I think you nailed it there. The key for most women imo is that the guy is taller than her. I know several women who will flat out refuse to date anyone smaller than themselves. Anyone who's about 5 foot 5 shouldn't have a problem. Theres plenty of fine looking women under that height!
Little Man Syndrome - Napolean complex
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Dear Reggie Bush,
I am a Latin guy, 5'5', handsome, 30, athletic, physically and emotionally strong, intelligent, with a great job who is currently dating a couple of gorgeous European girls (both 9-10 in looks and brains). This is my first time in this forum, and I couldn’t resist to add my 2 cents. I used to be concerned about my height some time ago, especially in this country, where the average male height is I think 5’8. Well, I got to tell you. Height makes a different for some people, but is not always the rule. Some women are biologically attracted to tall guys. Cheers for that. Other females are attracted to short guys. It’s a matter of taste. Just keep in mind that the best of most things in life come in short doses.
Me? I’ve been working on my self for a long time. It’s amazing how comfortable I’ve become in my own skin. In the past I was told many times that I was good looking, but unfortunately I didn’t have a game. I had chances with good looking girls, all them taller than me, and I blew it. It happened not because I was short, but because of something lacking in my personality. Since then, I made a total commitment to improve myself in this field. The balance I’ve achieved in life to become what my women call “Alpha Male”, “Metrosexual”, “Latin Sexy *****”, “Don Juan Tenorio”, whatever it is, has taken me a lot of work and dedication …. There is something true in what social proof dictates, but that’s not “only” on your height. If not think about Tom Cruise and Danny DeVito. I believe is up to us to reach beyond the starts, in spite of all the odds. Reggie boy, you’re young! You have time ahead of you to work on your issues and learn. Don’t let you height stop you to get what you want out of this life.
Someone mentioned something about power…. That’s a great point. Develop and conquer it from the inside out. Use your smarts to get it, but keep in mind that with more power comes more responsibilities. Power is not about the physical strength you can obtain, money you can get or the title you have achieved thanks to your carrier. It is the knowledge you accumulate and how you use it productively ….. Cultivate your mind and soul…. There is no better turn on for a woman than a smart guy. Develop your personality. Women love self-assure confident men….. if being short makes a difference like in my case (I’m usually the shortest in any group) make that your advantage. Every time I walk into a venue, bar, office, there is always a hot mama who wants to give me a hug or kiss. Why? You betcha, because I’m different and unique….I’m short… Novelty is what women are after… develop the boyish – bad-ass – mischievous look (watch Wild Orquid with Mickey Rourke). It’s easier for us short guys to do that…Be funny and unpredictable – be a challenge…(think Robin Williams) 80% of my friends are women, from 20 to 65. and guess what, they love to be around this short guy. I even forgot I’m short….it’s been a while since I thought of this….When you go somewhere let the ladies come to you. Why? Because you are different, unique and special. You know you’ve got what they want. Don’t be surprise that some of them may try to get into your pants… And guess what, the size of your “chorizo” doesn’t matter much for most of the ladies my friend. Learn technique on how to satisfy a woman. Be passionate in the arts of love making. Be seductive, work on tone of voice and body language.
Looks are important too, however, not the extreme priority. Working out and being in shape is a must if you want to score high. I just came from the GYM after a spinning class. That was great! A very cute girl behind me was telling her girlfriend that I should write my phone number in my calves….. funny eh!!!.. Nonetheless, it’s up to me to allow her to become part of my reality and life. She has to probe to be worth of my time, attention and affection…. And yes, I love hot girls with brains, not just bimbos hanged up on their good looks. They have to transcend life for themselves….. Develop a V-shape. Increase the size of your shoulders, chest, arms and legs. Try to keep a nice waistline. Overall look manly. Your sex-appeal is your best weapon so improve it.
Fashion? A big must too…. Classy, urban and modern works best for me. Designer’s brands are the way to go. Kenneth Cole, Armani, CK, D&G, DKNY are in my closet. You can find great deals for S or M. Learn how to dress up and down. Create your own sense of fashion. Why? Because most of great cloth is designed for average height people.
Someone talked about not seen short guys below 5’10 score really hot young girls…. I can show you boy that reality comes true if we want to make it happen… A friend of mine, who is probably 5’5 or 5’6 scores big time with the hottest girls that I’ve seen in town… Man, that guy sometimes surprises me…. And believe tall guys, Yes! being tall is an advantage, but your confidence, self-control, challenge, smarts, and witty/funny attitude doesn’t come pre-programmed with your height.
Reggie boy, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND LOVE WHO YOU ARE. Why? Because I’ve done that, and guess what, it works wonders.
