Married Women, Single Women

[hithard]

Well what I've said is a person shouldn't break a commitment. You may not own someone but they should be bound to an agreement they made unless they notify you they no longer want to keep the commitment.

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Which is why so many men end up here.It would be nice if peoples commitment were always solid.But irl thats just not the case due to a million different factors.

 

[STR8UP]

I got your points, I'm just disagreeing with them as follows. I don't think most people really find cheating unethical or there wouldn't be so much of it.

Another excellent point.

Adultery statistics vary and I doubt that any of them account for anything but flat out balls to the wall FUKKING, but I think it's safe to say that a good solid 50% of the population are CHEATERS. And that is the person WHO IS COMMITTING THE ACT.

With that in mind, go up to 100 people on the street and ask their opinion on cheating.

-There will be 5-10 people like me and Mac going "Eh...sh!t happens...what are you gonna do about it?"

-You'll have another 20 with a more moderate stance on the subject, who might not agree with it, but they understand it nonetheless, like Rollo, Keto, Kontroller, Karma, hithard, reset, and a few others.

-Then you have the OTHER 70-75% who get up on the nearest table and scream bloody murder preaching virtues.

50% or more of the population are cheaters. Wanna have a guess which of the three groups I mentioned above contains the MOST cheaters?

I'm not a bettin' man, but if I were, my money would be on group #3!

 

[STR8UP]

What if you steal money from him and then he comes after you. Would that make him an AFC b!tch?

Nope. And the difference is that money is PROPERTY, women are not.

If I caught someone stealing from me I would do my best to smash his head in.

If I caught someone fukking my wife, I'd be upset, but I would walk away.

 

[guru1000]

Nope. And the difference is that money is PROPERTY, women are not.

If I caught someone stealing from me I would do my best to smash his head in.

If I caught someone fukking my wife, I'd be upset, but I would walk away.

And if someone f*cked your wife; she divorced you and took a million. Would you smash his head in or walk away?

 

[STR8UP]

STR8UP maybe you should come in on a different user name. There are too many people here who will slam you no matter what you do. You could say you fvcked 3 girls at the same time at a party and instead of everyone saying thats awesome we will get people saying well you shouldn't be hanging out with this type of crowd.

Nah....I'll just duck outa here again for awhile when this thread dies down.

Another poster PM'ed me about people giving me a hard time earlier today, and I told him that by now I have realized that the only reason why so many people are still on my nutz is because of their ego investment. I don't take any of this personally cause I know myself and my life and I know how far off a lot of people are in their assessment of me.

Thanks for the compliment, btw.

 

[STR8UP]

Women are not a physical possession that you own. There are a lot of guys here that are making the assumption that in marriage you own the other person. And if someone takes her it’s stealing. Now if there is that much fear, that in reality you do not dictate how another person acts. And you don’t own them, then I hope you don’t come to grief.

Marriage is not a case of I've locked in a partner now I can slack off in the relationship department. If you have something someone else wants, then they will take it. You can cry morals to the wind after the fact.

More words of wisdom

 

[azanon]

ntt

 

[STR8UP]

And if someone f*cked your wife; she divorced you and took a million. Would you smash his head in or walk away?

I would absolutely, without a doubt walk away.

 

[azanon]

So by your reasoning if being true to thy self is raping, or murdering, or stealing, or lying, or sleeping with married women, or any other type of immoral behavior, hey, as long as you admit it and thats what you like to do then its ok.

Alright then.

Immoral according to you? Are these the things you consider immoral?

What was it; 5th grade where we all got those handouts sheets that had statements and you were supposed to tell whether they were opinion (O) or Fact (F). Heck, we have adults still getting the sheet wrong!

 

[azanon]

All this talk of morals/integrity is about to make me vomit. This is possibly the most overrated attributed in existence.

Morals/integrity didn't make me powerful, (relatively) wealthy, influential, wise, educated, attractive, athletic, successful, married to a beautiful/smart woman, happy, healthy, didn't get my job, or much of anything that I give a damn about. Church is brainwashing you guys, I think??? Life is a game, play to win it, and ...... rub the freakin' score in to your opponent!

Ok, so I've had two glasses of wine so if that seemed unclear, don't hold me to it.

By all means, get back to talking about how great being moral and virtuous is!

 

[cordoncordon]

All this talk of morals/integrity is about to make me vomit. This is possibly the most overrated attributed in existence.

Morals/integrity didn't make me powerful, (relatively) wealthy, influential, wise, educated, attractive, athletic, successful, married to a beautiful/smart woman, happy, healthy, didn't get my job, or much of anything that I give a damn about. Church is brainwashing you guys, I think??? Life is a game, play to win it, and ...... rub the freakin' score in to your opponent!

Ok, so I've had two glasses of wine so if that seemed unclear, don't hold me to it.

By all means, get back to talking about how great being moral and virtuous is!

Actually I dont attend church, don't believe in organized religion (in fact I think its a total farce and scam), I do believe in evolution, and to be honest don't even believe that Jesus was some sort of god, he was just a guy.

However i do believe in not sh1tting on your fellow man, and trying to live an honorable and mature life. I'm sorry that you think that fvcking a married woman is alright for you. To each his own.

 

[ketostix]

Another excellent point.

Adultery statistics vary and I doubt that any of them account for anything but flat out balls to the wall FUKKING, but I think it's safe to say that a good solid 50% of the population are CHEATERS. And that is the person WHO IS COMMITTING THE ACT.

With that in mind, go up to 100 people on the street and ask their opinion on cheating.

-There will be 5-10 people like me and Mac going "Eh...sh!t happens...what are you gonna do about it?"

-You'll have another 20 with a more moderate stance on the subject, who might not agree with it, but they understand it nonetheless, like Rollo, Keto, Kontroller, Karma, hithard, reset, and a few others.

