Originally posted by assius
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[from prior thread]...Anyways, what the hell are these games she is playing? I dont want her ass back as a girlfriend...
...As for denying sex cuz I am her puppy dog. I disagree, the night I stayed over, I could have done her without a doubt. I chost not to push that though...
The
game is that she's testing whether she can use her attractiveness and seduce you. Anytime she wants. That is, can she call you up, make up any silly excuse (didn't even have to get sexy on the phone), rub you under the table and get you follow her home?
Yeah. She could. She did. (she called, you came, she conquored!)
Not boning her that night proves nothing --
nothing! -- because you failed the test so many times before that. Let us count the ways:
a) you responded to the txt message.
b) you then took the phone call
c) you - uh - met up. Actually, if effect you came immediately upon being summoned.
d) you followed up with lunch
e) you followed her home again for a second time in (I could be wrong here) less than 36 hours.
I get the sense you think you exercised restraint and control and scored some victories here - and maybe so. I'll credit you with the lunch bill, but she scored more, though, far more by then.
She's an attention wh0re, and she got plenty of it. That's the game.