Logistics without a car

[holidayad_]

I'm back in Brazil after a while living abroad. Since I sold my car before I left, I'm figuring out the logistics without one now.

When I did have a car, it was easy: pick up the girl, go to a bar, then either the motel (or my place), and then drop her off at her place.

I'm not the biggest Uber fan when it comes to dating, but looks like I'll have to go that route for a while. Any tips on how to handle things without a car?

 

[SW15]

How important is having a car in your part of Brazil?

In the United States, most places are centered around cars. There are some exceptions. For men who live in New York City, it's possible to have a strong dating life without a car, especially in Manhattan. In Dallas, it would still be possible but a lot more difficult. Additionally, in Dallas, most women would expect for men to own a car.

 

[Doctor Doom]

Always make the chick do the commuting. If she flakes, you’ll save time and money.

 

[DarwinTaurus]

I'm in a similar situation.

My last car died about 10 years ago, and I never replaced it. I had no need to, as I lived a 10 minute walk from work, 5 minute walk from the Supermarket, and about a 7 minute walk from numerous bars in town.

Now, my workplace has been relocated a 10 minute drive from home. I just get an Uber.

Darwin is pretty much a small city, so I can get away without a car. The only reason I'd see if you'd need one, if you like doing outdoors stuff, camping, fishing, etc. which is hugely popular here, but it just isn't my scene.

The only downside, is I've chatted to a few women, and we were talking about an ideal first date, and a common theme seemed to be that they like being picked up.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You are asking for help with the wrong question.

Your focus should be on getting things together and getting a car not on women.

Women should always be secondary to getting your sh!t together.