Wish you the best in your journey my short friend.
From Don Juan Tenorio, who is proud to be a short boy!
I am a Latin guy, 5'5', handsome, 30, athletic, physically and emotionally strong, intelligent, with a great job who is currently dating a couple of gorgeous European girls (both 9-10 in looks and brains). This is my first time in this forum, and I couldn’t resist to add my 2 cents. I used to be concerned about my height some time ago, especially in this country, where the average male height is I think 5’8. Well, I got to tell you. Height makes a different for some people, but is not always the rule. Some women are biologically attracted to tall guys. Cheers for that. Other females are attracted to short guys. It’s a matter of taste. Just keep in mind that the best of most things in life come in short doses.
Me? I’ve been working on my self for a long time. It’s amazing how comfortable I’ve become in my own skin. In the past I was told many times that I was good looking, but unfortunately I didn’t have a game. I had chances with good looking girls, all them taller than me, and I blew it. It happened not because I was short, but because of something lacking in my personality. Since then, I made a total commitment to improve myself in this field. The balance I’ve achieved in life to become what my women call “Alpha Male”, “Metrosexual”, “Latin Sexy *****”, “Don Juan Tenorio”, whatever it is, has taken me a lot of work and dedication …. There is something true in what social proof dictates, but that’s not “only” on your height. If not think about Tom Cruise and Danny DeVito. I believe is up to us to reach beyond the starts, in spite of all the odds. Reggie boy, you’re young! You have time ahead of you to work on your issues and learn. Don’t let you height stop you to get what you want out of this life.
Someone mentioned something about power…. That’s a great point. Develop and conquer it from the inside out. Use your smarts to get it, but keep in mind that with more power comes more responsibilities. Power is not about the physical strength you can obtain, money you can get or the title you have achieved thanks to your carrier. It is the knowledge you accumulate and how you use it productively ….. Cultivate your mind and soul…. There is no better turn on for a woman than a smart guy. Develop your personality. Women love self-assure confident men….. if being short makes a difference like in my case (I’m usually the shortest in any group) make that your advantage. Every time I walk into a venue, bar, office, there is always a hot mama who wants to give me a hug or kiss. Why? You betcha, because I’m different and unique….I’m short… Novelty is what women are after… develop the boyish – bad-ass – mischievous look (watch Wild Orquid with Mickey Rourke). It’s easier for us short guys to do that…Be funny and unpredictable – be a challenge…(think Robin Williams) 80% of my friends are women, from 20 to 65. and guess what, they love to be around this short guy. I even forgot I’m short….it’s been a while since I thought of this….When you go somewhere let the ladies come to you. Why? Because you are different, unique and special. You know you’ve got what they want. Don’t be surprise that some of them may try to get into your pants… And guess what, the size of your “chorizo” doesn’t matter much for most of the ladies my friend. Learn technique on how to satisfy a woman. Be passionate in the arts of love making. Be seductive, work on tone of voice and body language.
Looks are important too, however, not the extreme priority. Working out and being in shape is a must if you want to score high. I just came from the GYM after a spinning class. That was great! A very cute girl behind me was telling her girlfriend that I should write my phone number in my calves….. funny eh!!!.. Nonetheless, it’s up to me to allow her to become part of my reality and life. She has to probe to be worth of my time, attention and affection…. And yes, I love hot girls with brains, not just bimbos hanged up on their good looks. They have to transcend life for themselves….. Develop a V-shape. Increase the size of your shoulders, chest, arms and legs. Try to keep a nice waistline. Overall look manly. Your sex-appeal is your best weapon so improve it.
Fashion? A big must too…. Classy, urban and modern works best for me. Designer’s brands are the way to go. Kenneth Cole, Armani, CK, D&G, DKNY are in my closet. You can find great deals for S or M. Learn how to dress up and down. Create your own sense of fashion. Why? Because most of great cloth is designed for average height people.
Someone talked about not seen short guys below 5’10 score really hot young girls…. I can show you boy that reality comes true if we want to make it happen… A friend of mine, who is probably 5’5 or 5’6 scores big time with the hottest girls that I’ve seen in town… Man, that guy sometimes surprises me…. And believe tall guys, Yes! being tall is an advantage, but your confidence, self-control, challenge, smarts, and witty/funny attitude doesn’t come pre-programmed with your height.
Reggie boy, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND LOVE WHO YOU ARE. Why? Because I’ve done that, and guess what, it works wonders.
Wish you the best in your journey my short friend.
From Don Juan Tenorio, who is proud to be a short boy!
