Lust's 100 Approaches in 2007 Challenge - Comments/Advice Please!

[Lust]

Approach 25

Saturday 5th of May

Meeting the other PUAs

After being in the lair for a month or so, I get to meet some of the lairs members finally. I had met TigerWolf before, and I found out he lives really close to me, so he and I have decided to wing each other out.

So before the lair meeting TigerWolf and I decided to make the most of being early and make an approach.

3 set, all around 7 I think. Can’t remember much.

Me: Hey I need a quick female opinion, but you guys have to be quick, I have to get going.

Them: Yeah sure.

Me: Gay Opener.

Them: Oh my god, a guy? Are you serious?

Fluff fluff fluff.

Tigerwolf then came into the set. I didn’t get to accomplishment intro him yet, but oh well.

TW: Hey guys what’s going on?

Me: Intro Tigerwolf.

*I should have said, oh remember how some dude try to hit on me? Or something like that, to make the interaction seem more natural. Oh well.

We fluffed, it was awkward, and we left.

They said something like “Have a nice day”

Which I took as an, “Gotta go now”.

TigerWolf said there was some positiveness behind it, but I couldn’t see how.

We exited with the usual “Pleasure meeting you stuff”.


Pretty lame approach, but hey, it’s an approach.

It was time to get to the meeting so off we went.

I met Loki (Props for organising it all), NightboyDave, Mayfair and Michael.

The things that had to say were real useful, an eye opener. The energy that NightBoyDave had was something that I really wanted to have in my interactions. The guys talked a lot about Inner Game, and what we needed to work on, how to create some more structure in our lair etc…

I won’t get into the details.

I noticed that their energy level and the way they mimicked approaches were all really natural. Really relaxed, but energetic.

I think the way Tiger and I went into the set before was a little too unnatural. The set could tell we don’t normally talk to strangers, and we had to really push ourselves to make an approach.

What I need to do is to get my energy levels right when approaching, and to convey that it’s totally normal for me to approach randoms on the street.

Loki organised the 31 day challenge and I am planning to participate. I just hope it doesn’t require going out too often, because I still have school.

Results:

I am glad I finally got to meet some of the more experienced guys, who have even gotten past the whole “fvck as many chicks as possible” stage.

Today was a huge barrage of valuable information, and I was able to figure out a few things with TigerWolf for next time.

 

[Dogfish]

alright, now that effin awesome.
i never approcha older chicks - but you just don't give a ****.

thanks mate, good hunting - you inspired me

 

[Lust]

Approach 26

Monday 7th of May

I’m giving off a gay vibe?

Older girl on our school bus. She's got a senior top on, so she's in year 12, while I'm only in year 10. She's probably 2 years older, so it was cool that she was the one that broke ice. I had been really high energy all day (Thank you Tony Robbins and your "Hour of Power"). She's Russian; she likes to hang around with the so called "Gangstas". The kids that think they are top by carrying knives and smoking in school. Eh, I guess it was a compliment that she must of thought I was worth speaking to, she's a little slutty and probably has high "Gangsta" standards. Pft.

Let me give you some thing to work with, at our school, there's a group of guys who are the "Gangsta" kids, then there are the other cool kids. The less rappy, less RnBish, more crazy cool kids. Us.

Then there’s the rest, eh they don't matter much, don't take too much notice of them.

Anyway, she sits behind me, I'm with my mate, we're being idiots and I'm pretending to be gay, and like doing stupid ****. Guess we caught her eye, I had no idea she was behind me, I was just having fun and being myself. She’s about a high 7, 7.8ish. Maybe an 8 to me cause she’s older, and I just find it more attractive.

Her: Hey excuse me, can I like just ask you something?
Me: Hmm? Yeah what?
Her: You're not gay are you?
Me: Don't worry, I like girls too.
Her: *Giggle, whatever, I forget.* Like, you didn't just try and kiss him did you?
Me: What? You got something against gays? Eh eh eh??
Her: Nooo... It’s just weird.

(Went into the Gay Opener, because it seemed to fit, and because it was really congruent)

Her: There’s like the guy stuff kind of gay where you're all like "Hey sexy" and stuff, but you are like, actually gay?
Me: Hey check it out *Lift up my school shirt, I'm wearing this bring blue beater, real homo* Bright blue beater, what does that tell you?


Then I fluffed about gay guys and their fashion and ****.

I was sending a lot of mixed signals, DHVing a fair bit with the fluff about fashion, all the usual.

I gave her this look like I was going to punch her in the nose, then blew her a kiss and turned around. She giggled her ass off and I just ignored her for the last 5 mins. I think a fairly strong frame I got going, she definitely feels like I am higher value than she is.

It was a real nice interaction; I definitely had a lot of attraction going. I’ll be looking to game her later at school.


Results:

Nothing, except maybe some social proof. She is a fair bit older, and I guess “High profile”. I built a lot of attraction, and she’s one of those chicks that will probably ask questions and talk about me to her friends.

 

[Lust]

Approaches: 27, 28, 29, 30, 31

Friday 11th of May

Blasting away approach anxiety

This was awesome, I felt so alive today, so in control, so energetic.

Since participating the Style Life Challenge, I can tell I have gained a lot more confidence.

Today, the challenge was to approach 5 women and get them to recommend me a clothing store. I have them down briefly here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=123136

But I’ll get into the details in this post, because I love to have a quick breakdown of my interactions to see where I need improvement. Also, I think a few of these quick interactions actually turned out to be a good chat and I reckon I would have build quite a bit of attraction.

So we and my mates headed into town, we ate so much it’s not funny. I felt like crap. But the beauty is, after a few approaches, I felt like the king of the world.

My mates had left, it was around 5:10, and I still hadn’t made an approach. Time to go nuts!

