Let’s talk about S€X

[Lotus Effect]

Hey guys,

I see a lot of you mumbling new theories on woman kind, or why she is not going for the 2nd date, or just trying to become relevant on this forum.

Whereas, the main topic that should be discussed, is seldomly (if ever) addressed.

The subject being: S€X
Or even better, how well are you banging those chicks (or not)

To my understanding, much of the noise and confusion on how to deal with chicks comes from this flaw.

Gentlemen, get this. It is simple.
Once you banged a lady, it is done.

It is a done deal. There is no second guessing, there is no wondering what to do or how to act.

You bang her brains out, and you go live your life as if she did not existed in the first place.

All the groundwork now comes from her side. The minute you banged her is the minute you flipped the script.

Right now you might be asking yourself. No way, now I have to do this and that to keep her attracted, or, this Lotus guy don’t know what he is talking about, or whatever.

Let me get it to you. If you bang a chick properly, she is yours. The question you should be asking yourself actually is:

Am I banging properly?
Do I know how to properly fvck?

If:
- You don’t go multiple times
- You don’t make her cvm (the more the merrier
- You don’t make her loose her sh!t
- She does not compliment you as the best s&x she ever had (or some of the sort)

Then there’s your answer.

There is no mind games. No mental gymnastics.

You had your shot, and you lost it. She is not going for a second date, because she was there and she witnessed your potential firsthand.

So if you are wondering why you are not advancing or why she gosthed you, that is it.
(Friendly reminder that I’m talking about hot chicks, after all I’m hoping you’re eating well guys)

On the other hand, if you did all of the above, just sit back, go do your thing, and relax. Sooner than later she will show up.

So before replying, answer this question. I am posting this in the Mature Man, and as mature men, you should ask yourself this hard question. Am I a good lay?

You lay pipe, and leave her finished, with her barely able to move or speak? Then yay.

Anything other than that, it is time to second guess.

You can do stupid sh!t later and loose her eventually, as with anyone, but, if you are stuck on lay one, than I have some news for you bud!

So instead of picking your brain, or trying to devise this new plan of text messaging attraction, or whatever, improve this area of your life. Be it fingering, head, pumping, everything.

Just get this sorted, and things will start to fall into place.

Cheers!

Disclaimer:
This is a personal journey, 100% focused at yourself and your skill. This is not about placing the poon at the pedestal. This is about your own health, considering the fact that $ex is a healthy issue (refer to Maslow’s pyramid in case of doubt)

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I am fully confident that I'm the best sex any women will ever have, period. And from the things that are said and the looks on their faces and their reactions during certain moments I'm usually right.

 

[characternote]

I am fully confident that I'm the best sex any women will ever have, period. And from the things that are said and the looks on their faces and their reactions during certain moments I'm usually right.

ditto

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

ditto

You can't go 'ditto'. Now you are competing with him over being 'the best sex any women will ever have, period'.
And there can be only one.
So the two* of you will have to have a c0ck fight.

(*this could become a melee if others start dittoing as well)

 

[Salvation]

Cool, so whats your guys' secret, how do you do so you guarantee her the best sex ever? Appreciate it, Thanks

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Cool, so whats your guys' secret, how do you do so you guarantee her the best sex ever? Appreciate it, Thanks

Ditto.

 

[Solomon]

Cool, so whats your guys' secret, how do you do so you guarantee her the best sex ever? Appreciate it, Thanks

Cardio, lots of cardio and eating right, and sleep you need rest

 

[Lotus Effect]

Cool, so whats your guys' secret, how do you do so you guarantee her the best sex ever? Appreciate it, Thanks

Good question.

There are some things that you can apply, that might come across as tricks or secrets, but in the end, I guess it always revolves around experience.

First and foremost, you must be phisically atractted to her, otherwise it will be robotic. So this means, you must enjoy it.
It is also very important that you enjoy watching her as she is enjoying it. I am dirty, so I also enjoy the dirty side of it.

Anyway, I'll break it down to Outside factors, and In Bed Actions.

Outside factors:

- High Libido/Testosterone gained via daily phisical exercice
I will definetly say that this is the most important thing for you to do because it keeps you on the edge, and you exahle manliness, which by now, I'm sure they can smell it. You actually feel more like a man, and not a fvcking wimp.
Also, avoid wanking. Leave it to them. It will preserve your manly energy.

