I dont know, this girl was texting me every day for the past few weeks. I guess she coulda been busy between work and school. Just weird to drop to zero contact, she has read receipts turned on so I know she saw my last message but never responded.
Logically she can't fit another guy in, in that short a period of time. You have to remember most women can be very emo at times. She might have just felt down and retreated from the world for a few days, or been really obsessively caught up in something. Look more for overall patterns, such as if this happens again often.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
yeah that's true IF it is a PATTERN. If it's the first time, or once in a blue moon and shes otherwise showing interest normally, it isn't time to ring the alarm bells just yet. Have to put it into context with the rest of her actions overall.
Well looks like you're right. Apparently she hasn't even been going to school, has some health issues I guess.
WTF???
Your assumption is likely correct. She had high hopes in hooking up with another dude. He either rejected her, or turned out to be a wimpy bytch.
yes, yes I will. It was a few days, not several WEEKS. One of a million important things could have come up. Girls when very upset also will go out of their way to avoid the guy they have a crush on, afraid to make a bad impression when they are not at their best.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Why do people here assume that the only thing that could be going on in a woman's life is getting f&cked by a new guy?
If she's as ugly as a dog's arse, then you won't have to worry about that.
Seriously, especially when its the first time and for a few days. Sometimes I fear sites like this just make new guys paranoid of every little thing. There's no calibration or common sense used, leading to vast overreactions.
Lol everyone can chill, Arcturus called it. One of her friends even told me that she finally heard from her too.
You cannot use male common sense to judge female actions. Men use male common sense. We do things that seem logical. Her being sick sounds logical. Her being busy at work sounds logical. But this is a WOMAN. A woman won't do things that align with a man's common sense. Here's an example...
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
So accurate lmao
And from what her friend told me that is the case. Said that she got a voicemail about it saying she has only talked to her parents and the doctor the last few days.
All that is valid, but I meant men using common sense. "If it's been 4-5 days and is the 1st time, is that realistically enough time to meet a new guy, get into him and then fall out of interest and back to the original, or is it way more likely that its just something". I'm not asking him to expect her to do things that are common sense, but to use his own logic when it comes to deciding what to do and adjusting calibration.