Approach 27:

4 set. (7.5, 7, 7, 7.2ish)

Me: Hey guys, don’t mean to bother you guys, but I need you’re quick help, I need you guys to recommend me a clothing store, just like any clothing store.

Them: Oh sure um let’s see, Jetty Surf? Like that store behind us? (JRs)
Me: Mmm nah, I don’t really like those type of clothes.
Them: What’s this for? Like just casual?
Me: Yeah, it’s all pretty casual, but it’s gotta look real good. I’m an attention wh0re, I want something that really stands out.

Them: Oh Globalize!! Globalize! Try that! That would be more your style.
Me: What? Globalize?
Them: Yeah, it’s an awesome store!
Me: It’s a guy store right? Pft, my style eh? And send me to a chick store?!? Oh I see.
Them: Haha nah, it’s a guy store!

Then the proceeded to give me directions, after that we fluffed about fashion and how the guys in this town are retarded.
Meanwhile, the two at the back, look at each other like I’m a weirdo, because I was already wearing something that stands out, had a Ukulele, and had so much energy that I was running from one set to another. I wasn’t really engaging the two at the back, so I told them that I wasn’t weird, and fluffed about how I like making new friends and the girls at my school are boring as sh!t. And no where near as helpful as they are.

Them: Hey can I have a look at that little guitar?
Me: Yeah sure, just be gentle, it’s my baby.
Them: Giggle, whatever.
She plays around with it, and hands it back, I jam out a song, tell them it’s nice meeting them, and walk away.

Approach 28

Two girls about 20 meters further down, I approach with the same line and I got this:

(8, and a high 7, 7.8ish?)

Them: Um, we don’t really know anything.
Me: None? Off the top of your head? None at all?
Them: Sorry, we’d love to help.
Me: Ahh, the reason why I asked you is because you two look pretty fashion savvy.
Them: Haha, thanks.
Me: That’s an awesome top, can I try it on? What? No? Fine be weird then.

And I left. Hehe.

Approach 29:

Another two girls around the corner, both UGs, but I made sure I obeyed the 3-second rule and made the approach.

Me: Hey guys, I need you help for just a quick sec. Would you be able to recommend me a guys clothing store?
Them: Clothing store?
Me: Yeah.
Them: A recommendation?
Me: Uh huh
Them: We’re waiting for the bus though.
Me: *Just waved them off and left, I had more to do*

I think this was important, because, I guess I wasn’t speaking clearly, most likely too fast, because I felt so damn energetic. They asked me to repeat two main parts of the sentence. Also, they thought I wanted them to take me to the store or something, so I wasn’t communicating well enough.

Approach 30

Two girls at Starbucks, while I was waiting for my coffee.

(7.5 and a 6)

Me: *Same opener*
Them: Giggles* We don’t really know one.
Me: Come on, can’t think of one off the top of your head?
Them: Sorry. I don’t have like a fashionable brother, he dresses ugly.
Me: Haha, ah, that’s ok (I then added the asked you cause your fashion savvy thing)
Them: Laugh, whatever.

Then two emo chicks asked me if I was carrying a ukulele

Me: Sure is, pretty awesome huh?
Them: Can I play with it?
Me: Only if you promise to be gentle and not break it.
Them: Awesome, this is cool.
Me: Sure is, only 25 bucks from Harrison’s.
Them: Can you play something?
Me: Uh huh *Jam out some tunes*

At this point the two other girls could tell I was just a really friendly guy who didn’t mind engaging with strangers.

Emo Chicks: You’re really funny, here do this! (They did some wavy arm thingy, I dunno, but I mimick)

Then they talk a lot, I forget about what, but holy crap they talk a lot.

I look at the first two girls, and asked them to save me.

The emo chicks asked for my name, I told them, and they’re all “OMG his name is X, we know so many guy’s who’s name is X”


Approach 31

3 girls sitting town in front of some store.

(8.2ish, 6, and a 7)

Me: Same opener*
HB6: Have you tried Jetty Surf and like Ripcurl and stuff?
Me: Nah don’t really like that type of clothing.
HB8: Poofter clothes!
Me: Well what do you think then?
Them: Oh Globalize!
Me: Ahh but I’ve already been recommended that, anything else?
Them: Hmm, oh wait I know I know, give me a sec. ( I was body rocking heavily, and they started really getting into it, shouting out store names and being loud as hell)
Them: Mid West Traders!! Go there!
Me: What was that? Mid West Traders? Where’s that?

They give me directions to it, then recommend me Dangerfield, and give directions for that.

Me: Thanks a lot guys, you guys are fvcking awesome. By the way (To HB8), that’s an awesome shirt, it looks just like my tiger rug. Rawrr. (It was some spotty tiger shirt).

After that I met a whole bunch of my mates, some of my chick friends, and a lot of AMOGS with them that I didn’t know.

I found my mates and they were watching this fat weird guy in the middle of the mall swatting invisible flies and talking to himself. So I went up to him, screamed out how much I loved him, and blew him like a gazillion kisses. The whole mall looked at me, awesome.

I stole the frame plenty of times, had one AMOG beg me to try and buy him some cigarettes, was really friendly with most guys, and even comment on this hardcore gangsta black guy’s hat, when I was alone and he had like his whole crew around. Hehe, good fun. I did all of this in like half an hour, because I had a bus to catch at 5:40.

Something has happened, this Style Life Challenge is definitely beneficial, I am loving it. I feel like the WHOLE WORLD IS MY FRIEND. I felt so good inside.

Results:

Nothing, except a sh!tload of social proof and confidence, and blasting away my approach anxiety, even when I didn’t make that many approaches.

 

[Lust]

Approaches 32, 33, 34, 35

Tuesday the 15th of May

I look so incredibly gay…

Alright, I had so much to do today, and not enough time to do it. I am currently doing the Style Life Challenge, and I have fallen behind 2 days, so I had to get back.

