Lets get together and make this sosuave better.

[Demon]

People have gone soo wrong in what this site is for , its not just about getting ***** , its not just about getting numbers from girls , its about bettering yourself, to gain confidence and have the courage to go out and do things you want to do , its about getting rid of the doubt, getting rid of the fear that holds you back everytime you want to do something.... Its about becoming a real man.

Exactly. That's why I wrote What Makes DJs Different.

 

[Wolves]

[Allen] I'll let you in now, but I recommend not participating. You have this ability to cause a firestorm with merely a whisper.

And behold, the reason this forum is headed downhill = Someone posts the truth = No one wants to hear the truth = everyone gets in a violent uproar over the truth = the one who revealed the truth is banned = the forum goes back to wallowing in ignorance.

The majority of the people on this site don't want to hear the truth. They don't want to hear that looks really do matter. They don't want to hear that sitting on the computer for 8+ hours a day AS A LEISURE ACTIVITY is NOT an attractive trait in a man. They don't want to hear that ugly fat smelly guys have a better chance at winning the lottery than at successfully getting with hot women.

They instead want to hear that if they only "be themselves" that the women will flock to them (as if they somehow weren't being "themselves" before). They want to hear that women don't care about looks, and rather judge a man solely based on his character and charm. They want to hear that angels are real, genies grant wishes, and life is just a big fuzzy puppy with a cold wet nose who'll snuggle with you and give you puppy kisses for the rest of time.

Life is hard. Women are superficial. And the mods on this site appear to be either raging AFCs or possibly females when you consider the fact that they're deathly afraid of a "ruckus" on their website.

I don't know why in gods name you think that skip is nasman and those other retarded trolls. From what I saw, skip never trolled at all. He gave an unpopular viewpoint (mainly that looks are the most important aspect of the game, and that its ok to lie to girls in order to get a lay), and he got flamed everywhere he went for it. When he flamed back, the mods called him a disruption and banned him on the spot.

Look up some of skip's old posts before you go making assumptions.

 

[Jariel]

I don't know why in gods name you think that skip is nasman and those other retarded trolls. From what I saw, skip never trolled at all. He gave an unpopular viewpoint (mainly that looks are the most important aspect of the game, and that its ok to lie to girls in order to get a lay), and he got flamed everywhere he went for it. When he flamed back, the mods called him a disruption and banned him on the spot.

Firstly, it was proven that Skip was posing as many of those trolls and created users who would start threads agreeing with Skip and talking about how great Skip was. I assume the mods did an IP check or something.

Secondly, that is some very creepy and obsessive behaviour! You can tell by his behaviour alone that he is one messed up kid, and is not someone who should be giving advice.

Thirdly, all his advice was textbook stuff that anyone who's done some reading could give you. His honesty was very questionable and to people who have experience in the field, his stories weren't convincing and resembled nerd fantasies.

I don't hate the guy and I don't want to get into flaming wars, but guys like him really drag this place down. There are some excellent and genuine posters on this board who are losing their patience.

 

[skip the pimp]

i was never a fake-ass troll sorry, i know u like to make assumptions....feel free to ask the mods, they will tell u that i never had more than one user name at the same time.......believe it or not the ones who told me im so great are the ones i helped thru AIM and private messaging and they were greatful for it, thats all

 

[Demon]

Please don't feed the (banned) trolls.

 

[MuayThai]

whenever someone says anything about getting pvssy the persons thread gets flamed.

Pffffftt!! Its called being a man son.
GGGGRRRRRRAAAAAHAHHHHHH!!!!! *beats chest*

No seriously, there are some major losers round here, who deserve a good flame. If only the admins would let us get on it in peace.

 

[lookyoung]

Pffffftt!! Its called being a man son.
GGGGRRRRRRAAAAAHAHHHHHH!!!!! *beats chest*

No seriously, there are some major losers round here, who deserve a good flame. If only the admins would let us get on it in peace.

Tell me about it. I have been observing the new threads lately and seems like the information is totally useless. However In the tips section u can find alot of good stuff.:woo:

 

[Raikojo17]

I have a solution everyone bury the hatchett. The past is the past. Lets make a code that all of us have to follow.

1. Be honest when posting.
2. Don't put anyone down.
3. If someone posts a thread and u have nothing useful or positive to say than don't comment on anything.
4. Lets encourage real life situations.
5. Lets have a goal to try and make everyone step there game up.


Come on guys lets learn to live and forget. Everyone lets love each other and start out fresh. Its christmas time....

add another one to the code. how about instead of flaming, offer ur own view on the subject. challenge it for its worth. offer some helpful critism. offering counter advice might actually make the advice better, because you are ironing out the flaws in it.

and also, before you doubt somthing new, why not go out and try it first before you flame it. it might actually work.

if everyone on here just simple challenged advice that you think is useless instead of flaming it and abusing the poster, than this site would be a goldmine of useful info, and a much better place.

 

[lookyoung]

I have been hearing alot of talk recently about how the mods are not doing there job, and how sosuave could be much better. If they eliminated flames, putting down posters..... etc........

It is too easy to sign up for this site. Let me tell you a secret guys. When something is free your going to get alot of garbage. I work in an emergency room department, and it is nothing like the movies.

You want to know what we get. 60% of out patients are drunks, heroin addicts, homeless people, unemployed people, and public aiders, and people with no insurance.... Do you want to know why we get garbage.... Because by law they don't have to pay, it is all FREE If they go to a DR office they have to pay upfront, so instead they come to ER were everything is free. They know the system and beat it...


The only way this site will get better is if you charge a membership fee. Then we will see how many trolls, and idiots are here. I guarantee you charge a yearly fee of $50.00 and we will eliminate all these trolls, and all these useless poster.

This is the only way to get rid of the garbage at sosuave. Hit them where it hurts. The membership will go down and then you will see real people posting things.



I also think they should make a category for REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES. I am so fvcking hesitant to post any of my experiences because whenever anyone posts anything they are seen as seeking validation, or showing off. THESE THREADS ALWAYS GET FLAMED THE MOST.

I LIKE HEARING ABOUT REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES THERE IS A HIDDEN LESSON TO BE LEARNED IN THESE EXPERIENCES.


So guys that is just my 2 cents.

 

[PRMoon]

The first part I semi agree with. I'm not sure what allan would do with the money, but i'm sure he'd figure it out. It definately would reduce the number or trolls because they'd be hesitant to pay 50 100 150 200 bucks to come here, get banned and keep coming back afterwards.

I'm not sure about the second half though. I already don't post that many FRs because they're "larger then life" an when i think about them, I don't even think they're real (hell my experience from last night categorized for just that). Forutnately I know posting threads like that don't really help anyone here so I let them go the wayside and I keep it to myself. Usually my friends were there so we go over what happned amongst ourselves which is good enough anyway, but none the less, my FR participation rate has dropped significanty because I don't have experience that are typical of a standard PUA or DJ, so i'm kind of elminated by default.