- High Stamina gained via daily cardio
This is a no brainer, but you gotta be able not to tire during performance, and also you want to be able to pump cruelly while maintaining a boner for long periods - aka fvcking her brains out (this is when they laugh, cry, bite themselves, revolve their eyes and tipically say a long fvvvvv vvvvv vvvvv vvvck - the pauses follows the pumping)

- Multiple partners (emotional dettachment)
Pook said this better than me:

Lesson 14: Always Have a Back-Up Chick!
Either go for MANY or go for NONE. If you go for ONE you will become an Average Frustrated Chump. Most guys are too LAZY or too SCARED to go for multiple girls. So they remain AFCs and forever remain in the vicious cycle.

This is detrimental, as if you only go for this one, eventually (sooner than you expect) your brain will fog and you develop feelings for the chick. By the time this happens, you begin kind of respecting the girl in bed, which makes you lose the animal side of it, which makes you stop fvcking and start making love. And then its gone!

- Be addction free
Quit everything. Smoking, drinking, porn, social media. All this sh!t WILL hinder you, physically or emotionally, or both. I see lot's of guys skipping this one, but I cannot stress it enough. None of this shi!t will improve you, and they will have a bad effect on your perfomance.
The only thing you should be addicted to is your quest. You might be addicted to pvssy tho!

- To sum this up
Eat clean, drink water, exercise, rest.

---

In Bed Actions:

- Animal approach:
You are an animal, she is an animal, and there is the only place where can we explore our animal side. Do it. Claw, bite, squeeze her with your arms, grab her firmly, hold her hair from the back of her head... dominate. You are male, she is female.
She might pose as a bad ass, but she wants to lose control. Do her this favour.

- Ladies come first:
Absolute no brainer. You gotta make her come first. There are multiple benefits from that, but the main are:
- You will fvck a wet, hotter and tighter pvssy, and who the fvck does not want that?
- You just made her come, which is THE best time to put yourself inside her. Works like magic on the hamster wheel.

- To do so, you gotta jump in Head first
Fingering (ring and middle) like a hook to reach an spongeous area on the upper part inside the veejay.
Leave the cl!t for the tongue, and go for the azz with the pink. No rush, slow and steady. When she starts losing it don't give in to accelerate or change position. Just stick to what you are doing. Her moaning should be guidance if you got the right spot. Stay there!

- Respectfully disrecpect
Talk really fvcking dirty, slap her face, choke, cover her mouth, shoulder choke, spit in her mouth, spit in her face.
Do all this like a fvcking animal, grunting or laughing like a maniac, with a crazy grim/look on your face, imobilizing her and watch her becoming your personal p0rnstar before your eyes.
- If you are on top, it's good to have one hand kinda pulling her azz cheek away, with your fingers quite close but not on the action.
- On fours, grab her by the ribs, the azz cheeks, or a twist on her hair. Think man.

- Nut
When its time, respectfully disrecpect her, and as an animal, make it worth it. She's been waiting for it, so now you give it to her. Avoid hair, and pregnancy shots.
- If you go for the chest/back spread all over her, and make her lick your fingers.
- If you go for the mouth, enjoy it. Either way, let it all go like an animal, like really agressive.
Which way, be a gentleman, and don't be afraid to kiss her afterwards. Its your own, and you are not a little b!tch

Rinse and repeat (thanks to the stamina)

You can always go for a bath afterwards, which is not the best setting for fvcking, but it is very good for arousing.
In there you can actually bathe her, which is super fvcking sexy, and they always lose their shi!t. Specially if you go at a more slower pace.

--

And there you go!

There is much more to it, but this pretty much gives you good results.

 

[Jor-El]

Cool, so whats your guys' secret, how do you do so you guarantee her the best sex ever? Appreciate it, Thanks

I must be very good in bed,like,top notch, because all the women say to me, “look, is there any way possible to make it last longer?”

 

[pipeman84]

Good question.

There are some things that you can apply, that might come across as tricks or secrets, but in the end, I guess it always revolves around experience.

