Men are pathetic ( so I am not surprised 68% gets nada)

[BackInTheGame78]

these are not men... Joe rogain is a man.. so is the theo guy... heck, most people on livestreams especially the successful ones are men... Those that complain about "not getting laid" are not "men."

There are tons of women complaining they cannot get dates. most of these women. are alpha widowed and complaining about how the dating world is a dumpster fire. Most have had their backs blown out by gigga chad in her earlier years.

Women complaining are because they think just because a Chad on a dry spell or who had nothing going on that night decided to ONS them and then never talk to them again that that is what they should be able to get for a relationship.

Essentially they are delusional.

 

[Bingo-Player]

As for me:

-I'm 33
-I'm wearing a Tommy Hilfiger dress shirt and fitted Levi's today
-Hair is perfectly gelled
-I average out around a 6.5/10 on the looks scale
-My profile picture of my bicep gives you an idea of my body type
-I'm only a mild autist

If I were to do what you said (approach 100 broads today), what type of success level do you think I'd have?

5-10% interested maybe higher depending what sort of chicks your into and what your personality is like

Most women will trade off some physical attributes in men in exchange for comedy or feeling safe with them

 

[GoodMan32]

5-10% interested maybe higher depending what sort of chicks your into and what your personality is like

Most women will trade off some physical attributes in men in exchange for comedy or feeling safe with them

Good to know.

 

[Solomon]

these are not men... Joe rogain is a man.. so is the theo guy... heck, most people on livestreams especially the successful ones are men... Those that complain about "not getting laid" are not "men."

There are tons of women complaining they cannot get dates. most of these women. are alpha widowed and complaining about how the dating world is a dumpster fire. Most have had their backs blown out by gigga chad in her earlier years.

Since when did anyone take *****s seriously? the fact that these podcasts get millions of views, with 90% of the views being from men and that most of the women are Onlyfans thots or sex workers is mind-blowing. Slowhandle you and both come from an era where we know not take seriously what women say especially *****s. But you got this new generation that are giving platforms to these *****s thinking they speak for all women when they speak for a minority and the worse minority at that!

I can't wait for the "God Reset" once Trump is in office, we desperately need morals and values back in this country. We need women to be feminine again and we need Godly men to lead this country back to the righteous way. We need traditional Godly women to be at the forefront of society, and also being interviewed not sex working onlyfans thots who are finished by the age 25

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I can't wait for the "God Reset" once Trump is in office, we desperately need morals and values back in this country. We need women to be feminine again and we need Godly men to lead this country back to the righteous way. We need traditional Godly women to be at the forefront of society, and also being interviewed not sex working onlyfans thots who are finished by the age 25

 

[sevbucmash]

Wtf is going on? Men do all these mental gymnastics to avoid the fecking basics. In boxing we say that whenever you struggle to make progress you go BACK to the basics. The jab 1-2 hook. No need for fancy spinning teakwando kicks if you don't master the basics.

-look good
-smell good
- dress well
- SMILE. Greet everyone, including men. Say HI to women.
-be arrogant. Confident. Love your damn self.
-study game.
- do shyte YOU like. Whatever that is. You wanna play with lego? Have fun! You wanna play cricket? Have fun!
- accept that a man's life is NEVER easy. Getting a perfect unicorn isn't easy.
- learn to do EVERYTHING by yourself. Run your household like a pro by YOURSELF.

Time to go back to start gents.

Absolutely! It’s refreshing to hear someone emphasize the importance of mastering the basics. Just like in boxing, where the fundamentals are crucial for success, the same applies to life and social interactions.

• Look Good, Smell Good, Dress Well: These are the first impressions that set the tone. Taking pride in your appearance reflects self-respect and can boost your confidence.
• Smile and Greet Everyone: A simple smile can open doors. It’s amazing how much warmth and positivity you can spread just by being friendly.
• Confidence is Key: Being confident (not arrogant) is attractive. Embrace who you are and own it. Self-love is the foundation of all meaningful connections.
• Study the Game: Understanding social dynamics and how to engage with others can make a huge difference. It’s not about manipulation; it’s about connection.
• Pursue Your Interests: Engaging in activities you enjoy not only makes you happier but also makes you more interesting to others. Passion is magnetic!
• Embrace the Challenge: Life isn’t easy, and that’s okay. Accepting that struggle is part of the journey can help you build resilience.
• Be Self-Sufficient: Learning to handle your own life—cooking, cleaning, managing finances—empowers you and builds confidence.

So yes, let’s get back to basics! It’s about making small, consistent improvements that lead to big changes over time. Let’s focus on these fundamentals and watch how our lives transform.

