Lose the Bitterness

[wait_out]

Buddha nice to hear about your turnaround. Keep it up, glad to hear you're doing better.

I'm going to join the forum on that site, I'm a little tired of the negativity around SS.

 

[Burroughs]

If women would just admit they have it easier and stop acting like royalty because of the male attention they get, you'd see a-lot less bitter guys out there. Make no mistake about it, it's their attitude that pisses a-lot of dudes off.

Why would women admit anything

women are winning

women want to win the war of provisioning...and so far they are big time.

look at how women can shame men into giving them shelter, food, and security SIMPLY BY MOCKING THEM....and men are too stupid to get this...they just chase after the puzzy blindly throwing time and money at women hand over fist

And then when you point out how women are the enemy and must be relegated to a slave status and owned by men as they have for millenia....all the faggot white knights come out of the woodwork.

 

[Zarky]

I got so bitter towards women that I went on the longest dry spell of my sexual life.
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Human evolution...in general...is gravitating towards a female-centric society.
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There are still several MAJOR personality defects with women (far more than men). They are still in the "spoiled stage." imagine what's going to happen when they finally do realize their power....dictatorship en masse.
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It used to be legal to sleep with any woman, at any time. What is now considered rape was commonplace years ago.

LOL anybody who makes statements like that still has a lot of bitterness. :crackup: "What is now considered rape was commonplace???" :nervous: Sounds like some republican congressional candidates recently.

And then when you point out how women are the enemy and must be relegated to a slave status

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: ahaha this is too much. Is everyone here a troll now or just insane? Funny.

 

[evan12]

women very sensitive of bitterness in the man , because that mean you cant get what you want ,which is the opposite of what women want a man who"can get what he want"

 

[Reptile]

Bitter is better than being a Nice Guy, bitter is more Alpha.

I am bitter right now 'cause I won't deal with a womans sh!t anymore in "hoping" to get laid.
FIRST I will get laid, THEN maybe I put some energy to her, never ever going to be friendzoned again and that drives me more than anything ever have done.
Women (those I've been with) are slvts, and I see alot of my girl friends (those I'm not interested in) going from RS to RS just like 2 of my latest exes.
I also see my friends getting used by women with alot of excuses when my friends wanna meet them, that also makes me bitter!

Bitter is good in that way, imo, it's good to be bitter 'cause that's what keeps you going!

 

[PapiChulo]

bitterness cause you are sitting in a westernized country full of westernized women who act just like you read about... why shouldn't you be bitter?

Leave the anglosphere, women don't operate by the same principles and what do you know? your day gets better!

x2 on this.

In addition, I find that one has to swallow the bitter pill or otherwise such bitterness will eventually demoralize and consume you over time. I have reached acceptance and realized that some things are out of my control - I cant win all the time despite giving my best. It feels great and is liberating. C'est la vie. There is also an interesting way of dealing with bitterness by which you transform negative feelings into anger, which in turn allows you to fight back.

 

[Eternal_water]

I'm 21 and never had sex but I found the thing that depressed me more than anything else was

this website

I now view it very rarely because the overwhelming broadcasting of how women have all the power and men none is very depressing and made me very bitter.

 

[Burroughs]

I'm 21 and never had sex but I found the thing that depressed me more than anything else was

this website

I now view it very rarely because the overwhelming broadcasting of how women have all the power and men none is very depressing and made me very bitter.

you couldn't handle the truth

So you ran away?

This is what is happening...a percentage of men can't handle truth so they lash out calling men 'bitter' in an attempt to raise themselves...

there are no 'bitter' men there are only wise men and ignorant men.

A lot of you men are looking for feel good fixes

It ain't gonna happen

the world has moved on.

Either you learn to think or you'll get crushed.

 

[BeDJ]

you couldn't handle the truth

So you ran away?

This is what is happening...a percentage of faggot men can't handle truth so they lash out calling men 'bitter' in an attempt to raise themselves...

there are no 'bitter' men there are only wise men and ignorant men.

A lot of you men are looking for feel good fixes

It ain't gonna happen

the world has moved on.

Either you learn to think or you'll get crushed.

You live being aware of its presence, without having it consume your life.

 

[Eternal_water]

I don't really see it as running away, reading through some of the threads on here always made me bitter and depressed where as not doing so did not.

So cutting back on the time spent here was a bit of a no brainer.

As for being crushed, not really sire what your on about but I'd like to see some girl try and crush me.

 

[Burroughs]

I don't really see it as running away, reading through some of the threads on here always made me bitter and depressed where as not doing so did not.

So cutting back on the time spent here was a bit of a no brainer.

As for being crushed, not really sire what your on about but I'd like to see some girl try and crush me.

If you can't read the threads here without getting depressed a girl will certainly destroy you...bank on it

You have a lot to learn and you don't even realize it.

 

[Eternal_water]

Yeah I know I have a lot to learn, I'm not one to argue that.

A 21 yr old virgin definitely has a lot to learn about getting girls.

