Yep. How many times have you heard men say. "What is her fvcking problem? I am just like I was when we met... now she is b!tching and nagging me to 'change', if she didn't like me the way I was... why did she go with me?"
Well the answer to that rhetorical question is that she SETTLED for you. And now that she has you... you have become her project. The funny part, funny if you are a sadistic fvck, is if you are an actual Alpha, and she DOES get you.... she will try and nag you into becoming a beta. That's right chicks never know what the fvck they want. They are children, lazy children. Unless you are prepared to treat your woman like the oldest child in your house, you will be treated like absolute garbage.
She will nag her Alpha man until he becomes a weakling because she knows that other chicks will want him. She wants him to change because she wants him all to herself!!!! When she succeeds in beating her man into submission... well.... he no longer makes her wet, so she started fvcking the A-hole fvck boys.
If you are foolish enough to try and do a LTR the only way to keep her long term is refuse to change... she will nag you to change because she is lazy and wants YOU to put in the effort. Eventually she will realize the ONLY way she is going to keep you is to work on herself.... when she starts putting in effort to keep you, she will consider you more valuable since we only appreciate what we have to work for. BTW.... this never fvcking ends, she will keep doing this your whole life. Emotional manipulation and nagging, just never give in. I'm not saying treat her like cr@p, and you will have to give in now and then, but you have to train her properly. Never NEVER give in when she is nagging and demanding. ONLY comply when she is sweat and submissive. And if she is demanding, and you know something has to get done... then play with her a little... tell her "So... what is it worth to you?" Then bargain. But NEVER bargain for sex. Sex is not a bargaining tool... it is a GIVEN in a relationship... do not train your chick to give you sex as a reward. If she starts that bvllsh!t you need to nip that in the bud IMMEDIATELY. If she threatens to cut you off, you tell her if she does you will get sex from someone else. DO NOT be afraid to walk away for this... if your chick cuts you off she is done... this has to be non-negotiable.