Masturbating is it healthy or not?

[AngelusPUA]

Myth: "Masturbation is natural and healthy"

Is it really?

Ask yourself these questions.

Aside from the obvious benefits of reliving sexual tension for a few hour or days what possible benefit does masturbation serve?

After you have finished masturbating what have you accomplished?

Is masturbation helping you advance in life or is it holding you back?

How much time a week do you waste on it?

I don’t follow the bible and I don’t have any affinity towards religion so don’t mistake this post as some bible lovers crusade to abolish the evil sin of masturbation, with this post I intend to share my views, opinions and knowledge on the subject.

Masturbation in my eyes is a tool that society uses (one of many actually) to keep us down, it’s all about conformity and the average man knowing his place. Masturbation is a solace that we as a gender can all come back to when times are bad, it is our heroine, man has become so reliant on masturbation that it has become more of an addiction than a pleasure. Masturbation is just a means to an end without an end.

The inception of internet porn and the wide spread social acceptance of masturbation (they teach us how to masturbate in school damn it) Has made it become all so normal it’s not a dirty secret we all do in the cupboard over our dads playboy magazine’s anymore. It’s an epidemic that’s taking over and is ruining our lives, what you think I’m over reacting? Take a look around you, take a look at yourself how often do you masturbate?
What if I told you masturbation wasn’t natural? In fact what if I said masturbation is detrimental to your mental health? You would say I’m crazy but no I’m not, masturbation is counterproductive, whenever we want a woman really bad, so bad that our bodies begin to tingle, the blood drains from our big head and goes into our small head, what do we do? We masturbate to relive that tension but what would happen if we didn’t?

I’ll tell you what would happen; we would have 10x the willpower and 10x the incentive to actually do something to get that woman. Instead of sitting in front of your screen with your hand under your desk looking at a picture of some girl getting fu*ked, wishing you were the guy with his d*ck inside her instead of the guy with his d*ck in his hands. You should be out there fu*king that girl, you my friend should be out there having a wild goddamn orgie but not you are sitting at your computer with your c*ck in your hands. When you *** you aren’t just releasing sperm you are also ejaculating any bit of willpower and incentive you have.

Do you know how much energy you expend when you wank?

I myself stopped masturbating 8 months ago and not only did I save a small fortune on tissues but my productivity has more than doubled.

-I go to the gym a lot more: To expend all the extra energy

-I find it so much easier to relate to women: Now this is a little hard to believe, I will try my best to explain it though. Women are every sexual being so much so that when they talk there is so much sexual innuendo in what they say. When you stop masturbating or start masturbating less you will pick up on so many hidden signals from women. Women will appreciate this because you are more because they perceive you as being on the same wave length as them. This is a rare quality in men so you become more highly valued.

-It cleared my mind and made me wittier: You will be surprised how quick witted you will become and women love witty guys. It is also beneficial to you, you become a lot quicker and sharper.

-I had a lot more free time: Masturbating expends so much energy and it also release chemicals in your brain that make you tired. If you stop masturbating you will find that you have so much more free time so you can accomplish more things day to day.

These are just some of the main benefits but rest assured there are many more.

Maybe you think I’m a nut job or maybe you agree, but please hold your opinions till you try it yourself. So I pose a challenge to all of you……….

Stop masturbating for a period of 4 weeks, yeh you heard me, for 4 weeks don’t jerk off at all. You might need to get rid of all your porn and I strongly advise you take up a hobby, whatever it is you decide to do just don’t jerk off. Now if in those 4 weeks you do not notice your life is improving you can come back here, I will apologies and call myself an idiot.

The first 2 weeks will be extremely difficult but get past them and you should be home free, take it from me I haven’t done it in 8 months and I’m going strong. Obviously you’re allowed to have sex but NO SELF PLESURING.

If anybody takes up this challange GOODLUCK and I hope it works aswell for you as it has for me.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

What about NOCTURNAL masturbation with social reconstruction thoughts?

Let me explain; suppose you cant go to sleep, and risk staying awake all night, and you are super-horney, and you are thinking of better ways you could engage in kino-touching with someone you talked to, and while you are making these reconstructions you start jerking off - and you go to sleep fast because you just spent your energy up that was keeping you awake.