I just don't seem to learn it by reading these threads or the DJ bible etc.

 

[NobodyCares1]

I just don't seem to learn it by reading these threads or the DJ bible etc.

Why are you reading threads here, and not going out to pick up girls? Reading is useless, practise is important. If you read a book on how to construct a car engine, would you be able to do it? No, first you'd have to try and fail a couple of times. So it is with girls, you have to go out and meet them. The best way to learn here is through trial and error.

 

[vatoloco]

Why are you reading threads here, and not going out to pick up girls? Reading is useless, practise is important.

Smart people do this ^^^

Most guys are scared shitless of asking chicks out. I don't blame you, though. It's fuckin' scary... at the beginning.

But you have to start!

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Agree with Eternal -- too much time here gets caught in mental masturbation and there's a lot of hurt men on here looking for fingers to point. Man I'm not saying modern dating is a picnic. I just know if I spent 1/2 of my time actually approaching that I have reading here, I'd know some more lessons. Sometimes though this place helps rekindle my motivation or give me some new perspectives.

It just seems like at the end of the day, being bitter just causes self-decay if nothing else.

I know what people are saying about no living with rose colored glasses. I've been hurt a lot myself and I understand that.

I just know not every woman is so evil as some of these complex theories make them out to be! I think we're giving them a lot more credit for likely them being just as clueless in their own ways as most men!

 

[backbreaker]

Agree with Eternal -- too much time here gets caught in mental masturbation and there's a lot of hurt men on here looking for fingers to point. Man I'm not saying modern dating is a picnic. I just know if I spent 1/2 of my time actually approaching that I have reading here, I'd know some more lessons. Sometimes though this place helps rekindle my motivation or give me some new perspectives.

It just seems like at the end of the day, being bitter just causes self-decay if nothing else.

I know what people are saying about no living with rose colored glasses. I've been hurt a lot myself and I understand that.

I just know not every woman is so evil as some of these complex theories make them out to be! I think we're giving them a lot more credit for likely them being just as clueless in their own ways as most men!

honeslty, the way i see it, is that i've done some **** that could.. that HAVE made women bitter. maybe wrongfully but still

my first real LTR.. did nothing wrong. at all. i just left lol. i was ready for something else. i knew i wasn't going to marry her so i said ****.. what's the point. i didn't cheat. i just left. she found a man and treated me right and ****ed me and cooked and wasn't a **** and laughed at my jokes, and didn't pressure me about marriage even though i know she wanted it, but i just left. she had the right to call me every name in the book. i mean i dont' care lol, but still she has that right.

i've had girls pop up over my house who have confessed how they can see a future with me only to find another girl's car in the driveway. i'v ehad girls break up with guys or stop seeing guys for me only for me to stop seeing them soon after for no real reason other than i was tired of her and wanted to get another/better plate in.

When i was actually single I was the freaking Mussolini of plate spinning. ruthless. i did not care, or give a **** about anything other than making backbreaker happy. and to me that's the only way this whole DJ **** can work i see DJism and Objectism as one in the same; there's no such thing as an altruistic DJ. And beucase of that, i can't get mad today when women are the same way. they want what they want. i want what i want. the game is the game as Omar would say. the better at the game YOU get, the more you can understand why women do what they do. beucse they want to. that's all you really need to know.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

I went ahead and repped you because what you've said here is how a-lot of guys feel but won't admit out of the fear of sounding like a frustrated AFC. It isn't AFC to have those feelings.

You know why? because a-lot of women openly flaunt the fact that they have it easier in the dating world. They do, but acting as if they're splitting the atom because they can get laid easily is what makes guys angry. They have nothing to be proud of.

To quote a couple of good comedians:

"You having sex with 100 guys is as easy as it is for me to eat this bag of potato chips"

-Patrice O'Neal to DR. Z on the opie and anthony show.

"For guys to get laid they need to dress well, be able to talk a good game, and have a fake job. For women, you just need to be there".

If women would just admit they have it easier and stop acting like royalty because of the male attention they get, you'd see a-lot less bitter guys out there. Make no mistake about it, it's their attitude that pisses a-lot of dudes off.

I also hate, despise, loathe on how people disagree on which gender has it easier in the dating/relationship scene, this is what many people say "for ever girl that has a boyfriend, is engaging in heterosexual sex, there is a guy that has a girlfriend, there is a guy that is getting laid too, "Who wants to date someone wallowing in self pity with this "girls have it easier" stuff? I mean honestly, if a Girl has a boyfriend, doesn't THAT then imply that a guy had a girlfriend?"

DUH!!!!, but the guy had to do all of the damn work in order to make it happen, initiate everything, and guys have to be outgoing, be a non-recluse, meanwhile a girl can be a recluse, not go out much and the odds will be more heavily in her favor to land a relationship or get laid

 

[Gro0ver]

Bitterness is sign of failure. No one plays a game, wins, and then complains about the rules being unfair.

Best post in the thread. Let the girls play checkers while we play chess.