I still needed 3 compliments to give to random strangers, and 5 approaches to make.

I can’t remember all of what I had done, but I made more approaches than I needed. I won’t count some of them, because some are just lame. Here are a few that went reasonably ok.

So I popped into town, I was bored. I was actually freezing out a chick from school because she tried to pull a b!tchy-act on me and use the good old “Bad mood” trick to steal my frame and lower my value. Even though she may not be consciously aware of it.

So I ditched them, and went off to make approaches on my own.

I had peacocked pretty well that arvo, a tight bright red beater, white beachy looking necklace and matching bracelet, big headphones around my neck, hair tied back into a little ponytail, a long black glove for women, and of course my ukulele. I was getting looks everywhere.

The first I made was pretty crap, lasted like 30 seconds, and it turns out one of the girls I had number closed before was there, and I think I had used the same line on her, so I left pretty quickly after recognising her. I don’t count this one.


Approach 32

These two girls walking by, one glanced at me, because of my gloves and the other peacocking gear, and I accused her of checking me out. She accused me of being gay and I ran the gay opener on her. I eject with the whole gay thing, then a “Rawr” with the whole claw and everything with the hand that had the glove. I won’t include a transcription because I wasn’t even listening to what they were saying haha, I had my headphones on and I was just running the routine without taking in what they were saying. They were still receptive though, from what I could lip read.

Approach 33

This girl at my bus stop, she was shy, maybe a 7, nothing special, but good practice.

Me: Hey, I don’t want to be weird, even with all this **** on (My peacocking gear)
Her: Giggle, goes into shy mode, starts going a little red (Haha, I love this)
Me: But like, do I look gay to you? Like out of first impression?
Her: Giggle, no, blah blah
Me: Cause I was talking to this guy, and after like 3 minutes I swear he was hitting on me!
Her: Blah blah

I fluffed about looking weird, the gloves that some random chick gave us, and I eject. This probably isn’t a great approach, but I knew I was doing everything else right, like body language and tonality etc… And I know she was definitely interested.

I didn’t use a verbal time constraint, but I was body rocking heavily, and had high energy and was speaking a little fast, not too fast, but enough for you to tell I was in a hurry.

Approach 34

These two girls sitting down where Cibo Café has it’s tables and seats out. One goes to my school I think and the other I’ve seen with one of my mates mate. So no go for actual attraction.

I had to get some compliments in too, as well as the opener, but I’ll only mention the ones that are worth writing about. If you want to read about all of them, go have a look at my Style Life Challenge thread.

Me: Hey guys, don’t mean to bother, but those are some awesome boots, where’d you get them?
Girls: Oh actually you get them from Shop X or Shop Y, they’re only 50 bucks.
Me: Oh, these aren’t for me by the way, my girlfriend loves these like huge, spaceship looking boots, so I thought I’d get her some. (Even though I don’t actually have a girlfriend, it just makes it easier for me)

Girls: Haha, blah blah

Then I run with the Gay Opinion opener, and they said no I don’t look gay. As if!! I don’t think I can possibly look any more queer, who knows where to get a pink scarf??

This was a nice set, got some really good reactions, I passed them by again and they smiled and were really friendly. Let’s hope the hotter chicks are as friendly.

Approach 35

This Asian chick at the bus stop, had an awesome body, but the face was less so. She was a fair bit older though.

Me: Hey, excuse me, is that your bag? Where’d you get it from?
Her: Blah blah, I forgot
Me: Oh because my girlfriend really loves those huge oversized bags, and her birthday is coming up.
Her: Haha, yeah get them at X and Y. (At this point I body rocked real hard, and she kept trying to keep me staying for a bit, she added something else, but I forgot)

I eject, it was alright, got some good laughs, some good eye contact.

Results:

You know, I’ve noticed that people are actually starting to recognise me, social proof I guess? I should really start to try and get further with my sets now. I don’t want to stay in this little rut for ever, it’s awesome my approach anxiety is leaving, but I am going to start getting some real results. I haven’t closed properly in ages.

 

[Lust]

Thanks for posting your journal, bro. Responses in bold.

Hey mate, thanks a lot for the responses, not many take the time.

The "I look so incredibly gay" bit is just a heading. I name each journal entry, it's just a little fun, plus, who says being gay is a bad thing? It's only bad if you give it a negative connotation, plus, fvcking awesome disqaulifier.

You're probably right about the entertainer bit, but it's so fun and addictive. But you are right, i need to run some serious game.

"Don't mean to bother"...

Yeah, my bad. I usually don't, but for the Style Life Challenge, a lot of it is quite polite, because it's targeted towards the guys who aren't in the community already, so i went along with it. But you're way was definitely better.

This day's challenge was to compliment 5 different women. So i had this assumption that i had to keep it polite. But i guess i can compliment without being too nice.

Thanks for the responses, I have more FRs on the way, keep your eyes open.

 

[Lust]

Approaches 36, 37, 38

Thursday the 17th of May

On a similar note I must confess to you, I'm giving very serious thought... to eating your wife…

Woohoo! I had so much fun today, one of my mates gave me this mask from Hannibal Lecter (Hence the title), I was running around the mall scaring the crap out of randoms. It was so fun! We got a few on video, but my mate was laughing too hard that he kept missing the best bit because he was moving around as he was laughing.

Anyway, I hopped into town to finish my Style Life Challenge tasks. Today I had to approach 5 randoms and open with good time constraint, root and energy level.

I’ll only count the few that I think are worth it.

Approach 36:

I had my mask on, and was jumping around town. I can’t remember too clearly, but I think it was a 4 set.

They were all pretty hot from what I can remember, but I can’t give an accurate rating for each.

