Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Hey guys,
I see a lot of you mumbling new theories on woman kind, or why she is not going for the 2nd date, or just trying to become relevant on this forum.
Whereas, the main topic that should be discussed, is seldomly (if ever) addressed.
The subject being: S€X
Or even better, how well are you banging those chicks (or not)
To my understanding, much of the noise and confusion on how to deal with chicks comes from this flaw.
Gentlemen, get this. It is simple.
Once you banged a lady, it is done.
It is a done deal. There is no second guessing, there is no wondering what to do or how to act.
You bang her brains out, and you go live your life as if she did not existed in the first place.
All the groundwork now comes from her side. The minute you banged her is the minute you flipped the script.
Right now you might be asking yourself. No way, now I have to do this and that to keep her attracted, or, this Lotus guy don’t know what he is talking about, or whatever.
Let me get it to you. If you bang a chick properly, she is yours. The question you should be asking yourself actually is:
Am I banging properly?
Do I know how to properly fvck?
If:
- You don’t go multiple times
- You don’t make her cvm (the more the merrier
- You don’t make her loose her sh!t
- She does not compliment you as the best s&x she ever had (or some of the sort)
Then there’s your answer.
There is no mind games. No mental gymnastics.
You had your shot, and you lost it. She is not going for a second date, because she was there and she witnessed your potential firsthand.
So if you are wondering why you are not advancing or why she gosthed you, that is it.
(Friendly reminder that I’m talking about hot chicks, after all I’m hoping you’re eating well guys)
On the other hand, if you did all of the above, just sit back, go do your thing, and relax. Sooner than later she will show up.
So before replying, answer this question. I am posting this in the Mature Man, and as mature men, you should ask yourself this hard question. Am I a good lay?
You lay pipe, and leave her finished, with her barely able to move or speak? Then yay.
Anything other than that, it is time to second guess.
You can do stupid sh!t later and loose her eventually, as with anyone, but, if you are stuck on lay one, than I have some news for you bud!
So instead of picking your brain, or trying to devise this new plan of text messaging attraction, or whatever, improve this area of your life. Be it fingering, head, pumping, everything.
Just get this sorted, and things will start to fall into place.
Cheers!
Disclaimer:
This is a personal journey, 100% focused at yourself and your skill. This is not about placing the poon at the pedestal. This is about your own health, considering the fact that $ex is a healthy issue (refer to Maslow’s pyramid in case of doubt)
I see a lot of you mumbling new theories on woman kind, or why she is not going for the 2nd date, or just trying to become relevant on this forum.
Whereas, the main topic that should be discussed, is seldomly (if ever) addressed.
The subject being: S€X
Or even better, how well are you banging those chicks (or not)
To my understanding, much of the noise and confusion on how to deal with chicks comes from this flaw.
Gentlemen, get this. It is simple.
Once you banged a lady, it is done.
It is a done deal. There is no second guessing, there is no wondering what to do or how to act.
You bang her brains out, and you go live your life as if she did not existed in the first place.
All the groundwork now comes from her side. The minute you banged her is the minute you flipped the script.
Right now you might be asking yourself. No way, now I have to do this and that to keep her attracted, or, this Lotus guy don’t know what he is talking about, or whatever.
Let me get it to you. If you bang a chick properly, she is yours. The question you should be asking yourself actually is:
Am I banging properly?
Do I know how to properly fvck?
If:
- You don’t go multiple times
- You don’t make her cvm (the more the merrier
- You don’t make her loose her sh!t
- She does not compliment you as the best s&x she ever had (or some of the sort)
Then there’s your answer.
There is no mind games. No mental gymnastics.
You had your shot, and you lost it. She is not going for a second date, because she was there and she witnessed your potential firsthand.
So if you are wondering why you are not advancing or why she gosthed you, that is it.
(Friendly reminder that I’m talking about hot chicks, after all I’m hoping you’re eating well guys)
On the other hand, if you did all of the above, just sit back, go do your thing, and relax. Sooner than later she will show up.
So before replying, answer this question. I am posting this in the Mature Man, and as mature men, you should ask yourself this hard question. Am I a good lay?
You lay pipe, and leave her finished, with her barely able to move or speak? Then yay.
Anything other than that, it is time to second guess.
You can do stupid sh!t later and loose her eventually, as with anyone, but, if you are stuck on lay one, than I have some news for you bud!
So instead of picking your brain, or trying to devise this new plan of text messaging attraction, or whatever, improve this area of your life. Be it fingering, head, pumping, everything.
Just get this sorted, and things will start to fall into place.
Cheers!
Disclaimer:
This is a personal journey, 100% focused at yourself and your skill. This is not about placing the poon at the pedestal. This is about your own health, considering the fact that $ex is a healthy issue (refer to Maslow’s pyramid in case of doubt)
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