Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
DD,
I get the gist of your post - it does not really matter what you eat - there are guys 250 pounds who eat salad and light foods and are in very good shape and then there are guys who eat meat 3 times a day and are skiinny twigs.
I think your main point was that men should not have the mindset of women and count their calories on a hourly basis and be obsessed with their fat content, as women are. Men who constantly fret about their body have a feminine quality about them and women don't respect them for being in this frame of mind on a daily basis.
Also, it is ok to act aloof and not to act desperate when chasing women, but it is our divine responsibilty to pursue females and it is a genetically prescribed trait that we call masculinity and which we naturally recognize when we reach the state of manhood!
I'm glad you understood my post. Most people who responded thought I was advocating gluttony or that I'm some kind of hick. Very funny.
The dinner I described was with a bunch of people I work with at a very large financial company. There were some hot business type girls at the table. I was sickened by what they other guys said so I thought I would be myself and say what was on my mind. I'm glad I did that. Their wives whip those guys. It was truly pathetic.
Women such as these want real men; men who are strong and masculine. They don’t want cavemen or pigs, but they do want a man that isn’t afraid to show is strength and speak his mind.
In the end, the women at the table respected me for it. They deal with AFC's and whipped men all day in the business world. Someone who even shows the slightest masculine quality is a prize in this environment.
All I’m basically saying is that women like men who are men and not the ones that act like other women. Sure, you may be able to communicate on their level if you act that way, but in the end they will not look upon you as a man or as someone that can please them sexually.
I would encourage those who go on dates to show your woman that you can eat and eat well. Don’t pig out, but don’t be delicate with your food. It will also set you a bit apart from the rest. She will want to cook for you.
Well… I can dream about the cooking part. hey.. Just fetch my beer woman!