Friday 16th February
Bus Stop
Approache: 17
Damn, I am starting to fall behind schedule if I want to reach that 100. I remember guys telling me that consistency was the most important part of any challenge/boot camp etc…
I’ve had these weird days where I’d try to go to the city for an hour or so hoping to make a few approaches, but I just don’t see any good opportunities. Sometimes I get way more approach anxiety than I used to, sometimes I’m ok. Regardless, I just have trouble finding good chances; all the girls in the city after school are with a bunch of guys, mostly wogs.
I’m going to try and change my frame of mind with this a little, keep telling myself that I will find lots of opportunities with women, positive thinking, and the usual Inner Game patch up stuff. I might go over Ross Jeffries’ Unstoppable Confidence again quickly.
So I went off to town again, with some friends.
They love to bum around and do whatever, I wasted a lot of time, and was about to go home empty handed.
We saw some of the girls from my first approach ever! Check my first approach, the girls I opened at HJs and instant dated. Come to think of it, that was quite a good approach. I saw them, my mates went over to say hi, but I just looked them in the eyes and left. Last time I saw them they didn’t say greet me, so this is my response. Two of the girls even waved but I just look straight into their eyes and left. I didn’t want to waste my time, I wanted to check my bus stop, hoping for some miracle that there were a set good for opening there.
Well luck stroke my side. I left feeling like crap; I headed off to my bus stop. Two girls were sitting down on the steps of my favourite music shop, which happens to be right in front of my bus stop. I was going to go in there to buy some things anyway, so I go in, buy a thumb pick and slide come out and pop them with an opinion opener.
2 set, (7.5, 7.8)
Me: Hey guys, can I get an opinion on something?
Them: What?
Me: Opinion.
Them: Oh yeah sure!
Me: But you guys have got to be quick, my bus will be here soon. (False time constraint)
*I run the gay opinion opener*
Them: Haha really? Nah you don’t look gay.
Me: You sure? Cause it kind of freaked my out a bit.
Them: Haha oh, well maybe that makes you look a little gay *points to my Uke*
Me: Oh what! I can’t believe you just said that!! (Over Exaggeration, C&F) That’s my Ukulele, I love this baby!
Them: Haha, nah, you don’t dress gay or anything so…
Me: Haha, you should see me on the weekends, I’m in like a tight bright yellow beater and all
Them: Haha well maybe you’re one of the guys that can dress gay and look really hot.
Me: Ohh what are you implying eh?
Them: Giggles
Then their bus comes, meh.
Me: Well, pleasure meeting you.
Them: Yeah you too.
That’s the end of that. I think I seriously conveyed a lot of higher value, I was really happy with my body language, and as soon as they walked away, I saw a mate and greeted him, also, sometime between our interaction, a mate walked past and I greeted him, made me look pretty social and that I knew everyone.
There was another 3 set that came later on, I didn’t open though, there was one decent looking girl and two UGs. I wasn’t sure how old the other one was, she looked young, but she couldn’t have been that young. Oh well, I didn’t feel like opening them, bad excuse, I know, but it’s true, I really didn’t.
I was watching the Annihilation Method the other night (Yep, that’s right), and Style says that one major rule is to be the dominant lead in the interaction. Using opinion openers, he said to never say “Can I get an opinion?” I do that a lot. I did it today, I’m going to work on it, say something like “Hey guys, I need an opinion on something” then dive straight into the false time constraint and the opener, that way they don’t have much chance to give you a cold response from the first question.
Anyways, that’s all for today, damn I need to take it up a notch or I won’t complete the challenge in the time given.
Results:
Nothing…again…
Yeah, yeah I know guys, what’s with all these non-closing half assed approaches lately? I’ve been busy and tired a lot. Don’t have much heart to go run a proper game, I will try more though. I’ll get some more closes soon.
Bus Stop
Approache: 17
Damn, I am starting to fall behind schedule if I want to reach that 100. I remember guys telling me that consistency was the most important part of any challenge/boot camp etc…
I’ve had these weird days where I’d try to go to the city for an hour or so hoping to make a few approaches, but I just don’t see any good opportunities. Sometimes I get way more approach anxiety than I used to, sometimes I’m ok. Regardless, I just have trouble finding good chances; all the girls in the city after school are with a bunch of guys, mostly wogs.
I’m going to try and change my frame of mind with this a little, keep telling myself that I will find lots of opportunities with women, positive thinking, and the usual Inner Game patch up stuff. I might go over Ross Jeffries’ Unstoppable Confidence again quickly.
So I went off to town again, with some friends.
They love to bum around and do whatever, I wasted a lot of time, and was about to go home empty handed.
We saw some of the girls from my first approach ever! Check my first approach, the girls I opened at HJs and instant dated. Come to think of it, that was quite a good approach. I saw them, my mates went over to say hi, but I just looked them in the eyes and left. Last time I saw them they didn’t say greet me, so this is my response. Two of the girls even waved but I just look straight into their eyes and left. I didn’t want to waste my time, I wanted to check my bus stop, hoping for some miracle that there were a set good for opening there.
Well luck stroke my side. I left feeling like crap; I headed off to my bus stop. Two girls were sitting down on the steps of my favourite music shop, which happens to be right in front of my bus stop. I was going to go in there to buy some things anyway, so I go in, buy a thumb pick and slide come out and pop them with an opinion opener.
2 set, (7.5, 7.8)
Me: Hey guys, can I get an opinion on something?
Them: What?
Me: Opinion.
Them: Oh yeah sure!
Me: But you guys have got to be quick, my bus will be here soon. (False time constraint)
*I run the gay opinion opener*
Them: Haha really? Nah you don’t look gay.
Me: You sure? Cause it kind of freaked my out a bit.
Them: Haha oh, well maybe that makes you look a little gay *points to my Uke*
Me: Oh what! I can’t believe you just said that!! (Over Exaggeration, C&F) That’s my Ukulele, I love this baby!
Them: Haha, nah, you don’t dress gay or anything so…
Me: Haha, you should see me on the weekends, I’m in like a tight bright yellow beater and all
Them: Haha well maybe you’re one of the guys that can dress gay and look really hot.
Me: Ohh what are you implying eh?
Them: Giggles
Then their bus comes, meh.
Me: Well, pleasure meeting you.
Them: Yeah you too.
That’s the end of that. I think I seriously conveyed a lot of higher value, I was really happy with my body language, and as soon as they walked away, I saw a mate and greeted him, also, sometime between our interaction, a mate walked past and I greeted him, made me look pretty social and that I knew everyone.
There was another 3 set that came later on, I didn’t open though, there was one decent looking girl and two UGs. I wasn’t sure how old the other one was, she looked young, but she couldn’t have been that young. Oh well, I didn’t feel like opening them, bad excuse, I know, but it’s true, I really didn’t.
I was watching the Annihilation Method the other night (Yep, that’s right), and Style says that one major rule is to be the dominant lead in the interaction. Using opinion openers, he said to never say “Can I get an opinion?” I do that a lot. I did it today, I’m going to work on it, say something like “Hey guys, I need an opinion on something” then dive straight into the false time constraint and the opener, that way they don’t have much chance to give you a cold response from the first question.
Anyways, that’s all for today, damn I need to take it up a notch or I won’t complete the challenge in the time given.
Results:
Nothing…again…
Yeah, yeah I know guys, what’s with all these non-closing half assed approaches lately? I’ve been busy and tired a lot. Don’t have much heart to go run a proper game, I will try more though. I’ll get some more closes soon.