jophil28 said:
Women believe that they do not have to create anything practical because they have the power to create a new life
WHy should woman actually bother to "create" anything when they already have all that going on?
mrRuckus said:
Men create life. And then slyly pawn it off on her to carry around. I impregnate HER. My genes are also the ones that decide even the gender of the new human so i create both new men and new women. She is just the incubator of the seed that I plant in her dirt of a womb.
When I plant a seed in the dirt, I do not say the dirt created the plant. The dirt just housed it and provided nutrients. *I* grew the baby just like we'd say the farmer who planted the corn grew the corn.
Except with women, the nutrients they provide to babies comes from food that men created and water that men cleaned so they don't even bother to do any basic function but to act as a transport system.
Objectively speaking, I believe that it takes two to tango, to create and raise a child. I do see where you are coming from when you say 'Men create life' - but I think we all agree, that both parties are needed.
But I think Jophil is onto something. Subjectively, girls believe that they are doing something very special by doing their part in *creating* life, that it *makes up* for everything us guys create and all the hard work we do. Recently in a group setting, I talked to a wife who just had a baby and she started saying how: 'If men had to give birth, there is no way they could handle the pain. Only us girls can do it.'
Of course, her husband dared not say anything.
There were 3 other guys just sitting there not daring to say anything.
No way I was going to let her get away with that, so I told her: 'If you're talking about the *physical* act of childbirth, and handling pure physical pain, us guys can easily do it. If you girls can handle that pain, please, us guys can damn well handle that pain as well, let's keep it real.'
And she's like: 'No way, you guys wouldn't survive one second.'
I was like: 'Weren't you so worried about how painful childbirth was going to be, that you were almost going to use an epidural (painkiller used during delivery) Us guys can man-up and do it without a painkiller.'
That shut her up for a while.
What's funny about this whole situation is that the husband is so unappreciated by her. She wants to feel appreciated for giving birth and raising a child - fair enough. But the husband just gets his balls cut off all the time - totally unappreciated
One time in a group setting, like 10 of us were hanging out, playing poker, and he lost like 3 pots in a row and the wife started to bust his balls right in front of all of us. 'You should have called the bet, what are you doing? You just lost again, blah blah' And that tone of voice - I will always remember. It was like that of pure disgust, disdain and disrespectfulness. He didn't even dare say anything, I had to jump in and say: 'Respect your husband.' That shut her up for a while