Men who get jealous possessive of their woman

[Lynx nkaf]

thanks.. i like that definition. it would mean I am not jealous, but very possessive. just shy of 6', ripped enough that when I meet ppl it can be a topic from them about me. I now know where every guy in the area is as soon as I enter, I acquired this ability after improving myself this last year. at the same time, a number of men started slinking... but I am still me...

are those examples written down any place that you mention?

Congrats on your presence, improvement in the past year and your awareness. I hope you keep posting so we can learn more from what you choose to share.
As for is that written down anywhere I can try doing a search on Sosuave to see if there's old posts with positive examples of possessiveness.
Sometimes I'll just type in one word to see what's archived/cached and the way the search function here delivers it seems the most recent caches will appear first.
I wish I knew more about computers. It's not my forte.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

How dare they not accept that I am trying to bang their girlfriend or wife? They should sit there and be cucked!

Like the good little cucks they were born to be.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Jealousy is an issue however i want to point out that all the guys who think this way as OP also have issues setting and holding boundaries. They get manipulated to the point of suicide because they do not even know themselves enough to know when to put the foot down and dismiss.

This rationalizing away jealousy is only the beginning of becoming a cuck in its seed form.

What happens is, your brain tells you her behavior is crossing your boundries and you say control is for jealous idiots blah blah.
So you start playing PUA games trying to move your boundry all over the place. Dont ever think she isn't feeling your beta capitulation. She is...and over more time you lose site of your own values and what you value in others because your to chicken shyt to break up with her when she crosses your boundries because your to busy in your mind trying not to be pizzed and the whole
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Its jealousy and controlling and i dont want to look like that" blah blah

and when she knows this she will slow cook your dumbazz into oblivion.

Your best bet is to have standards and boundries. CLEAR ONES.

What she hates more then jealous prick that atleast fcks his meat well??
is a beta incel who cant define clearly what his boundries, principles and rules are for the women in his life.

Women are not our equals. As soon as she thinks she is better then you your game is over.
Women revel in competition anxiety and jealousy is there #1 trigger.

Why the hell would she forbid it in you?
Woe to you guys who buy into this "she hates jealous guys narrative.
Learn this area of game.

Imagine that narrative "I HATE jealous guys", proceeded by games designed to trigger jealousy several times a day every single day!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Its almost comical how we cannot listen to their mouths in this area. Lol

"I hate guys who lie and cheat", proceeded by a righteous act in front of your face, and all this lieing and cheating behind your back.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I usually don’t get angry, I get even. And that was the best way to get even. Hit him right in the wallet.

So since you get even what if it was the lady? She's doing this extra flirting with the waiter to get a rise out of you?

 

[Robert28]

So since you get even what if it was the lady? She's doing this extra flirting with the waiter to get a rise out of you?

I’ve been in both situations where the girl honestly was embarrassed about attracting such attention and other times when she was egging it on. Women love attention, don’t get me wrong, but not from a guy they have no interest in. My ex ( the one I’ve been spending a lot of time with the past few months) was like a fly to sh!t when it came to random dudes hitting on her. The thing is she hated it. I still give her **** about it and tease her about it. Some girls do egg it on though and you can tell the difference. Those are the ones that will never see me again.

 

[BeExcellent]

One thing I have run across with some frequency is men who remain persistent when a woman informs him she is with someone. Most commonly it will be in a nightclub or bar setting and my man goes to the men’s room.

Here descends some guy who wants a shot at me. Frequently they will offer to buy me a drink. I always decline the drink and once they have spoken to me at all I tell them I am with my boyfriend, even if it’s just a date...then I typically get asked where is he? To which Ill say men’s room or he will be right back. Sometimes they will STILL hang around. In that case Ill simply turn away or look away saying nothing more. In a crowded venue I prefer to remain where my guy left me so I’ll stand my ground. If the guy really is persistent I’ll tell him to leave me alone. Sometimes that is that.