-Then you have the OTHER 70-75% who get up on the nearest table and scream bloody murder preaching virtues.

50% or more of the population are cheaters. Wanna have a guess which of the three groups I mentioned above contains the MOST cheaters?

I'm not a bettin' man, but if I were, my money would be on group #3!

Excellent point. While I've turned down married women, I never say if a married woman is offering her pvssy on a platter that I wouldn't ever take her up on it. And depending on the context I don't see it any less ethical than fvcking a "single" girl. The difference between you, I, and the majority is we'd admit it and the majority won't, yet the majority are more likely to fvck a married girl like you said.

 

[ketostix]

Actually I dont attend church, don't believe in organized religion (in fact I think its a total farce and scam), I do believe in evolution, and to be honest don't even believe that Jesus was some sort of god, he was just a guy.

However i do believe in not sh1tting on your fellow man, and trying to live an honorable and mature life. I'm sorry that you think that fvcking a married woman is alright for you. To each his own.

The thing is while I would generally not fvck a married woman, I base everything on the over all context. Personally, I don't consider PU and seduction an ethical thing to begin with. To me it's only fully ethical to fvck a girl you would have intentions of being devoted and commited to. Do I do ONS and flings? Yes, but I'm working within an imperfect world. My point is depening on the context I don't automatically assume fvcking a married woman is necessarily any less ethical than fvcking a "single" woman. Women and ethics are essentially mutually exclusive. Sex and dealing with women sexually is a dirty business and you'll always get your hands dirty.

There's nothing wrong with drawing the line at the women being married regardless of the dynamics, but that doesn't automatically make you more ethic and a person who doesn't draw the that simplistically less ethical. There's more to it than that.

 

[ketostix]

Nah....I'll just duck outa here again for awhile when this thread dies down.

You better not duck out before you at least make a thread about the myth of the single girl lol. That could be your piece de resistance thread.

 

[Latinoman]

The sticking point here is that you personally believe that what I did was wrong , and that i have a problem admitting that it was wrong, so I felt the need to justify what I did.

Wrong. My very first post (see post #8) started with

Good thread STR8UP.

and ended with

I have phucked plenty of married women in my PAST. Not advisable...but I am not going to play morals in here so I won't even comment on that.

I ONLY started to talk about the issue AFTER you came with your justifications and woma_nese language.

The problem here is that YOU personally believe that it was an "immoral" or "unethical" act.

It does NOT matter what I believe or what anyone in here believe. It is unethical by our societal standards. That goes without saying. In fact, saying otherwise is idiotic.

But this is according to YOU personally, and although most people might tend to agree with you because they subscribe to the same religious or societal "norm" that doesn't make it an absolute truth, as you would have us believe that it is.

Listen...it does not matter what norm I personally subscribe (and for the record, I have probably phucked more married women than your combined number of single and married.

Fact is...by societal standards is wrong. Fact is...a married man ends up losing the most financially in a divorce (and YOU are contributing toward that, which on itself is NOT a DJ thing)...and fact is...you are justifying your behavior.

Those are facts. Be a Man and live with them.

 

[Latinoman]

Then why is he the one going on and on about society considering this situation unethical?

Because...SOCIETY considers the situation unethical.

Do I consider the situation "immoral"? Personally...who cares how I consider the situation? It is a personal decision. But that does not change the fact of how society considers the situation.

 

[DavenJuan]

WILL SOMEONE CLOSE THIS THREAD

we are discussing the same thing with the same people 9 pages back.

IMO this is taking away from the community as a whole.

other perspectives, ideas, etc can be shared elsewhere while people contribute nothing "additional" that can be discussed on this issue.

 

[Latinoman]

Glad you caught this cause it just goes to show how confused some people are.

Let's see who is the confused person in here:

STR8UP = 234 threads

Latinoman = 25 threads

STR8UP = 4,933 posts (of which 5% have been threads you started)
Latinoman = 3589 posts (of which less than one percent have been thread I started)

Our ration of post is 1 1/3 to 1 in your favor. However our ration of threads created is 10 to 1 in your favor.

About 70-90% of the threads you posted are about some issue or drama in your life.

Only 4% of my threads related to some sort of rant or drama (and that was in relation to the Forum).

No offense...but our past behaviors and actions clearly INDICATE that if anyone is confused...that person is YOU.

 

[iqqi]

Let's see who is the confused person in here:

STR8UP = 234 threads

Latinoman = 25 threads

STR8UP = 4,933 posts (of which 5% have been threads you started)
Latinoman = 3589 posts (of which less than one percent have been thread I started)

Our ration of post is 1 1/3 to 1 in your favor. However our ration of threads created is 10 to 1 in your favor.

About 70-90% of the threads you posted are about some issue or drama in your life.

Only 4% of my threads related to some sort of rant or drama (and that was in relation to the Forum).

No offense...but our past behaviors and actions clearly INDICATE that if anyone is confused...that person is YOU.

OMG, funniest sh!t ever. I had to rep you for this one.

Talk about "ownage".

LOL.

 

[ZenGodMod]

Let's see who is the confused person in here:

STR8UP = 234 threads

Latinoman = 25 threads

STR8UP = 4,933 posts (of which 5% have been threads you started)
Latinoman = 3589 posts (of which less than one percent have been thread I started)

Our ration of post is 1 1/3 to 1 in your favor. However our ration of threads created is 10 to 1 in your favor.

About 70-90% of the threads you posted are about some issue or drama in your life.

Only 4% of my threads related to some sort of rant or drama (and that was in relation to the Forum).

No offense...but our past behaviors and actions clearly INDICATE that if anyone is confused...that person is YOU.

Christ.

The Research!