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I think that's true for the most part
Also alot of people walk like they're short by walking with their shoulders slouched and head staring at the ground. Signs of a beta male. If you walk tall it makes you look taller.
The majority of the couples I see are close in height. I think when some of you see a 6'4 guy with a 5'2 girl it stands out in your mind because those two look ridiculous together. Therefore you exaggerate the amount of short girls with really tall guys.
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If you're short, there's nothing you can do about it.
Tall people, especially the losers, will always make insecure comments about your height if you're short. Just as people make racist comments because of their own insecurities about being a loser. Poor people make fun of rich people. It makes them feel better.
In fact, the more negative comments you get, the more successful you probably are.
Tall people, especially the losers, will always make insecure comments about your height if you're short. Just as people make racist comments because of their own insecurities about being a loser. Poor people make fun of rich people. It makes them feel better.
In fact, the more negative comments you get, the more successful you probably are.
Le Parisien
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So many things have been said here, I don't want to repeat what's been said over and over again.
But see this:
The tall guys successful with women will tell you it matters, the unsuccessful ones will tell you it doesn't. The short ones successful with women will tell you it doesn't, and the unsuccessful ones will tell you to blame your height for your failures.
So where's the truth?
No my friend, you are asking the wrong question! The "truth" is mere statistics reflected by society, "shorter guys statistically have much less chance to score a hot woman". This is true, so what?
What's important is YOU, it's about what YOU do with YOUR life. Take actions! Don't let your height stop you from becomeing a great guy, a successful guy, with the ladies and other things.
Statistically, kids from poor families are much more likely to fail at school. So if your family's poor, would you just sit on your a** telling yourself that everything's over even before anything gets started? Or would you rather workd your a** off to be successful?
Start from now, get in shape, dress nice, do what Don Juan Tenorio said in this topic!
Sure being tall would be a nice advantage, but it's nothing more than just an advantage, what's important is "the game", you are here to win "the game"! Should you be focused on the fact that the other guy starts the game with a 10 point advantage?
Keep your focus on the game my friend!
Again, having doubts and insecurities is human, just learn to master them.
Personally, being an average guy who got constantly picked on because of my height/ethnicity/culture in high school, I can understand where you are coming from.
But I repeat, don't let your height affect your, don't let yourself down!
But see this:
The tall guys successful with women will tell you it matters, the unsuccessful ones will tell you it doesn't. The short ones successful with women will tell you it doesn't, and the unsuccessful ones will tell you to blame your height for your failures.
So where's the truth?
No my friend, you are asking the wrong question! The "truth" is mere statistics reflected by society, "shorter guys statistically have much less chance to score a hot woman". This is true, so what?
What's important is YOU, it's about what YOU do with YOUR life. Take actions! Don't let your height stop you from becomeing a great guy, a successful guy, with the ladies and other things.
Statistically, kids from poor families are much more likely to fail at school. So if your family's poor, would you just sit on your a** telling yourself that everything's over even before anything gets started? Or would you rather workd your a** off to be successful?
Start from now, get in shape, dress nice, do what Don Juan Tenorio said in this topic!
Sure being tall would be a nice advantage, but it's nothing more than just an advantage, what's important is "the game", you are here to win "the game"! Should you be focused on the fact that the other guy starts the game with a 10 point advantage?
Keep your focus on the game my friend!
Again, having doubts and insecurities is human, just learn to master them.
Personally, being an average guy who got constantly picked on because of my height/ethnicity/culture in high school, I can understand where you are coming from.
But I repeat, don't let your height affect your, don't let yourself down!
I see height as potentially an almost insubstantial aspect when it comes to pulling in women. Why do i say potentially? Read on....
Yes, there might be statistics that claim that taller guys get more girls, girls like taller men, etc. But you all have to realize that this is merely an average of many random guys.
But what you all have to realize (and what took me a bit of time to truly realize myself) is that most men are AFCs. Most people, in fact, are malcontented, very insecure people. I think that most people in general are people who haven't realized the real significance of life and who haven't truly accepted themselves. So based on most people, sure taller guys get more girls. But this is including the general, the common, the normal man.
I think there are a small group of "enlightened" people in this world. I dont know why, maybe they are smarter, maybe they are more motivated, maybe they are just aware of things that most people are not. I think people on this forum have gotten at least a bit closer at becoming aware of this. So i think that if you have game, if you improve yourself and aspire to be a don juan, then height will be almost insignificant. Sure, you will get rejected from time to time, but a Don Juan is a person who doesnt take petty things like rejection to heart. You will probably get less looks if you are shorter, but unless you are like most people, it wont matter nearly as much as people make it out to be.
