Religion, modern culture, polite society have tried and partially succeeded in repressing this biological instinct in men. They use shame which Big Religion perfected. After all without this force, why the fk would we put so much effort inti dealing with women. Dealing with them kinda sucks. This fascination (far more intense in younger men) is the hook that keeps the species progressing. Without it we cease to exist.
The Commandments in the DJ BIBLE hit on this. Part of the nice guy disease seems that they accept this societal conditioning by repressing what they are designed to do. Perhaps that explains why some would voluntarily put themselves in the foolzone.