Me: Woof! Woof woof woof!
Girls: Giggles, laughs etc…
Me: Mr Hannibal needs a female opinion, but you guys have to be quick, there’s more people I have to scare!
Girls: Hahaha! Ok what?
Me: Mr Hannibal needs to get Mrs Hannibal a birthday present, it’s gotta be good or Mrs Hannibal will be mad and won’t give Mr Hannibal crazy mofo Hannibal sex. What do you yummy little children recommend?

This was awesome, I am proud I thought up of it off the top of my head. Got a HUGE laugh, massive IOIs, they recommended some a necklace from that little jewellery store near the IPOD store. They suck at giving directions.

Approach 37:

A 3 set walking by. I ran up and scared the sh!t out of them, then asked them if I looked gay, because Hannibal Lecter ain’t suppose to be hit on by guys.

Me: Raawwrr!
Girls: Scream, giggles etc…
Me: I need a quick female opinion alright? You guys gotta be quick because I have to go scare more people, but… (Gay opinion opener)

Girls: Hahaha! Well that glove kind of makes you look gay, blah blah I forgot.

Me: Like, it’s a bit weird, I mean, I AM a cannibal and everything, it’s a little weird that guys are hitting on me… sheesh!

Blah blah, fluff fluff. I eject and immediately go scare some guy in a construction uniform.

Oh yeah.

Approach 38:

Hehe ok, so I was really getting into the mood now, I’m having a fvcking blast.

Well, I might have gotten a little carried away here. I undid my belt, and half took off my pants, so that you could see most of my boxers.

What?

My mates like ran away and stayed at a safe distance while they filmed me accusing of a hot 2 set of looking at my crotch.

Me: (As I’m re-doing my belt) Oi! You were looking at my crotch weren’t ya? C’mon admit it, I already caught ya!
Girls: Giggle, laugh etc… Yes! Sexy!!
Me: Ahh you women, so damn predatory.

I call them over, while I’m having troubles with my belt because when I look down, the end of my mask props up, and the eye holes go onto my forehead, I can’t see anything and have no clue what the hell I’m doing. I look like a retard, trying to do my belt up.

Me: Alright guys, be quick I have other places to take my pants off at, but what do you think of this belt? (I know, how gay! It’s what came to my head first, because I was doing my belt up)
Girls: Huh?
Me: Like, I know it’s not that flashy, but once this guy tried to steal it!

Then I tell them this pretty stupid story about how some random tried to steal my belt at the public change rooms for rugby. It would be an awesome story once I fix it up a bit.

Girls: Giggle, whatever, Yeah it’s pretty cool… blah blah

Awesome day, lots of fun. I embarrassed the sh!t out of my mates, it was awesome!

I have had so much fun today, my Inner Game went up, I got comfortable walking tall and with my balls out, and I plan to do it again.

Results:

Nothing, but awesome social proof. Don't worry, I'll close soon.

 

[Lust]

Alright, here we go, this is a warning cause this post is HUGE. I type up my interactions and stuff in a little journal in MS word. Well this particular entry was 8 pages long in MS Word so...just a warning.

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Friday 18th of May

Walking tall with my balls hangin’ out…

Yesterday was so fun! I had to do it again.

Approach 39:

On the bus into the city, my mate and I sat opposite of two girls. Today was disqualification day, so I had to come up with ways to disqualify, these two girls were pretty hot. Maybe 9s, definitely 8.5s.

We were basically just busting their balls to the max, non stop, no rest. My mate is awesome at this, he is an AFC, but he’s great at busting on chicks, and just being a fun but real rude bastard. It was so fun.

We sat there and just chucked bottles and cans at them. Literally, that’s how we opened.

Girls: Ow! Stop! Blah blah
Mate and I: Laugh at them, keep chucking, steal their stuff, laugh.

Actually to be honest I can’t really provide an accurate transcription. Sorry guys, but with all the activity I’ve had in the past week, I get confused.

But my mate and I were having the best fun. My mate is a natural at A2 but he sucks at everything else. But it was ok, they’d like start talking to us and he and I would back turn in sync, it was so funny. He even called the hottest one a dumb b!tch, and they didn’t even say anything about it, we completely took over the frame and dominated the interaction.

So massive IOIs, massive social proof to my mates, my ex (Woo) cause these two were completely interested in us. I accused them of checking me out, and my ex just looks at me, I know what she’s thinking. “Screw you, why don’t you ever flirt with me like that anymore?”

My mates know about the whole pick up thing, and used to be close minded. Baha, I showed them. They saw me in action, I really loved this interaction, everyone on the bus was just watching us two completely plow through every test these 9s were giving us and creating HUGE attraction.

Anyway, my mate had to get off and I took over. Oh yeah. Disqualifiers, the Style Life Challenge is stressing on this aspect today, they were so hot, I just disqualified with this:

Me: Ahahaha, that’s pretty cool, you are pretty awesome, we’d make the best couple but you are so fvcking fat! Holy sh!t you’re huge! We just can’t be together, I am a pretty active guy, and I don’t think you can keep up with me! (Oh I love this one!)

Their jaws just hit the floor. Booyah. It may have been harsh, but you should have seen the look on their faces. Man I love the game.

I got off the bus, no good bye, just hit one in the arm and walked off.

Turns out they go to my school too! And just weren’t in uniform because of some excursion. Score! Game on!

I met up with TigerWolf after school, He just got out of Uni so he and I chilled for a bit over a coffee and just had a chat.

Around 5, we hopped out and started getting our game on.

I saw some chick with an interesting bag, so I went with the old compliment thing, just to warm up.

She was heaps shy, and turned out she was from out of town. I don’t count this one, just warming up.

TigerWolf got some warm up done too; he and I went off to Myer and asked about colognes and stuff. He got recommended a few and tried a different one on each wrist. He was all ready to try Style’s cologne opener.