 

[Gamisch]

Absolutely! It’s refreshing to hear someone emphasize the importance of mastering the basics. Just like in boxing, where the fundamentals are crucial for success, the same applies to life and social interactions.

• Look Good, Smell Good, Dress Well: These are the first impressions that set the tone. Taking pride in your appearance reflects self-respect and can boost your confidence.
• Smile and Greet Everyone: A simple smile can open doors. It’s amazing how much warmth and positivity you can spread just by being friendly.
• Confidence is Key: Being confident (not arrogant) is attractive. Embrace who you are and own it. Self-love is the foundation of all meaningful connections.
• Study the Game: Understanding social dynamics and how to engage with others can make a huge difference. It’s not about manipulation; it’s about connection.
• Pursue Your Interests: Engaging in activities you enjoy not only makes you happier but also makes you more interesting to others. Passion is magnetic!
• Embrace the Challenge: Life isn’t easy, and that’s okay. Accepting that struggle is part of the journey can help you build resilience.
• Be Self-Sufficient: Learning to handle your own life—cooking, cleaning, managing finances—empowers you and builds confidence.

So yes, let’s get back to basics! It’s about making small, consistent improvements that lead to big changes over time. Let’s focus on these fundamentals and watch how our lives transform.

The problem most men have is that the so-called basics do NOT come naturally to them. All the things we've listed are things that do take effort to most men( including myself to be clear). So when "suddenly out of nowhere " a woman enters your life you gotta run marathons to get to fecking basic level zero. While IF you would've stayed ready you could go into the plus region effortlessly , if this makes sense in proper English..

One thing / trick I use nowadays is the following: I get some game let's say at the gym. 5,2 pretty Asian smiles at me. I imagine she unexpectedly wants to go home with me. Now...am.I ready READY in that case? Do I have EVERYTHING in place to "battle" her bytch shield, her judgements, her standards ect?

Because if I DON'T, it might explain why I am NOT actively chasing her. I might know SUBCONSCIOUSLY that she won't be impressed thus I spare myself from a possible rejection. Eventually this is SELF SABOTAGING.

All because I didn't honor the basic and expand shyte from there. You gotta be able to sell yourself like a true hustler, one that can sell water to a well and fire in hell.

If you feel inferior you will act like it. Just fax.

 

[corrector]

The problem most men have is that the so-called basics do NOT come naturally to them. All the things we've listed are things that do take effort to most men( including myself to be clear). So when "suddenly out of nowhere " a woman enters your life you gotta run marathons to get to fecking basic level zero. While IF you would've stayed ready you could go into the plus region effortlessly , if this makes sense in proper English..

One thing / trick I use nowadays is the following: I get some game let's say at the gym. 5,2 pretty Asian smiles at me. I imagine she unexpectedly wants to go home with me. Now...am.I ready READY in that case? Do I have EVERYTHING in place to "battle" her bytch shield, her judgements, her standards ect?

Because if I DON'T, it might explain why I am NOT actively chasing her. I might know SUBCONSCIOUSLY that she won't be impressed thus I spare myself from a possible rejection. Eventually this is SELF SABOTAGING.

All because I didn't honor the basic and expand shyte from there. You gotta be able to sell yourself like a true hustler, one that can sell water to a well and fire in hell.

If you feel inferior you will act like it. Just fax.

Yeah, I'm going to use the coin-flip trick in these type of cases. I give myself a five minute count-down to flip and imagine heads or tails. If it matches I have to approach, otherwise, let it pass. This helps circumvent the feelings of the subconcious, excuses, etc.... and puts all of that into the coin toss. I have yet to try this out, but so far, in the past, when it was used, and the values matched, I did actually approach someone and said hi to her.

 

[sevbucmash]

If dating were a marathon, most guys would show up in flip-flops and wonder why they can't outrun a cheetah in stilettos!

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Meanwhile swiping DOES affect you a man.

Perception = reality. If you make swipe apps your only way to get women it definitely is your reality. And now you get rejected over and over again. Maybe 400 times per week..(s/o to @We_ArE_VeNOM for coming up with this theory.)

Righteous.

Bro, it is straight up beta shiit to only use swipe apps.

So, let me get this straight..

You are on a swipe app, you are swiping and you see an attractive woman...so, you send her a message.

Yet, if you see that same attractive woman at the grocery store (or wherever), you don't send her a message (approach her)?

I just can't rock with that, bro.

