Originally posted by Jeremymichael
why won't she call me for a change. [?]
because you've put her in a position of power over you in the relationship. First entry in the DJ bible, theres a quote that goes like this:
Originally posted by Pook
If you start treating a woman like precious gold, she will believe she is gold. And once she believes it, she will DUMP YOU because YOU have given her the sense that she is BETTER then you. Once she thinks that, she will want to REPLACE YOU with someone better, because you have given her reasons to believe that YOU ARE UNWORTHY OF HER GREATNESS.
this is essentially what you've done.
you call her all the time, she thinks your desperate.
you let her chat to other guys and let her blatantly dis-resepct you, giving her the impression your a walk over.
My adivce would be to try one more date, but this time its on your terms. you said before she didnt want to play squash, but wanted to go for a drink. do something YOU want to do, take her bowling or something, that way, if the date goes to gangfvck again, at east you still had fun.
dont call her for a week. no contact at all. she'll wonder why your not bothering with you and then call you, this gives you a degree of flexability to do what you want with.
she talks to her mates, fine, but remember, she's supposed to be with you. she pisses off, next her. she talks to any guys or gets into any sort of kino with them, next her.
let us know how you get on mate.
