, you see a mirror image, but it is NOT WHAT THE WORLD SEES.
Now we here, as I like reading this place, turn the mirror back around and see truth or analyze women’s behaviour from a MANS perspective, not some ingrained AFC who automatically jumps to the MEN FAULT ideal, sorry we take a more objectionable view point here.