Other times the guy will sort of hang about to see if I really am with someone, especially if the interloper is a good looking man not used to being turned down. My recent ex is a physically imposing man at 6’3” and with a big chest & huge arms. He’s also very handsome. Invariably he’d show up and take my hand & we’d simply walk away together (my BF and I), and the interloper guy would be like “Oh.”

But I’ve had men angle at me right under his nose too. He handles that beautifully and succinctly.

One night we were seated in a bottle service lounge area and a good looking man had been checking me out from over at the bar. As I looked around people watching I saw him staring at me. I kept perusing the crowd. Soon enough he comes over, tries to introduce himself to my BF, trying the whole join us thing to get close to me...BF asked him directly “What’s up bro?” And the guy said whatever, and my BF said, “We’re all good bro. Keep it moving” and his posture made it clear for the guy to buzz off. It was pretty funny.

I’ve seen everything on this thread & then some.

Pretty funny.

 

[In2theGame]

It's built into our nature to protect our investments, including our women. It's easier to not give a fvck if you're banging a piece of trash, but you're going to become protective when it comes to a woman you want to keep around. It's not insecurity, it's being territorial. How you handle it will show if you're insecure or confident.

This right here.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This right here.

In nature man will protect his woman. The lack of this feeling is due to social conditioning.

 

[Kotaix]

Yeah, but a woman is a human being, not an investment or piece of property.

Well, I guess I was more referring to guys who get jealous/angry when other men look at their woman or just talk to them in a non-flirty way.

For example, I was at my gym and saw a co-worker (cute) on the treadmill and I was standing ten feet away talking to her. Out of the corner of my eye I see a guy looking at me real pissed off. It turned out to be her husband. It was just a normal conversation.

I remember when I was 17 or 18 I was sitting in my car at a local convenience store in the summer. A very attractive young woman was walking at my 11 o'clock towards the door and I followed her with my eyes. Then I hear a voice "Were you just staring/looking at my girlfriend bro"? It was some juice head and I think I just responded "no"

However, yes I can see the jealousy if some guy blatantly hits on your girl in front of you or you come back from the bathroom and some guy is talking to your girl. In the latter situation, I can maybe see feeling a little jealous.

I've encountered this kind of jealousy before. My ex's sister was dating a guy who once lost his **** because I sat next to her at the dinner table for five seconds while he was up getting something. His immediate reaction was "Hey, No!". Nevermind that I was dating his woman's sister...

I may be generalizing here, but in my experience, people who act like this were brought up in a trashy household and it's a mark of bad parenting. The guy I spoke of grew up trashy, he was also dumb as a brick and had a drug problem.

Some women do like men that act like this, but those women are trash themselves. It's a match made in heaven.

 

[metalwater]

It's the females job to not encourage the disrespectful attention.

this is the golden words on this topic. should be framed and told over and over. the encouragement comes in many forms.

 

[zekko]

As I looked around people watching I saw him staring at me. I kept perusing the crowd. Soon enough he comes over, tries to introduce himself to my BF, trying the whole join us thing to get close to me...BF asked him directly “What’s up bro?” And the guy said whatever, and my BF said, “We’re all good bro. Keep it moving” and his posture made it clear for the guy to buzz off. It was pretty funny

Did he have a black fuzzy hat?

 

[death_wish. .]

any guy who believes in harmless flirting , let your girlfriend go out to clubs , dressing slutty , having male friends , you have lost my friend. these are social programs created by women to do what they want. you're basically taking advice on women , FROM women.

this is the biggest **** test of all time,almost like another compliance test if you let her go wherever she wants , flirt wth guys in your face, have male friends , dress slutty, basically you have no balls , you allow her to do anything she wants.

if you're a man you have balls for a reason , you dont go along with **** that you dont like ,women respect that in a man cause it shows strength and confidence and conviction , you know what you want and you're going to get it , nothing less you pass this test by remaining non-exclusive and depending on what type of man you are drop this plate altogether.(honestly i'll just drop the plate unless im using her for sex)