I was really impressed at how TigerWolf just approached. Didn’t say a word, just bam. Done.

Pretty awesome stuff, it was a 4 set, a pretty hot dominant one, didn’t mind any kino, a slap to the side of Tiger’s shoulder. Definitely should have busted or plowed or negged or something to walk off with higher value. It was a decent interaction, all he needed was a root and time constraint. The dominant chick apparently knows me, I think I may have opened her sometime last week, but I can’t remember. Damn it, that’s the second time this has happened this week. Thank god I’ll be in Melbourne for a week next weekend. Won’t have to worry about that.

After that we have a little dilemma of losing TigerWolf’s bank card and hopping back to the previous store to find it.

Man, this is where I had my fun. Holy sh!t I feel bad for TigerWolf, I decided it was time for me to pull out old Mr Hannibal. I was running around with the masks on, warmed up to some very intimidating AMOGs, clawing at every woman that looked at me, and hi fived a few groups of unfortunate randoms walking by. Oh the wrath of my mask. Woo.

I was just letting go and having an awesome time, being loud and running around, barking at randoms and doing whatever the hell I felt like, and all this time TigerWolf is sitting on the bench looking down muttering “Man I don’t know this guy!”

Bahahaha! Woof.

Lots of social proof, well, actually everyone just thinks I’m nuts. But that’s cool too.

 

[Lust]

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Hehe, eh, at this point I still hadn’t made a decent approach since I arrived in town, so we spotted a pretty nice HB7.5 at the bus stop. She had a senior jumper on, so I knew she was older. Ahh I hate this age thing…

Approach 40:

It was a really long interaction, so I am not going to write down every detail, but I like adding detailed transcriptions to my FRs, so I’ll do my best. I am really happy with this approach, and I know it’s ridiculously long, but I’d appreciate it if someone could provide me with some comments or something because that’s what I spent all this time typing it up for.

Me: Hey, like (pause) I don’t mean to scare you right? (Or something along the lines) I look like a bit of a freak eh? Mmm hmm.
Her: Giggles
Me: But I’m just bursting to know, like when you are in a group of chicks right? I dunno, when you have a girls night out and other weird sh!t women get up to, and you see a hot guy, like do you guys every call dibs?
Her: Haha, um I dunno blah blah
Me: Cause I just got off the phone with my ex, and apparently she did that with me! I had no idea she was so predatory!
Me: Like do you girls have a dominant chick that will say “He’s MINE! Bugger off!”?
Her: Laughs, um not really blah blah but blah blah and sometimes we blah blah.
Me: Bit weird huh? Like I remember my ex used to be hell dominant, WHAT?!? Just cause I look like a queer…
Her: Haha
Me: (I go into my gay routine)
Her: Massive IOIs, huge laughs, at this point every thing I say gets her laughing real hard.
Me: You reckon I look gay? I mean check out the glove!
Her: Haha, yeah but that might have been why you’re girlfriend was like “Dibs!”
Me: (Because of the previous IOIs, I had to reward her for her good behaviour, turn around, face her, positive body language) You know, you’re pretty interesting, you’re more fun than a lot of the other randoms I scared today.
Her: Laugh, giggle, thanks, whatever.
Me: What’s your name?
Her: X, what’s yours?
Me: Not telling.
Her: Aww what!
Me: Hehe, Ben.

She tells me what school she goes to. I go with the whole, intrigue- don’t worry thing.

Me: Hey do you know… (Long pause) Nah, you probably wouldn’t.
Her: No go, tell me!
Me: Do you know this chick called X.

Fluff fluff.

Little bit of a silence, so I pull out my mask and put it on. I’m telling her about how I was running around town scaring complete randoms, got her laughing real good. Everything seems so much easier when everyone is laughing!

I think at this point I fluffed about body language or something, but got cut off because TigerWolf enters the set, which is cool.

TW: Hey man, how are you?
Me: Oh hey mate (Introduce TigerWolf)
TW: Who’s your friend?
Me: Oh that’s um… ahh
Her: X
Me: That’s actually twiddle Dee.

It was good, I was getting some nice IOIs, and had her laughing a lot, got her guards down.

I went back onto the subject of body language, psychology and physiology. Haha weird eh?

Me: Bit weird hey? But like us two have gotten heaps good at it, it’s like we can just tell “Oh ****! That lady has had a bad day! Stay away! Staayy Awaaayy!!
Her: Haha, that’s pretty cool

I’m happy that I was able to get her to take this in, which is kind of weird to hear, that a 15 year old is interested in psychology, but using the humour to make it less weird was cool.

I wanted to get TigerWolf into the set more, so I ran with the Celebrity routine I heard from Dave, and used TigerWolf for it. I have a pretty good memory, so I usually only need to hear a routine once or twice before I can run it well enough, with good tonality and expressions etc… (Hope you don’t mind, Dave)

We fluffed some more, I can’t remember what about. But I think TigerWolf asked her how old she was.

Me: Wow, you’re like old! (She’s 17, haha)
Her: Blah blah, how old are you?
Me: Guess.
Her: What grade are you in?
Me: Guess.
Her: (Guesses, eventually gets it right) You’re 15? No way! I thought you were 18 or something. (At this point IOIs were harder to get, but I took it up a notch too)
Me: Haha, yeah sorry. We just can’t be together, you’re too old for me. I’m a really active guy you know, not sure if you’ll be able to keep up with my with your cane and all. (False disqualifier)
Her: IOIs! (Woof)

The bus comes, we get on.

I sit next to her. Stole this from Night Boy Dave (again, yeah you’re stuff is gold, hope you don’t mind):

Me: Haha, I guess you get to be my best friend for the next 30 minutes.
Her: Haha yeah, I’m friendly.
We fluff, I try and get TigerWolf into the conversation. He does really well by adding DHVs into the set, like talking about our supposedly good “Mate” Surferboi who “Owns” a rock climbing business and is giving us a free shot. Hehe, eh, it ain’t exactly lies. Oh, and of course our awesome mate Dave who is always friendly and a usual DJ at the Stag.