Yes, there might be statistics that claim that taller guys get more girls, girls like taller men, etc. But you all have to realize that this is merely an average of many random guys.
But what you all have to realize (and what took me a bit of time to truly realize myself) is that most men are AFCs. Most people, in fact, are malcontented, very insecure people. I think that most people in general are people who haven't realized the real significance of life and who haven't truly accepted themselves. So based on most people, sure taller guys get more girls. But this is including the general, the common, the normal man.
I think there are a small group of "enlightened" people in this world. I dont know why, maybe they are smarter, maybe they are more motivated, maybe they are just aware of things that most people are not. I think people on this forum have gotten at least a bit closer at becoming aware of this. So i think that if you have game, if you improve yourself and aspire to be a don juan, then height will be almost insignificant. Sure, you will get rejected from time to time, but a Don Juan is a person who doesnt take petty things like rejection to heart. You will probably get less looks if you are shorter, but unless you are like most people, it wont matter nearly as much as people make it out to be.
Have you guys read ANY of the DJ bible?
If you did you should know that your looks, height, etc. dont really matter! In the end girls go for personality over looks.
Its all about confidence! If your self-concious about your height than the chicks will pick that up and you wont stand a chance.
Know that your good enough, and you will be.
Read this from the "Ten Commandments" by Senor Fingers-
If you did you should know that your looks, height, etc. dont really matter! In the end girls go for personality over looks.
Its all about confidence! If your self-concious about your height than the chicks will pick that up and you wont stand a chance.
Know that your good enough, and you will be.
Read this from the "Ten Commandments" by Senor Fingers-
thank you!....i cannot stress not-worrying-about-what-you-cannot-change enough, but most people seem to not be able to do that. Most people need validation of their worth by their physical looks. It is good to aspire to improve yourself. But i hate talking about **** like height.
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bigger muscles do make up for lack if height
it's not just for girls, it gets respect from guys
if the guys respect you the ladies will want you
I somewhat agree with your post (meaning that it's true that people over 6'0 definately have an advantage over other guys), but this point really makes no sense:
First thing a woman comments on when she meets me is my blue eyes. Does it mean that people without blue eyes are at a disadvantage? No, I simply have an advantage. Not having an advantage doesn't necessarily mean that you have a disadvantage.
This is the truest post I've ever seen about height.
L777
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This is bang on (except 'the unsuccessful ones will tell you it doesn't' ' - cos I'm pretty successful), I just couldn't be arsed typing it.
BTW I am 6 foot and I know for a fact it doesn't matter how tall you are, All my shorter mates are good with women. Women say they like tall guys, but that doesn't mean they don't like shorter guys...stop whining and use what god gave you as best you can
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Napolean was actually around average male height, but when he was measured after he died a mistake was made in converting his height from the metric system. ever since then people have always thought he was a little guy when he actually wasnt.
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In addition, for some reason thinking about my height makes me lift harder.
Badmannaz
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6'1 wat WAAAAT!!!!
Sorry 4 ya!!
Chicks dig small guys i think
Sorry 4 ya!!
Chicks dig small guys i think
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
Wrong all the short girls I Know like tall guys because tall guys have tall.......uknowats
atleast it's true for me
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actually penis size has nothing to do with heightOriginally posted by Badmannaz
Wrong all the short girls I Know like tall guys because tall guys have tall.......uknowats
atleast it's true for me
this is the 3rd thread I've opened in the last 5 minutes and twice you mention your penis size
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
YO I have just found out the hard way from a little person that Midget is like the N word... yea for real...!!!
YOU can't even call them little people... no for real!!!
YOu have to call them dorfs...aint that jacked...???
Hell I would hella rather be called a Midget or Little Person than a Dorf...
Sick and twisted world...
YO!! Mad Respect to the Vertically Challenged... at least they don't have to worry about ... no forget that I guess they have to worry about a lot of $hit....
Still Bu shakalla Respect!!
umm never mind...
peace
Keep this on the down low.. he he
YOU can't even call them little people... no for real!!!
YOu have to call them dorfs...aint that jacked...???
Hell I would hella rather be called a Midget or Little Person than a Dorf...
Sick and twisted world...
YO!! Mad Respect to the Vertically Challenged... at least they don't have to worry about ... no forget that I guess they have to worry about a lot of $hit....
Still Bu shakalla Respect!!
umm never mind...
peace
Keep this on the down low.. he he
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
What can I Say??!!Originally posted by Silverback82
actually penis size has nothing to do with height
this is the 3rd thread I've opened in the last 5 minutes and twice you mention your penis size
I love my penis!!!
God was good to me!!!