First and foremost, you must be phisically atractted to her, otherwise it will be robotic. So this means, you must enjoy it.
It is also very important that you enjoy watching her as she is enjoying it. I am dirty, so I also enjoy the dirty side of it.

Anyway, I'll break it down to Outside factors, and In Bed Actions.

Outside factors:

- High Libido/Testosterone gained via daily phisical exercice
I will definetly say that this is the most important thing for you to do because it keeps you on the edge, and you exahle manliness, which by now, I'm sure they can smell it. You actually feel more like a man, and not a fvcking wimp.
Also, avoid wanking. Leave it to them. It will preserve your manly energy.

- High Stamina gained via daily cardio
This is a no brainer, but you gotta be able not to tire during performance, and also you want to be able to pump cruelly while maintaining a boner for long periods - aka fvcking her brains out (this is when they laugh, cry, bite themselves, revolve their eyes and tipically say a long fvvvvv vvvvv vvvvv vvvck - the pauses follows the pumping)

- Multiple partners (emotional dettachment)
Pook said this better than me:

This is detrimental, as if you only go for this one, eventually (sooner than you expect) your brain will fog and you develop feelings for the chick. By the time this happens, you begin kind of respecting the girl in bed, which makes you lose the animal side of it, which makes you stop fvcking and start making love. And then its gone!

- Be addction free
Quit everything. Smoking, drinking, porn, social media. All this sh!t WILL hinder you, physically or emotionally, or both. I see lot's of guys skipping this one, but I cannot stress it enough. None of this shi!t will improve you, and they will have a bad effect on your perfomance.
The only thing you should be addicted to is your quest. You might be addicted to pvssy tho!

- To sum this up
Eat clean, drink water, exercise, rest.

---

In Bed Actions:

- Animal approach:
You are an animal, she is an animal, and there is the only place where can we explore our animal side. Do it. Claw, bite, squeeze her with your arms, grab her firmly, hold her hair from the back of her head... dominate. You are male, she is female.
She might pose as a bad ass, but she wants to lose control. Do her this favour.

- Ladies come first:
Absolute no brainer. You gotta make her come first. There are multiple benefits from that, but the main are:
- You will fvck a wet, hotter and tighter pvssy, and who the fvck does not want that?
- You just made her come, which is THE best time to put yourself inside her. Works like magic on the hamster wheel.

- To do so, you gotta jump in Head first
Fingering (ring and middle) like a hook to reach an spongeous area on the upper part inside the veejay.
Leave the cl!t for the tongue, and go for the azz with the pink. No rush, slow and steady. When she starts losing it don't give in to accelerate or change position. Just stick to what you are doing. Her moaning should be guidance if you got the right spot. Stay there!

- Respectfully disrecpect
Talk really fvcking dirty, slap her face, choke, cover her mouth, shoulder choke, spit in her mouth, spit in her face.
Do all this like a fvcking animal, grunting or laughing like a maniac, with a crazy grim/look on your face, imobilizing her and watch her becoming your personal p0rnstar before your eyes.
- If you are on top, it's good to have one hand kinda pulling her azz cheek away, with your fingers quite close but not on the action.
- On fours, grab her by the ribs, the azz cheeks, or a twist on her hair. Think man.

- Nut
When its time, respectfully disrecpect her, and as an animal, make it worth it. She's been waiting for it, so now you give it to her. Avoid hair, and pregnancy shots.
- If you go for the chest/back spread all over her, and make her lick your fingers.
- If you go for the mouth, enjoy it. Either way, let it all go like an animal, like really agressive.
Which way, be a gentleman, and don't be afraid to kiss her afterwards. Its your own, and you are not a little b!tch

Rinse and repeat (thanks to the stamina)

You can always go for a bath afterwards, which is not the best setting for fvcking, but it is very good for arousing.
In there you can actually bathe her, which is super fvcking sexy, and they always lose their shi!t. Specially if you go at a more slower pace.

--

And there you go!

There is much more to it, but this pretty much gives you good results.

That sounds like science fiction to me.
A couple of comments:
1. Real life is not a porn scene where the women are mostly on drugs or intoxicated and the action has nothing to do with their enjoyment but what the director asks of them.
2. Giving oral sex to some hoe is not only disgusting (both literally and figuratively) but also gay AF. A good portion of the male porn stars are Bi and the female porn stars are most probably cleaner (up to date STD tests and washed the pvssy as preparation for the scene) than the average hoe you meet on OLD and are trying to impress with your oral sex skills.