She comments on my Uke, I play her a song. My usual little uke routine. I mention that I played guitar. Asked her if she played anything. She used to play the flute in year 4. The only song she could play was Marry Had a Little Lamb. In year 1 that was the only song I couldn’t play. Comfort maybe? Eh.

I wanted to get the Bait, Hook, Reel, Release in somewhere, but I think I screwed it up. I asked her what she was planning to do for Uni, and she said Tourism and something blah blah.

Me: No way! My ex wanted to do that! We used to go to her in-field workshops together, it was awesome fun. I can’t believe you’re doing that too. I can’t even talk to you anymore. (Backturn)

Her: Well I don’t know yet, I still need a good tertiary score.

Someone mentioned year 12 being hard, and not having a social life, so I started talking about the poor kids who do IB. I dunno, first thing that popped into my head ok? Anyway, thankfully TigerWolf cut it for me before it got too boring. (Cheers)

After some DHVs and a lot of laughter, she really starts opening up and starts asking questions.

Her: Do you play sports?
Me: Yahuh, rugby.
Her: Really? You play?
Me: Mmm hmm, what? I don’t look it?
Her: Nah- I cut her off.

I tell her about how I get killed every time because I moved up a division and I play against a bunch of big ass Maori Man Childs.

Me: What about you?
Her: I play soccer
Me: Really me too, but I quit for rugby. I don’t find the same adrenaline rush with soccer than with rugby.

We fluff about soccer, some rapport.

She asks TigerWolf a bunch of things about Uni. I listen in for any DHV possibilities, but nope. I couldn’t see one.

She mentions that she is Greek. (Damn it! Perfect chance of Bait, Hook, Reel, Release here, but I wasted it. Ahhh!)

At this point, I think she is trying to qualify herself to us. She tells us how she isn’t the typical “Fully sick” wog, and how she tries to be normal. How she doesn’t speak Greek or go to church every Sunday or what ever. She tells use about how she isn’t quite like her friends but she can’t fit in with the Aussie girls. Hehe.

By this point we are past the whole 80-20 rule, and it’s more 60-40, us doing the lesser of the talking.

She mentions work, and I tell her that I work at Hungry Jacks and its crap. (Tiger said this was a DLV, negative and not needed, cheers mate)

At the mention of work, Tiger and I fluff about this chick, and how my mate is seeing her now. I think it was good, because I took away the attention she wanted ( I think) and talked about other women we know (Pre-selection?)

TigerWolf shows me his phone, he’s got a little message for me, telling me to number close. Our little conspiracy thing, I’m hoping it built some curiosity.

Well, I was trying to figure out a way to transition into a number close, and I got an awesome idea.

Once the conversation died down a little, I took my mask out of my bag, and put it on her. Grabbed by phone and took a picture. We had a little laugh, it was fun. I hand her over my phone, don’t say a thing.

Her: Do you want my number?
Me: Eh, you seem pretty interesting.
Her: Oh I dunno, you’re like 15.
Me: Haha, it’s alright, you won’t keep up with me. I’d lose you in a week.
Her: What do you mean?
Me: I mean I’m too crazy for you, you wouldn’t be able to handle me. (Which was totally congruent with what we talked about, and what I had been doing)
Her: Haha, ok have you got MSN? I’ll give you that.
Me: Ah ok sure.

The phone is clumsy, I try to make it as natural as I can, while she is entering her email in my phone I’m chatting with TigerWolf. I thought the close didn’t go too smooth, and I didn’t want her to think it was a big deal. So I put my mask back on and spoke to this guy in front of us.

Her: Haha is he always like that?

Hehe, nice!

She gets off, I give her a hi five and pull my hand away, baha, I did that to her at the bus stop.

Her: You’re mean (Or something like that)
Me: Yeah I guess I am a bit of a prick. (Weak response, any ideas?)

Give her a hi five, and she gets off the bus. The guy in front of us saw the whole interaction. It turns out he’s one of my good mates from work’s brother. By the time I got home, my mate had already told everyone at work. Woo, social proof.

IS NICE! I LIKE!

That’s all I can remember. I have a feeling this will turn into a Day 2, so it’s probably a plus that I have all this down. Just so I remember what we talked about during the initial interaction.

Results:

Woo, awesome. Haven’t closed in a while, so getting an email is good. I have a pretty good idea what I’m going to do, this should turn out well and I should get a day 2.

Not to mention all the fun I had today. Woof.

This is awesome! I love the Style Life Challenge, i managed 15 approaches this week! New record for me. Great improvement considering i had trouble approaching and at one point didn't make one for almost a month. 15 is a week! Woohoo.

 

[Boschy]

Always a pleasure reading your FRs. Keep it going....you're doing way more than apporaches than I am.

I like the "Did I scare ya?" line. It acknowledges that chicks automatically go into self-protection mode when apporached by any male. [EDIT: were you wearing the mask? Oh well same diff] Closing is an art in itself....it really depends on her interest levels. So if I have trouble, it usually means I haven't gamed properly (closing too soon, incongruence, or stuffed it up) or she really isn't interested. Beware her giving you a number just to make you go away.

At least she suggested that she gives you her number (classic MM and PU theory). If anything I'd say you said too much afterward that point, but you still acted like a challenge. MSN was probably a good result....again, non-threatening, but let's hope she wasn't thinking of you as a fun toy to have around rather than a romantic prospect.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Hey man, your doing so well right now...u don't even need to use the routines given anymore...u can come up with ur own now...hell routines aren't needed anymore period...but if it helps in the game, go for it

 

[Lust]

Saturday 23rd of June

Massive headache…

Approaches 41, 42.

