evansblue said:
75% of the girls I've slept with didn't even know what I did for a living. And I'm not sure how another man is going to "summon" them away from me when the majority of the time I only hook up with the girl once, and move on.
So you specialize in short-term hookups with easy women.
You're right. Why would a girl be impressed with a guy who is financially independent and carries his own weight, when she could be with a guy who's living at home with his mother watching Golden Girls reruns. Brilliant logic there.
As I go for quality women who don't look to sponge off men, most didn't care. Yeah, tell these men how to risk STDs/HIV by gaming sl*t trash and moving on to the next risk. YOU DA MAN! (not really you're another anonymous internet coward who'd crap his pants before insulting me to my face).
Actually YOUR logic is flawed. Living with mom never meant I didn't pay bills; we just did it to save cash, and because I was discriminated against in office work, so this enabled me more flexibility in my job searches. Ironically, after Mom died, my finances shot up while those who used to taunt me...moved back home! Now that your hating has been addressed, I'll restate my original point.
Living with my mom was a HUGE ADVANTAGE. Here's why:
1. The typical man who "lives alone" does so in a manner insufficient to attract a golddigger (the only type who generally cares about a man's income to begin with), or even one who is scoping him for free housing (another type of woman I don't need or want). You can't have it both ways: if you say that financial and physical independence (I was financially independent and worked) matter to women, then these women are golddigging, however minor it may seem, as they are ruling out men financially rather than based on things that actually matter in a loving relationship.
2. As you pointed out, for short-term hookups, this mattered not at all. A simple tactic I developed to compensate when I had to was to run game in HOTEL BARS, either not stating where I was from, implying that I was a tourist, or a visitor, or a local, or whatever, but I would deal with "travel slots" who had their own rooms anyway.
3. As I lived on a college campus area, most women had their own places, or at least their own rooms. Before my building closed off the roof to tenants, I got quite a lot of action up there as well.
4. The SUPER-ELITE women, the ones who could get ANY rich man, never seemed to care about my living situation, since they could get whatever they wanted anyway. They were SMART enough to figure out that if I were to build a life with them, I would leave the nest and build one with them. Unlike you, they were more positive, and forward-looking, not just trying to AMOG or hate on another man. They tended to choose me becuase of my genius IQ, my being INTERESTING, really good in bed, an excellent conversationalist, and, in my early 20s, a chessplayer (given that chessplayers earn very little they understood my situation just fine).
5. The average "independent" man doesn't earn enough or have a nice enough place to impress the type of super-elites I wanted. You ignored this before, probably because you have no answer for it, but a guy earning 50k and living in a small house is not going to stand out with a super-elite. By NOT competing with them financially, I was able to wipe the mat with these guys in every other area, sometimes even financially.
6. Because my expenses were lower, and because I would often win money gambling (cutting costs enabled me to take the necessary risks as well), I had MORE MONEY than they did to spend on clothing, dates, hobbies, etc., plus I had MORE TIME than they did. What good is it for a guy to be "independent" if he's slaving away SIXTY hours a week at a job, and has no free time to spend with her like during the workday, whereas my lifestyle allowed me this.
Your insults now apply to the men who used to insult me. My economic future is SET. Not many men can say that anymore.
It was only when I wrote BOS that I relaized what a huge advantage I had with what most men perceive as a disadvantage, but I was aware that my results were excellent, so there was no need to pay mind to the idiots who couldn't seee beneath the surface.
Oh yeah, another thing: kicking someone you think is down is never wise, because you never know who will have the money TOMORROW. Beginning in early 2009, I taught that lesson to many.
Your mouth may impress an internet forum filled with guys who have never had a super-elite, but it won't do much to get the type of woman you don't have to abandon after one lay, plus any women who put out so easily is just garbage to begin with, hardly a keeper. I dealt with some of the sexiest women on the planet, and did it without any traditional "requirements." That is the essence of GAME. Know what though? Men who are not smart enough to find the right advice and follow it harm only themselves, not really any skin off my back. I put this info out for the men who claim to want answers, but who seem to think they already have them, as their minds aren't generally open.
The type of women I used to get aren't even on the radar of most men, men who remained focused on the same nightlife trash that makes "PUAs" out of the 20-100 men they act like sl*ts for.
Ray Gordon
Bettor Off Single: Why Commitment Is A Bad Gamble For Men
http://www.toosmarttofail.com/bos.pdf
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