tell me about it...Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
I feel I'm constantly at odds (not as much these days though) between looks and game/attitude.
All my life, I have relied entirely on my looks. That helps, but only so far. I get alot of female attention, walking into places etc., I see women checking me out all the time.
And that's where it always got me - I don't like being the centre of attention. I literally can 'freeze up' at times because of this, like I feel I'm in the spolight and everyone is watching me.
It's a nasty double edged sword at times.
the only way to get rid of this double edge sword is to avoid being self conscious. problem solved!
but as stated many times in the past, looks get you in the door, to avoid getting slammed in the face, you must have some level of game