 

[Lotus Effect]

That sounds like science fiction to me.
A couple of comments:
1. Real life is not a porn scene where the women are mostly on drugs or intoxicated and the action has nothing to do with their enjoyment but what the director asks of them.
2. Giving oral sex to some hoe is not only disgusting (both literally and figuratively) but also gay AF. A good portion of the male porn stars are Bi and the female porn stars are most probably cleaner (up to date STD tests and washed the pvssy as preparation for the scene) than the average hoe you meet on OLD and are trying to impress with your oral sex skills.

Okay...
Always with the attitude…

It’s getting hard having a conversation around here.

There was nothing on p0rnstars

I just love how you guys just go out and start making these assumptions. Who said anything about OLD? If you are pulling chicks online, good for you bub. That’s no my case.

Also, I’m not trying to impress anyone. I’m just trying to have a good lay.

If it sounds like science fiction to you, talk to the mods and see if it still possible to change your nickname bro.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I just love how you guys just go out and start making these assumptions.

It's what they live for.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

When I blast a load after tearing her apart for however long it usually has built up to a point where I literally let out a loud gutteral growl as I am blasting my load all over her(usually her face) and almost every single woman has said they find that so fvcking hot and sexy, like I'm an unleashed animal...

I remember one time I had been fvcking this woman for a few months and the one time I didn't growl for whatever reason and she was really disappointed...she was like "where was my growl??" and she thought she hadn't done a good enough job turning me on

Guys who do not understand that a woman wants to see a wild beast in the bedroom are missing the boat completely and getting left at the dock.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

When I blast a load after tearing her apart for however long it usually has built up to a point where I literally let out a loud gutteral growl as I am blasting my load all over her(usually her face) and almost every single woman has said they find that so fvcking hot and sexy, like I'm an unleashed animal...

Rawr.

You'll never be as cool as a male octopus though.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Rawr.

You'll never be as cool as a male octopus though.
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But why would I want to not even be able to enjoy it and on top of it inflict intense, long lasting pain on myself ??

 

[pipeman84]

There was nothing on p0rnstars

Talk really fvcking dirty, slap her face, choke, cover her mouth, shoulder choke, spit in her mouth, spit in her face.
Do all this like a fvcking animal, grunting or laughing like a maniac, with a crazy grim/look on your face, imobilizing her and watch her becoming your personal p0rnstar before your eyes.

Who said anything about OLD? If you are pulling chicks online, good for you bub. That’s no my case.

Doesn't make a difference if you met her on OLD, in the club, on the street etc. Oral sex should be reserved for someone very special, who proved herself worthy of receiving it. That was my point.

 

[Vanderdonck]

The mind is the ultimate erogenous zone.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The mind is the ultimate erogenous zone.

Which is why you can drive her crazy by whispering things in her ear before, while and after doing things with her

 

[Lotus Effect]

It was used as an adjective on how she will act. And you made your whole post/point based on that, going as far as male bisexval p0rnstars... a bit of a stretch.

On heads, again you missed my point. It was the first thing that I've said:

First and foremost, you must be phisically atractted to her, otherwise it will be robotic. So this means, you must enjoy it.
It is also very important that you enjoy watching her as she is enjoying it. I am dirty, so I also enjoy the dirty side of it.

All my post revolves around chicks you are actually atracted/invested on, which means going down is worth it.
Ordinary bimb0s are out of all that, just bust a load and go.

I guess that the good thing is we found agreement pipe!
Cheers mate!

 

[Lotus Effect]

When I blast a load after tearing her apart for however long it usually has built up to a point where I literally let out a loud gutteral growl as I am blasting my load all over her(usually her face) and almost every single woman has said they find that so fvcking hot and sexy, like I'm an unleashed animal...

I remember one time I had been fvcking this woman for a few months and the one time I didn't growl for whatever reason and she was really disappointed...she was like "where was my growl??" and she thought she hadn't done a good enough job turning me on

Guys who do not understand that a woman wants to see a wild beast in the bedroom are missing the boat completely and getting left at the dock.

YES!

That is exactly it man!

You got it!