Sometimes I fear sites like this just make new guys paranoid of every little thing. There's no calibration or common sense used, leading to vast overreactions.
You cannot use male common sense to judge female actions. Men use male common sense. We do things that seem logical. Her being sick sounds logical. Her being busy at work sounds logical. But this is a WOMAN. A woman won't do things that align with a man's common sense. Here's an example...
Objective: Replacing bathroom towels
Logical Problem Solving: Go to the mall, go to "Towel Land" and buy a set of towels.
Man: Goes to mall, goes to "Towel Land", buys towels, leaves the mall, goes home.
Woman: Goes to mall...
Oh look! Cute shoes! I need to look at them!
Spends 45 minutes trying on shoes, buys two pairs.
OMG! Claire's Jewellery! I could use some new earrings!
Spends 40 minutes looking at jewellery, hair elastics, and other useless 5hit. Buys one pair of earrings.
Runs into friend at the mall
I'm here buying towels! We should go get some lunch!
Spends 1 hour 45 mins eating and talking with her friend.
Goes to "Towel Land" 15 minutes before it closes, buys towels.
Women will take whatever is tickling their emotions at the moment before carrying out what they wanted to logically do.