I’m pretty sure I’ve made notes on not to sarge while drunk, hell I should make one saying NEVER DRINK AGAIN, but eh.

So my mate is going overseas for a few months and today we had a massive “going away” piss up, right in town haha. We all got really pissed and were trying to rape each other all day.

Anyway, I didn’t get too much done, but I like to write up in detail so when I look back I have a better idea of what I was doing.

I realise it’s been ages since I have written about any approaches, but that doesn’t necessarily mean I haven’t been doing anything. Just not cold approaches, and a lot of times I’ve been being a retard with a bunch of blow out sets in town, they don’t do much but they are fun. Oh and that reminds me, while I was away in Melbourne I did a sh!tload of blow out sets for fun, and have it on camera, it was pretty interesting to watch actually, some chick thought I was her friends ex, haha. And her friend was fvcking hot!

Anyway, before I got sidetracked, yeah today was the first time I’ve made a cold approach and actually tried it properly, without a hockey mask on and a voice that could drown out a terrorist firing squad gunning down their dinner.

Anyway, first set:

Approach 41

A 3 set, can’t remember how I rated them, I was pissed off my head but they all hovered around 8ish.

I was lying down in the middle of the entrance way to the toilets hehe, I was fvcked so bad I was just being a typical drunk lying on the floor… Surprisingly loud for having such low energy and a nasty habit of talking to everyone, even if they are on their way to the loo.

I was being stupid, I said something stupid, can’t remember what, but I got all their attention.

Me: I’m not weird… fvck you…no wait I don’t mean that.
Them: Nervously laugh.
Me: You’re laughing at me! You wanna fight me?
Them: No…
Me: Good, because I like you.
Them: Giggles, We like you too.

Then I just fluffed about what they were doing here, who they were with, and the usual sh!t. I really can’t remember much, but I know it lasted for a while because we didn’t leave until our mate came back out, and everyone was bagging him for taking so long and crapping out a 6ft sh!t…

Gave them all hi fives and left.

I finally met Edwardelric, at this point I was sober but just had a massive headache so we grabbed some coffee. He jumped right into it and opened a 2 set sitting down at a table, I didn’t want to stale out the set because I had no idea what he was doing, I tried opening another 3 set as they waited for their coffee, but it wasn’t all that great. Not going to count it. Just commented on one girls bag and fluffed about what they were doing here.

Because I looked like an idiot standing there by myself while Ed worked his magic, I didn’t want to stale him out so I popped just outside and opened a 3 set.

Approach 42

3 set, (8), (8.5), (7.5?)

Anyway, turns out I’ve hung with one of the chicks before, I had no idea.

Me: (I go into the gay routine, asking if my uke makes me look gay)
Them: Blah blah it doesn’t fit with the rest, blah blah those shoes make you look gay.
HB8: Hey, I know you!
Me: Huh? No you don’t. (Haha)
HB8: Yeah I do! You’re Thoma’s friend!
Me: Oh sh!t, awesome *Hi five*

So I just fluffed, kept it really casual, asked them why the hell were they sitting down in the middle of rundle mall, what they had planned for the weekend, fluffed a bit more.

HB7.5: I wish I could just talk to people like you. (Woo, is that a compliment?)
Me: You can, go talk to that guy over there, he’s totally you’re type.

Fool around, be stupid, I see Ed coming out of Starbucks and I give them all hi fives and leave.

EE and I just walk around town, I get a bit of AA, pretty lame I guess, but I did feel like absolute sh!t. Anyway, we had a chat about some aspects of the game, then wondered around and EE approached another set just outside of HJ’s.

I don’t count this one either because it was his set.
He basically asks what they were doing and goes into the ring finger routine. Apparently they were party goers and wanted a fake ID or something, anyway, EE practically email closed for me because of that link Tigerwolf gave me, I couldn’t remember it so I’m suppose to mail it to them. I will, but I won’t do much more, not my type of chicks, slightly a bit emo for me.

The Fake ID thing could actually be really good for email closes, if I can figure out a way to do it smoothly.

Anyway, that was pretty much the day. Nothing too flash, just making sure I don’t put off approaching straight sets anymore.

Results:

Kinda shabby email close, not really interested, but eh. Oh and a sh!tload of spew, seriously, remind me never to drink that much ever again, at one point I was wondering if I’ll need my stomach pumped.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

congrats on the journal. Keep pressing for what you want and get it.

 

[Holland]

Wow, man this is pretty impressive for a young fella like you.
Keep up the good work and get to that 100

 

[Lust]

Bump...

Ahh, no sh!t I haven't been doing this for ages.

Just a quick update as to what I have been doing lately.

Not so much cold approaches, but I'll jump right back into that soon. Lately I have been trying out Online Game as I never liked it much, but the older blokes in our local lair say it's a goldmine.

Had one girl, maybe a 7 tops, not that great looks but a pretty awesome personality. Bantered with her, got some attraction, got the IM, build some rapport online about how all the guys are clueless when it comes to women, embedded how I am different, etc...

Got her qualifying, was suppose to see her last week but flaked because I was 2 hours late.

Also, I have been playing around with my frame, trying to change it from the "Mean cvnt who will never be conquered so don't bother", to "A leader of men but also has a somewhat mysterious, softer side".

Meh, it's been good, but I haven't been doing much proper game. What I am really unhappy about is the level of organization I have in my life at the moment. I want to order my life a little better, become more organized, efficient with work etc...

Also, I haven't masturbated almost 3 weeks, and it's beginning to show in my interactions with women.

Well, that was just a quick update, hopefully the next one will have some FRs and hopefully a date report.

Later guys, cheers for reading up.

 

[April_Infinite]

Keep posting 'em Lust!

 

[Lust]

Another update.