You think in that situation it could be healthy. I did so last night, and although I felt lousy about it the next morning, I felt like I touched someone, or like i can do the kino-touches better. i'm not sure.

When I jerk-off, I have an alter-ego which I'm super-confident with women, touching them etc...and filter out my 'hesitancy and shyness', and jerk-off on social reconstructions and visualise success. Are you sure it's unhealhty, or that practise is unhealthy - visualisaiton of success with women as a means of sleeping better on some nights you cant get a shut-eye?

 

[Cowhead418]

While doing it too much can lower energy levels and willpower, it is recommended that you do it a few times per week (sex can be a suitable alternative) to prevent prostate problems. The sperm you produce has to go somewhere and it is not healthy to keep it inside you all the time.

 

[The JustMan]

I think the problem is not masturbating but being a keyboard jockey. Instead of going out you stay in and just whack it because you need to release or at least do something. I have been sheltered by my own fault mostly my teenage and early adult life. I am now going out all the time and I love it! I do not masturbate as much because I do not have the time. I think the problem lies in the fact that many people need to go out more and change their lives. Masturbation is only a symptom of the real problem. KJing is only a symptom too. The problem is people are afraid to live life. They are afraid of being happy and experiencing what the world has to offer. I now am starting to believe that many of the people on here, even the masters, are living empty lives. I have only been posting for a while, 2 months, and only to inspire people here that know where I am coming from. I think many people are just wasting their lives. It is not about flaming, not about fvcking as much chicks as possible, not about losing your virginity, not about not masturbating, it is about going out, having fun, approaching everyone, and enjoying life. Love and respect yourself first, and, I believe, the women will love and respect you. No more computer, no more tv, no more masturbating, no more inactivity, go out, live, love, learn!

 

[AngelusPUA]

While doing it too much can lower energy levels and willpower, it is recommended that you do it a few times per week (sex can be a suitable alternative) to prevent prostate problems. The sperm you produce has to go somewhere and it is not healthy to keep it inside you all the time.

That is just a myth I have actually consulted 2 doctors on this subject and they say there are no definitive studies that prove masturbation lowers the risk of prostate cancer.

Luke Skywalker
If you were not being sarcastic I'll say, if you aren't tired and you still have energy why would you want to sleep? Yes it does help you fall asleep but that soon passes when your body adjusts. I personally sleep 5-6 hours a night; I work from home so I don't have to wake up for work or anything I just can’t sleep more than 5-6 hours. It sounds crazy but I attribute that to no jerking off I use to sleep 8 hours a night or more. Since I stopped I sleep a lot less…….

The JustMan
No T.V helps a lot to, your overall idea hit the nail on the head. People need to get out and experience the world.

 

[ThomasCrown]

I agree 100%.

To follow through you need to eliminate all porn, and if you really want it bad, then dont watch or read anything that puts women on a pedestal.

Like soap operas and ****.

Now I just watch and listen to self improvement stuff, if I want to relax I'll watch some boxing or mma, or a good action movie.

Meditating on nothing and clearing your system of everything helps too. Eliminate all the clutter in your life too.

I am on day 7 of a 42 day plan. 6 weeks without masturbation, to become a man again.

 

[AngelusPUA]

I’m not blaming masturbation for not being able to pickup women........... I never said that

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Lol, if someone blames their ability to pick up women on masturbating, then they're just making up excuses.

Lack of confidence, laziness, fear of rejection, and acting like an 'AFC' are the causes of not being able to pick up women, not masturbation.

No, if masturbation makes you lose energy levels and makes you less 'horney', then it would reflect with laziness, lack of confidence and fear of rejection. If you have lots of energy, then you take more risks, and are more bolder. Try flirting if you are half asleep all the time, or would rather get some sleep then close a number.

So, I think blaming it on masturbation is perfectly valid if it contributes to a low energy state.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Luke Skywalker
If you were not being sarcastic I'll say, if you aren't tired and you still have energy why would you want to sleep? Yes it does help you fall asleep but that soon passes when your body adjusts. I personally sleep 5-6 hours a night; I work from home so I don't have to wake up for work or anything I just can’t sleep more than 5-6 hours. It sounds crazy but I attribute that to no jerking off I use to sleep 8 hours a night or more. Since I stopped I sleep a lot less…….

