Little Man Syndrome - Napolean complex
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I haven't read this entire thread, just the original and a few others so this might have already been touched upon.
HEIGHT MATTERS ! Just like penis size matters. But, like both, it only matters to a degree. Hot women are going to want a good looking guy around 6 ft w/ some muscle to him. Now granted, this is not always the case. But generally, thats is what hot women will be attracted to.
Can you go and get hot women when you're 5'6, 5'7 ? I'm sure you can. All women are different and not all prefer that.
For example, my ex was 5'4, HB 9 in my opinion. She competes in fitness / dance competitions, so u can imagine the body she has. I'm 6 ft 190 lbs. Fairly muscular, but no body builder. We broke up a while ago, yet I still go to teh bars w/ her
Her new b/f is 5'4, and VERY scrawny. What does she see in him ? Who the f#k knows, I never asked. But it just goes to show that you shorter guys always have a chance. Maybe you're not working with as great of odds as us taller guys are working with.......but hey, life's not fair, gotta roll with the punches.
HEIGHT MATTERS ! Just like penis size matters. But, like both, it only matters to a degree. Hot women are going to want a good looking guy around 6 ft w/ some muscle to him. Now granted, this is not always the case. But generally, thats is what hot women will be attracted to.
Can you go and get hot women when you're 5'6, 5'7 ? I'm sure you can. All women are different and not all prefer that.
For example, my ex was 5'4, HB 9 in my opinion. She competes in fitness / dance competitions, so u can imagine the body she has. I'm 6 ft 190 lbs. Fairly muscular, but no body builder. We broke up a while ago, yet I still go to teh bars w/ her
Her new b/f is 5'4, and VERY scrawny. What does she see in him ? Who the f#k knows, I never asked. But it just goes to show that you shorter guys always have a chance. Maybe you're not working with as great of odds as us taller guys are working with.......but hey, life's not fair, gotta roll with the punches.
Don't trust those charts. I know lots of French and they are as tall as Italians. Stats say that average height here should be 5'9 even. I'm slightly over that, almost 5'10 and I get called midget 24/7. Plus average height 200 years ago was just a inch shorter than now.
Being 5'6 and fed up with the BS I was seeing on page 1 of this thread, I am compelled to set the record straight.
I saw short guys on this thread thinking that they need to make tall guys "look like jerks." I saw tall guys who believe that being tall is "almost a requirement." I saw guys who honestly believe that their "intelligence" matters to a woman.....
ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. Attraction is what you do to a woman's mind and body. Being tall is a social PREFERENCE, because it makes the woman feel secure and protected. Note that the woman WON'T feel secure and protected around a tall guy who's very scrawny. As short guys, all we have to do is give women those same FEELINGS of security. How? Pass sh!t tests and don't get insecure if she tests you about your height. Demonstrate strong leadership. Tell stories of how you protected people close to you or how you outshined your counterparts in some competition. Stay in your own strong reality. You are NEVER too short for a woman; however, she may be TOO FREAKISHLY TALL FOR YOU! SHE has to meet YOUR standards, NOT the other way around.
Dudes, I used to feel insecure about my height, but I know it doesn't matter. I had a 5'10 GF for over a year. At first, sure she gave me sh!t about my height. But I macked other girls in front of her and flipped the script and teased her about having big feet for a girl and being clumsy.
Ultimately her attraction to me was too strong to consider the height factor. She was in my reality, and in my reality, height didn't matter.
I hope you guys got something out of this. For god's sake don't do anything that makes you look like a TRY HARD (trying to look like arnold schwarzenegger or being an @$$hole to tall guys, etc.). Just have a stronger reality than anyone you meet, accentuate your other physical characteristics as best you can, and remember that attraction's not a choice.
(credit to David Deangelo and Swinggcat for the concepts.)
I saw short guys on this thread thinking that they need to make tall guys "look like jerks." I saw tall guys who believe that being tall is "almost a requirement." I saw guys who honestly believe that their "intelligence" matters to a woman.....
ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. Attraction is what you do to a woman's mind and body. Being tall is a social PREFERENCE, because it makes the woman feel secure and protected. Note that the woman WON'T feel secure and protected around a tall guy who's very scrawny. As short guys, all we have to do is give women those same FEELINGS of security. How? Pass sh!t tests and don't get insecure if she tests you about your height. Demonstrate strong leadership. Tell stories of how you protected people close to you or how you outshined your counterparts in some competition. Stay in your own strong reality. You are NEVER too short for a woman; however, she may be TOO FREAKISHLY TALL FOR YOU! SHE has to meet YOUR standards, NOT the other way around.
Dudes, I used to feel insecure about my height, but I know it doesn't matter. I had a 5'10 GF for over a year. At first, sure she gave me sh!t about my height. But I macked other girls in front of her and flipped the script and teased her about having big feet for a girl and being clumsy.
Ultimately her attraction to me was too strong to consider the height factor. She was in my reality, and in my reality, height didn't matter.
I hope you guys got something out of this. For god's sake don't do anything that makes you look like a TRY HARD (trying to look like arnold schwarzenegger or being an @$$hole to tall guys, etc.). Just have a stronger reality than anyone you meet, accentuate your other physical characteristics as best you can, and remember that attraction's not a choice.
(credit to David Deangelo and Swinggcat for the concepts.)
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If Napoleon was 5'6", then I am shorter than him.
Cool.
Cool.