Absolutely! It’s refreshing to hear someone emphasize the importance of mastering the basics. Just like in boxing, where the fundamentals are crucial for success, the same applies to life and social interactions.
- Look Good, Smell Good, Dress Well: These are the first impressions that set the tone. Taking pride in your appearance reflects self-respect and can boost your confidence.
- Smile and Greet Everyone: A simple smile can open doors. It’s amazing how much warmth and positivity you can spread just by being friendly.
- Confidence is Key: Being confident (not arrogant) is attractive. Embrace who you are and own it. Self-love is the foundation of all meaningful connections.
- Study the Game: Understanding social dynamics and how to engage with others can make a huge difference. It’s not about manipulation; it’s about connection.
- Pursue Your Interests: Engaging in activities you enjoy not only makes you happier but also makes you more interesting to others. Passion is magnetic!
- Embrace the Challenge: Life isn’t easy, and that’s okay. Accepting that struggle is part of the journey can help you build resilience.
- Be Self-Sufficient: Learning to handle your own life—cooking, cleaning, managing finances—empowers you and builds confidence.
So yes, let’s get back to basics! It’s about making small, consistent improvements that lead to big changes over time. Let’s focus on these fundamentals and watch how our lives transform.
The problem most men have is that the so-called basics do NOT come naturally to them. All the things we've listed are things that do take effort to most men( including myself to be clear). So when "suddenly out of nowhere " a woman enters your life you gotta run marathons to get to fecking basic level zero. While IF you would've stayed ready you could go into the plus region effortlessly , if this makes sense in proper English..
One thing / trick I use nowadays is the following: I get some game let's say at the gym. 5,2 pretty Asian smiles at me. I imagine she unexpectedly wants to go home with me. Now...am.I ready READY in that case? Do I have EVERYTHING in place to "battle" her bytch shield, her judgements, her standards ect?
Because if I DON'T, it might explain why I am NOT actively chasing her. I might know SUBCONSCIOUSLY that she won't be impressed thus I spare myself from a possible rejection. Eventually this is SELF SABOTAGING.
All because I didn't honor the basic and expand shyte from there. You gotta be able to sell yourself like a true hustler, one that can sell water to a well and fire in hell.
If you feel inferior you will act like it. Just fax.