Dude. I'm not being sarcastic here, I'm serious, if I were kidding, my post would not be longer than a few lines.

5-6 hours - I thought you needed a minimum of 8 hours sleep. Well, then what am I supposed to do when I'm awake during the night and cant get a shut-eye then. Guess, I'll just have to listen to the radio or something all night long.

 

[flexion_]

If anything you do affects your day-to-day life enough to impair it then you are doing it too much.

That goes for smoking, drinking, eating, gambling or whatever... Its not a black and white concept.

 

[Rocko]

While doing it too much can lower energy levels and willpower, it is recommended that you do it a few times per week (sex can be a suitable alternative) to prevent prostate problems. The sperm you produce has to go somewhere and it is not healthy to keep it inside you all the time.

Masturbation, now doctor recommended haha. Well, I have never heard of it being UNHEALTHY to NOT masterbate. My friend can go months without it. I can honestly say that i USED TO beat it 2-3 times a day. Its true, all you want to do is stay at home and watch TV, it drains you physically! I have made a promise to myself to stop masterbating now that I'm in Israel, and I have noticed the way women react toward me is very different. At parties, I seem to attract them (past 2 parties Ive gone to and I havent beatin it in 2 weeks, I have been called hot / cute / confident, you name it). I am also a LOT more active now then before. I interact more and spend time with other people, and to be honest, I have only had one urge to start jerkin it these past 2 weeks because I had a dream where I was bonin 2 pornstars and a HB9 from my school haha. You guys should try it out, you will feel fresh, at least try for once a week.

 

[AngelusPUA]

There we have it........

 

[Blackdragon5095]

No T.V helps a lot to, your overall idea hit the nail on the head. People need to get out and experience the world.

I disagree with the T.V Part. Not with the other half. T.V. has caused as to be afc's. T.V shows the nice guy getting girls and the jerk losing. Unless it's something interesting, good movie or funny. You really shouldn't watch too much T.V. Media had us brainwashed believeing crap like nice guys and women are better. Becareful of what you see and hear on t.v

Now to answer your question.
Masturbating is it healthy or not?

Masturbating can help you relax and lose stress. Same with sex and getting bj. If you are gonna stop masturbating make sure you do something to help you relax at the end of the day. Remember many people are getting cancers and other bad health from stress. Masturbating will sure help you relax. But what if it comes addictive to beating your meat all the time ??

I do agree I do masturbate myself less. I'm working on doing it less and less.

 

[jonwon]

the problem with not masterbating in my opinion.

I have tried this and it is very hard i will give it a better effort next time.

I have high test' anyway so just going 5 days makes me see things differently it does make you more active and want to do things.

But when it comes to sex, the only problem i have is thinking when you stick it in the pink hole your gonna shoot your sticky cocconut from the vainy love tree after the second it enters that slippery wet, moist love funnel.

Thats the problem.

No staying power, how does this effect you?

 

[GatorBait]

"A team in Australia led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council Victoria in Melbourne asked 1079 men with prostate cancer to fill in a questionnaire detailing their sexual habits, and compared their responses with those of 1259 healthy men of the same age. The team concludes that the more men ejaculate between the ages of 20 and 50, the less likely they are to develop prostate cancer.

The protective effect is greatest while men are in their twenties: those who had ejaculated more than five times per week in their twenties, for instance, were one-third less likely to develop aggressive prostate cancer later in life (BJU International, vol 92, p 211).

The results contradict those of previous studies, which have suggested that having had many sexual partners, or a high frequency of sexual activity, increases the risk of prostate cancer by up to 40 per cent. The key difference is that these earlier studies defined sexual activity as sexual intercourse, whereas the latest study focused on the number of ejaculations, whether or not intercourse was involved.

The team speculates that infections caused by intercourse may increase the risk of prostate cancer. "Had we been able to remove ejaculations associated with sexual intercourse, there should have been an even stronger protective effect of other ejaculations," they suggest. "Men have many ways of using their prostate which do not involve women or other men," Giles adds."

