I'd like to hear people's opinions on this as I seem to be in a bit of a dilemma about it since "trying out" masculine behaviour.
What I mean is that I consider myself a classy person. I'm educated and well-spoken, well-groomed and dressed, and try to carry an aura of coolness about me. That's the image people know and admire.
But then I consider that masculine behaviour is apparently very attractive to women. Yet when I look at those sort of guys and with all their loud and uncouth behaviour (chanting football songs in the streets etc) and macho showmanship, I just consider them primitive morons and I honestly feel like it's beneath me.
I'm not effeminate, but I'm not macho. I just like to maintain some class and maturity.
When I look at women in the same way, I feel it's like comparing the classy ladies you find in wine bars to the sassy girls you meet in clubs. I know which appeals to me the most, so it makes sense for me to stick with my current image.
What's your take on this? How do you promote your masculinity while keeping an aura of sophistication?
What I mean is that I consider myself a classy person. I'm educated and well-spoken, well-groomed and dressed, and try to carry an aura of coolness about me. That's the image people know and admire.
But then I consider that masculine behaviour is apparently very attractive to women. Yet when I look at those sort of guys and with all their loud and uncouth behaviour (chanting football songs in the streets etc) and macho showmanship, I just consider them primitive morons and I honestly feel like it's beneath me.
I'm not effeminate, but I'm not macho. I just like to maintain some class and maturity.
When I look at women in the same way, I feel it's like comparing the classy ladies you find in wine bars to the sassy girls you meet in clubs. I know which appeals to me the most, so it makes sense for me to stick with my current image.
What's your take on this? How do you promote your masculinity while keeping an aura of sophistication?