Originally posted on my local lairs site, here is a brief description of a certain girl:

There's another girl, she's like super hot. I could tell she gets AFC love sick loser types a lot, but I also think she isn't socially calibrated that well. I think I have taken it too far with the ****y thing. Not sure though, because I can totally tell she's constantly eye-fvcking me, she's doing all these things for attention and desperately trying to win frame control games over me. It's fun, but I can't see how I can take it further, I'm stuck being congruent with the "cvnt" frame, or I lose control (I figure). Right now, she is just really really attracted to me, and would never admit it. She's older too (18), so it's a bit harder.

I'm sick of the bantering, even though it's fun, I don't want to waste any more time with it, I want to try a different approach cause I think the method I am trying isn't working, or I've fvcked it up, even though I can tell she's hell attracted. I'm thinking of just saying "Girlname, stop. We're not doing that any more (Bantering etc), we're getting to know each other now". Not sure how she would react. I'm want the

"Yeah I'm the hero dude, after passing all these trials and tribulations, and I just let you conquer me, YOU of all people, after the many times you've failed to before, so like, take off you're pants" effect.

This girl wants to go "jogging" on wednesday. Woman speak for "I want to spend time with you but afraid to admit it"

I know she is attracted to me like crazy, but there is like no comfort there, plus she's somewhat embarrassed to admit it because
1) she's older and the whole taboo with seeing younger guys
2) I've been super ****y the whole time and we've been playing all these frame games that I think she'd be somewhat afraid to lose

She wants to go up to this mountain and jog a trail or something. So I'm thinking have a rest up there and some point, at one of the look outs that have a nice view, build some comfort and hopefully get a k close.

 

[Lust]

21st of August

Approach 43

So after school I’m on the bus, there was this hot chick with a real nice rack close by, later we shared a seat. She’s like an 8, maybe and a half.

I knew my body language was spot on, also I could tell she was intrigued by my uke. Luck was on my side, people seemed to get off in such a fashion that she would always be near me, and later we sat together. It’s been ages and I’m not as used to this as I used to be. Got the jitters like nuts.

I received two calls, one from the girl I’m seeing tomorrow, about time and whereabouts, and another from work. Reckon the way I spoke on the phone was a DHV, C&F, humor, you know the stuff.

When I got off the phone and decided to speak to her, she was almost getting off, few stops away. I was remembering what Science said about the compassion and I sort of knew she was somewhat intimidated, so I just opened with this:

Me: Hey, so like, you getting off soon? Cause I’ve been trying to muster up the balls to talk to you for like the last 15 minutes. (Casually, almost ****y)

Her: Haha, really?

Me: Yeah, so I figured if you’re about to get off, I may as well say something.

Her: Haha, um thanks! Blah blah blah. What’s that? (My uke)

She had some bag with a pink dress, I fluffed about that and my uke. She got up, said good bye and left.

Actually spoke to her for a good few minutes, but farrrrk maaan, I need to do more of these, I’m so off at the moment.

Oh, and she looked like she was in her 20s, so major AA. Eh, there shall be more.

Woof.

 

[Boschy]

The uke is a great prop.

I wear nice corporate suits and shiny shoes and cuff links and gold braclets and cool watches, but so does every other Tom **** and Harry in Melbourne. So I don't get a second look. (However the cologne does get the girls' noses twitching.)

 

[Lust]

Monday 3rd September

Approaches 44 and 45

Well lately I’ve realized just how easily I can get women attracted and by doing very little. I keep noticing chicks…noticing me. A lot. And it’s all passive attraction, I haven’t even spoken to them yet. Lately I’ve got friends of chicks and even their brothers coming up to me and telling me how all these women think I’m so hot and I haven’t spoken to any of them.

Guess I’ll have a chat with a few of them.

Maybe I’ve just got my whole body language/tonality, fun vibe/aura thing all finally sorted out.

I want to run some text book game sometime soon. Anyway, I haven’t been approaching much lately (Well not with the mindset of picking up), so I try and pop in a few sets whenever I can.


Approach 44

I was doing dead lifts today in the gym, and managed to get a MASSIVE rip in my pants, like fvcking HUGE, big enough to smuggle three tropical tortoises in my butt. So as I’m waiting around for some pins to hold the massive hole, I chat with one of the really wanna-be gangster girls. She’s like a 7 but thinks she’s a 10.

Her: *Sees it and laughs, blah blah do you want to sow it?
Me: I dunno how
Her: Haha come here, I’ll help you.
Me: Fvck no woman! You might hit something precious there. Quit looking for excuses to stare at my ass.
Her: Laughs blah blah, whatever.

I just bust on her, talk about whatever, mostly just light hearted C&F, at one point was on my back with my legs spread wide, with my massive hole in my pants facing her trying to pin it up, while she’s laughing her ass off.

Turns out catches my bus, and I think she lives near me.

Anyway, I pin myself up, shake my ass at her face and leave. She totally wants my buns man, totalllly.

Approach 45

On the bus to work this lady keeps looking at me. She’s ok, maybe 7.5. But she’s like, late 20s, maybe even early 30s hehe.

I just bust on her for looking at me, ****y funny usual stuff.

Me (To mate): Hey, that lady keeps looking at me, she’s making me feel self conscious.
Her: *Laughs* Yes, I am.
Me: She’s like totally checking me out!

She gets all embarrassed and is like trying to explain that she’s just looking at me cause I’m sitting in her direction (I wasn’t really, hehe), and didn’t know why blah blah.

So I just tell her it’s ok, calm down, if I was her I’d be staring at me too.

Shoot some sh!t, blew her a kiss and jumped off the bus. (Some other chick I approached before was there to and kept asking me for my name as I got off, hehe)

Maaan, I so wanna run some text book game, lately I’ve just been wingin’ it.