 

[skip2mylou781]

a few points - if ur not getting laid, then DONT STOP masturbating, cuz its only effective if u have sex at least 5 times a week, otherwise ull b too horny for ur all good (i kno i would b anyway)

also, i persoanlly jerk off 5 times a day, but i also fvck 5 - 10 times a week usually, no problems, no premature bs, no impotence bs, none of that.

masturbating HELPS me think about sex and picture fvckin *****es, but the difference is, when i masturbate, i think about MY girls aka the ones i been with already, and not porn. This helps me next time i see them to make me wanna fvck them even more esp since i fantasized about it first.

also, i dunno how some of u who dont jerk off for days or weeks do with the ladies, but do u mean to tell me that if u dont jerk it for 2 weeks, ur gonna b able to last more than 10 seconds with a girl????

DO ALL U WHO PRAISE NO MASTURBATION GET LAID ON A REGULAS BASIS, OR DO U JUST TELL PEOPLE NOT TO JERK IT WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING THE SEXUAL SIDE EFFECTS???

normal masturbation helps very much so in lasting power during sex because after not cumming for lets say a week, ur juices r ready to exit as fast as possibl eand u WILL NOT LAST and the girl will b laughing at u at how quickly u finished.

so yea, answer me all those who praise no masturbation - do u guys have lotsa sex, and lotsa sex where u actually last more than 5 minutes???? (or 30 seconds!)

 

[mrRuckus]

Myth: "Masturbation is natural and healthy"

Is it really?

Ask yourself these questions.

Aside from the obvious benefits of reliving sexual tension for a few hour or days what possible benefit does masturbation serve?

After you have finished masturbating what have you accomplished?

Why does everything have to accomplish something?

Let's say you just did a chick you have no intention to do anything with except to do again... what have you accomplished? Nothing really except PLEASURE. What's so wrong with that? It's not like you're taking drugs or some harmful form of pleasure. You're wankin it and goin to bed because it feels good. What would you do with that time anyway? Watch tv?! What are you George Constanza and when you don't jerk it you get smarter? Maybe if you'd all jerk it more I could actually go to the bar and have a decent time and talk to people instead of being ignored by every dude because they're so busy trying to get laid... and not every girl would assume i'm trying to hit on them.

 

[KoalaKing]

:yes: I am a 38 year old single guy, I masturbate every single morning if I don't have a hot babe in my bed, which is quite often.

I can tell you that even though I am a powerfully built and physically strong man who can push heavy weights and perform hard labour, I don't have a lot of energy at the end of the day, I sleep 10 hours most nights.

On the positive side I have been a 25 a day smoker for well over 20 years, I am never sick and I have not yet had cancer or anything like that.

Masturbating on a daily basis may have absorbed a lot of my energy, but I still look very strong and young for my age.

It hasn't affected my ability to attract the hottest babes at all, whilst I am in bed at night before I sleep, I perform positive affirmations about myself and I also perform my deep breathing exercises and I work on my speech, I am extremely confident around the hottest babes and I never have to date one who is over 30 or under a HB8 as the result.

I have always sarged hot babes for my own personal enjoyment and not so that I can brag about the numbers that I get, sometimes I just want to spend my days alone, surfing the internet, enjoying a beer, watching TV or listening to my music, so I don't desire to be with a hot babe all of the time, why should I sarge to impress others if I just want to be alone.

Anyway this is how I see it, if I am masturbating then I am not going to rape a hot babe, nor pay out alot of money for a gorgeous call girl to visit me, so I will continue to do it if I desire to.:yes:

 

[QQQX]

http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_250/293b_love_tip.html

It has been proven that after about three months of abstaining from sex a man’s testosterone level drops to that of a child’s, which doesn’t bode well for the increased aggression or energy necessary for the edge in some sports.

 

[Brooxy]

i think that the idea of masturbation being unhealthy is ridiculous. I have heard that masterbation cn lead to increased energy levels but i think partly what your saying has to do with the placebo affect to some extent. Also the sexual build up that you have and that leads to you looking for more women. But seriously, have a think, would we have evolved to enjoy sex and masturbation if it wasnt healthy?