LTR are a major problem ( AFC )

[John Constantine]

I'm not fond of rules, but you are operating from a place of lack and psychological deficiency, so conscious rules can modify your behavior, once practiced and internalized. Perhaps, start with a simple rule that you will not invest into her more than she has invested into you whether that be calls/texts/time/etc. Mirror her. This rule alone will help control your neediness and is a healthy guideline to carry into an LTR.

To add: In the courting phase (that is before sex), you initiate once between dates to set up the date until the date. Following sex, mirror her.

Thanks man, I just wrote a couple rules to follow

 

[Glassguy]

I don't know why but I dont have any problem at all to get laid, But once I get laid and we meet a couple times I start to get feelings.. It's weird and I'm starting to act completely delusional, Always looking at my phones to see if she texted me or whatever.. Starting to panic when she doesnt answer, VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY did I say VERY needy ? Chicks find that repulsive and my relationship always end because of that. The problem is not that bad when I'm with her, But when she's gone ( I mean when we are not together and she's home or at work or something like that ) I become an insecure ****ing freak, needy and clingy. I read the Bible, I know a lot about the DJ thing but when emotions get involved my brain become completely delusional, like asking 3 times in 45 minutes for a date. Like what the hell ? Its so cringy just typing this. It's even happening when I sleep with a woman 1 time only without even knowing her properly, I dont see any red flag, I ignore them and basically become a complete AFC scared of losing her and I'm losing attraction for other girls. I'm ****ed up badly, I was not like that before but I've been broken badly with women in the past and its like my needy clingy side is taking control because my subconscious thinks I'm never gonna get an LTR again. I act like a freaky AFC to keep her.. YOu guys would cringe a lot more if you would see what my text look like once I develop ''Emotions''

Any tip ?

I'm the opposite. Once I bang them a few times I have no feelings for them and am ready to move on to the next one. I love the chase.

 

[John Constantine]

I'm the opposite. Once I bang them a few times I have no feelings for them and am ready to move on to the next one. I love the chase.

FREEDOM

 

[Trump]

I'm pratically always getting laid on first date and it's easy, at least for me but when I get laid I catch feelings and then I become an insecure beta so I'm not bragging

Usually when someone says "they are not bragging", it means they are bragging.

Would you trust someone who says "trust me?"

or whatever, what is the problem of your jealousy here ? You cant get laid ?

No bro I catch people on they go illogical. And your post is illogical.

You are saying you can meet, talk with, flirt with, laugh with, get the phone number of, set up a date with a good looking woman with your eyes closed. You can also get her to take off her clothes within a few hours of meeting her and have her beg you to have sex with her.

But once with have sex with her, you turn into a completely different person. Suddenly you go high school nerd and act like a guy who has never touched, flirted or been with a woman in his life.

How does that make any sense?


"Hey John, how did your date go with that model?"

"Good, I got her to take off her clothes and had sex with her within 30 minutes of our date. It was super easy."

"Awesome. What happened after you had sex with her?"

"I begged and pleaded with her never ever to leave me. I also told her I am deeply madly truly in love with her and that I will give my life and soul to be with her."

 

[John Constantine]

Usually when someone says "they are not bragging", it means they are bragging.

Would you trust someone who says "trust me?"



No bro I catch people on they go illogical. And your post is illogical.

You are saying you can meet, talk with, flirt with, laugh with, get the phone number of, set up a date with a good looking woman with your eyes closed. You can also get her to take off her clothes within a few hours of meeting her and have her beg you to have sex with her.

But once with have sex with her, you turn into a completely different person. Suddenly you go high school nerd and act like a guy who has never touched, flirted or been with a woman in his life.

How does that make any sense?


"Hey John, how did your date go with that model?"

"Good, I got her to take off her clothes and had sex with her within 30 minutes of our date. It was super easy."

"Awesome. What happened after you had sex with her?"

"I begged and pleaded with her never ever to leave me. I also told her I am deeply madly truly in love with her and that I will give my life and soul to be with her."

I just cant answer to this, you understand what you want.. Let it sink, goodbye.

 

[CMNILS87]

I don't know why but I dont have any problem at all to get laid, But once I get laid and we meet a couple times I start to get feelings.. It's weird and I'm starting to act completely delusional, Always looking at my phones to see if she texted me or whatever.. Starting to panic when she doesnt answer, VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY did I say VERY needy ? Chicks find that repulsive and my relationship always end because of that. The problem is not that bad when I'm with her, But when she's gone ( I mean when we are not together and she's home or at work or something like that ) I become an insecure ****ing freak, needy and clingy. I read the Bible, I know a lot about the DJ thing but when emotions get involved my brain become completely delusional, like asking 3 times in 45 minutes for a date. Like what the hell ? Its so cringy just typing this. It's even happening when I sleep with a woman 1 time only without even knowing her properly, I dont see any red flag, I ignore them and basically become a complete AFC scared of losing her and I'm losing attraction for other girls. I'm ****ed up badly, I was not like that before but I've been broken badly with women in the past and its like my needy clingy side is taking control because my subconscious thinks I'm never gonna get an LTR again. I act like a freaky AFC to keep her.. YOu guys would cringe a lot more if you would see what my text look like once I develop ''Emotions''

Any tip ?

You know that feeling when you're lifting heavy, you got that sweat and pump going and nothing else matters but the weight and iron you're lifting??? You need to channel that into other aspects. I was like that too, you get the lay and then start hanstering about a relationship and all that ooey gooey stuff that women think about.

What you need is more things to do. I leave my phone at home from time to time or just silence it while I lift, game, work, build decks, study. Here's my train of thought man. I'm on the job site, I've bid a job out for 3k in labor over the weekend and got get **** done. In that 48 hour time frame of work and sleep, nothing else matters besides completing a deck, fence, gazebo, or any other type of goal you set. When you have thst goal set out and you're looking forward to it, puzzy will be the furthest thing from your mind. Sheet, I turned sex down from my girl cause I had **** to do.

 

[marmel75]

So how many times should I wait until being exclusive ? Any good signs to notice when becoming exclusive ? I mean, they can be manipulative and hypocrit and be the perfect woman until you commit and then everythings fall appart

You shouldn't even be thinking of this. That's the entirely wrong mindset. She will bring it up eventually and then if it's something you want to do, then do it.