But hey, get it how you get it.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

Wtf is going on? Men do all these mental gymnastics to avoid the fecking basics. In boxing we say that whenever you struggle to make progress you go BACK to the basics. The jab 1-2 hook. No need for fancy spinning teakwando kicks if you don't master the basics.

-look good
-smell good
- dress well
- SMILE. Greet everyone, including men. Say HI to women.
-be arrogant. Confident. Love your damn self.
-study game.
- do shyte YOU like. Whatever that is. You wanna play with lego? Have fun! You wanna play cricket? Have fun!
- accept that a man's life is NEVER easy. Getting a perfect unicorn isn't easy.
- learn to do EVERYTHING by yourself. Run your household like a pro by YOURSELF.

Time to go back to start gents.

because only women and children receive unconditional love, men don't

 

[deadmasterx]

I think we're forgetting to mention that most part of "our" generation, men between 18-45, comes from "dismantled" houses with divorced parents, narcissistic mothers and absent fathers. This story is way too common all around the world.

The consequence of that? You'll have a generation of spoiled brats, whiny men who are either extremely insecure and needy on a positive emotional response from females (the so called "betas"), or a guy who is completely disgusted by women and therefore lacks any wish or will do develop any kind of deeper emotional connection (the so called "players"). Both of them are problematic in their own way.

Players usually don't do well financially, but do relatively well with women (because, as mentioned before, they don't look for nor need their support and positive emotional responses, so they're better off than most men in this case, but the ugly truth is that deep inside their sense of "value" is strongly connected to the amount of women they can pull, therefore, making them dependent one way or another). Betas usually do well financially, but don't do well with women (for obvious reasons).

The ideal would be something in-between, that, right? A man who can do well financially as much as he can be a good catch for women. Why is it so rare? Well, I think it's clearly because of the lack of a strong male AND female figure in these men's childhood.

Sure, we can't be crying all our lives regarding the fact that papa didn't care and momma used you as emotional support. But it takes a considerable amount of time to overcome being in either of these "poles".

You'll see that in most men's development, as soon as he realises that he's not valuable and, therefore, he must be better, he'll start, for YEARS, to behave between either beta or player behaviour, eventually displaying some traces of a balanced, "healthy" male.

I think the ideal development, in the absence of a father figure, is to first realize a little bit who you are and what you want. Throw away the useless ideas of hitting the gym to get women, getting a good job to get more women, buying a brand new car to get women. First realize why you're not so valuable, and work on that for the sake of becoming more valuable.

As many of these dating coaches, especially the older ones, will say: "When you're in a good place in life, women will naturally feel attracted to you.". They can sniff your insecurities, you're faking behaviour.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

because only women and children receive unconditional love, men don't

You love unconditionally? Interesting, rarely see that happening.

 

[Gamisch]

I think we're forgetting to mention that most part of "our" generation, men between 18-45, comes from "dismantled" houses with divorced parents, narcissistic mothers and absent fathers. This story is way too common all around the world.

The consequence of that? You'll have a generation of spoiled brats, whiny men who are either extremely insecure and needy on a positive emotional response from females (the so called "betas"), or a guy who is completely disgusted by women and therefore lacks any wish or will do develop any kind of deeper emotional connection (the so called "players"). Both of them are problematic in their own way.

Players usually don't do well financially, but do relatively well with women (because, as mentioned before, they don't look for nor need their support and positive emotional responses, so they're better off than most men in this case, but the ugly truth is that deep inside their sense of "value" is strongly connected to the amount of women they can pull, therefore, making them dependent one way or another). Betas usually do well financially, but don't do well with women (for obvious reasons).

The ideal would be something in-between, that, right? A man who can do well financially as much as he can be a good catch for women. Why is it so rare? Well, I think it's clearly because of the lack of a strong male AND female figure in these men's childhood.

Sure, we can't be crying all our lives regarding the fact that papa didn't care and momma used you as emotional support. But it takes a considerable amount of time to overcome being in either of these "poles".

You'll see that in most men's development, as soon as he realises that he's not valuable and, therefore, he must be better, he'll start, for YEARS, to behave between either beta or player behaviour, eventually displaying some traces of a balanced, "healthy" male.

I think the ideal development, in the absence of a father figure, is to first realize a little bit who you are and what you want. Throw away the useless ideas of hitting the gym to get women, getting a good job to get more women, buying a brand new car to get women. First realize why you're not so valuable, and work on that for the sake of becoming more valuable.

As many of these dating coaches, especially the older ones, will say: "When you're in a good place in life, women will naturally feel attracted to you.". They can sniff your insecurities, you're faking behaviour.

Great Post!