Looking for different perspectives!

[parkthebus]

Also, a bit of perspective with something that helps me. You have to be constantly aware of your behaviour and how you're being percieved by others. A few things make this possible.

First is emotional stability. I find the best way to achieve this is by working towards goals and knowing what you want in life and doing something to achieve it. Once you've done this, give yourself adiquette time (usually after working towards your goals for a clearer state of mind) to reflect on your emotions.

Second is your ability to concentrate. Erratic thought processes will stop you from being self aware. Meditation is the best say to achieve this smill but its not for everyone. For me, reading is a good tool because my brain is focusing completely on something over a long period of time. I'm sure there are other ways to improve concentration but these are the two I know/use.

Finally, just don't say too much. Pretty simple. Don't say something because you feel the social situation requires you too. Every word that comes from your mouth should serve a purpose.

Being aware of yourself works with all people. Be it in a meeting at work, with friends and family or potential/current lovers. As an example, my sister is very attracted to alpha males, but she likes men who lead, who have their **** together and who she can respect. I notice when I am self aware, she gets really close to me and gives me way more attention than the other men in my family even though they dominate conversation a lot more. Because I might not talk as much but what I say carries weight and value. Obviously there are other reasons that myself being self aware makes her respect me more but I feel this is an important one and is easy for others to apply.

 

[Desdinova]

You say that i'm not open to criticism, yet you have yet to ask me a serious question.

Let's see what there is to ask you about...

If you read through my other posts you will see that i have talked about myself as little as possible

You come on here claiming how much you know about dominating women, but aren't willing to post experiences to back it up. You're a car salesman who doesn't want to show me the car, nor let me take it for a test drive. However, you're willing to let me know how much money you make being a car salesman. Posting experiences makes you genuine and earns you respect. All I'm seeing is a person looking for respect, and is trying to earn it by telling people to Google things.

Show us you're intelligent. Show us you know WTF you're talking about. Show us what we can learn from you. Telling us what an awesome husband you are benefits nobody.

You probably feel as if life is going to kick me in the face and 'humble' me.

I have no clue because I know nothing about you with the exception that you're 22 and married. You could be stupid as fvck, or you could actually have some good knowledge under your belt. All I'm getting from you is a bunch of hot air.

Your wiser than thou perspective makes you believe that everything i'm saying is invalid due to the fact that i am not old enough to have had any life experiences.

No, the claim that you're a great husband who's good with women without examples makes everything you say invalid.

Have You ever talked to anyone below twenty five that you felt was competent?

Yes, this guy. He posts the experiences, he opens himself up to criticism, and he betters himself because of it. I highly nominated him when he applied to be a moderator, and I have no regrets about it. The guy knows his 5hit, and he's growing into one hell of a man.

 

[beforeimgone]

Let's see what there is to ask you about...



You come on here claiming how much you know about dominating women, but aren't willing to post experiences to back it up. You're a car salesman who doesn't want to show me the car, nor let me take it for a test drive. However, you're willing to let me know how much money you make being a car salesman. Posting experiences makes you genuine and earns you respect. All I'm seeing is a person looking for respect, and is trying to earn it by telling people to Google things.

Show us you're intelligent. Show us you know WTF you're talking about. Show us what we can learn from you. Telling us what an awesome husband you are benefits nobody.



I have no clue because I know nothing about you with the exception that you're 22 and married. You could be stupid as fvck, or you could actually have some good knowledge under your belt. All I'm getting from you is a bunch of hot air.



No, the claim that you're a great husband who's good with women without examples makes everything you say invalid.



Yes, this guy. He posts the experiences, he opens himself up to criticism, and he betters himself because of it. I highly nominated him when he applied to be a moderator, and I have no regrets about it. The guy knows his 5hit, and he's growing into one hell of a man.

I find that there is no need to tell what i know if no one is asking because that means that they aren't willing to listen, but upon your advice i created a thread that outlines the basics of how i run my relationships. It's titled "how to make women stay deeply in love" or some shvt like that.


This thread wasn't for me to be sharing knowledge though. This thread was for me to draw knowledge from everyone around me. The other thread that i created is for me to share what i know. That thread has my thoughts and what works for most of the women i've fvcked. Check it out, man.