Learn to swallow your ego

[user43770]

"If only you would have done x,y and z, you might still be lucky enough to fvck her."

This is some prevalent bullsh1t on this forum that needs to be put to rest. The idea that it's always the man's fault; the idea that it's always within your control to keep a woman in your life.

There will always be somebody that's better than you at x, y or z. Maybe it's looks, money or personality, or maybe it's some obscure sh1t that that nobody thinks about.

Point is, there could be any number of reasons why a woman thinks she finds a better deal in another man. And maybe she actually is more compatible with that other man. Not your problem.

There's no need to beat yourself up over it and scour the potential reasons she left. Just be you and find people that like it.

Anti-Dump's Machine is in the dj bible and should be read by any man looking for an LTR.

Find power in the fact that you can go out and meet new women any time you want. This is your only power, which I didn't truly realize until reading it from @deesade

As soon as you get comfortable, the sooner you're likely to be left with your d1ck in your hand.

I remember a conversation with my ex where I was trying to explain how easy it is for a woman to get sex compared to a man. It's funny in hindsight. I said, "All you have to do is go to a bar, and you can take home pretty much any guy you want." Her response: "I wouldn't have to do that, I'd just go in my phone contacts."

Never stop being sprightly with your options, gentlemen. Women will always be one step ahead of you anyway.

 

[lizardking82]

They will be one step away from you if you are stupid enough to race women in becoming more of a ***** magnet than they can be d1ck magnets. Guys wanna go out of their natural role. We are not meant to have women come at us and ask us to bang them. Things are supposed to be this way. Things were always this way, back from the cavemen to nowadays, just the method we do it changed. Then they hit women with a stone in the head and took them to the cave, now they hunt them on social media and real life.

Most men here are not yet at the stage where they don't really give much of a **** about getting p0ssy. This is what they are after. They want it and the more you want it, the more obsessed you become with it and the lower the chances you get it. Men in all times in history had higher purposes to fulfill. Some wanted to become emperors and create kingdoms and write the books of history, some others wanted to become masters at one certain thing. These men got loads of ***** and they never chased anyone or stopped any woman on the street to ask her out. They got it cause they represented what masculine energy is all about.

 

[user43770]

They will be one step away from you if you are stupid enough to race women in becoming more of a ***** magnet than they can be d1ck magnets. Guys wanna go out of their natural role. We are not meant to have women come at us and ask us to bang them. Things are supposed to be this way. Things were always this way, back from the cavemen to nowadays, just the method we do it changed. Then they hit women with a stone in the head and took them to the cave, now they hunt them on social media and real life.

Most men here are not yet at the stage where they don't really give much of a **** about getting p0ssy. This is what they are after. They want it and the more you want it, the more obsessed you become with it and the lower the chances you get it. Men in all times in history had higher purposes to fulfill. Some wanted to become emperors and create kingdoms and write the books of history, some others wanted to become masters at one certain thing. These men got loads of ***** and they never chased anyone or stopped any woman on the street to ask her out. They got it cause they represented what masculine energy is all about.

There have been plenty of genius men, with masculine energy, that never got laid.

Also, your comment about being obsessed with getting laid somehow hurting your chances? Lol we're all obsessed. Your success depends on your willingness to deal with uncomfortable situations and your ability to keep on plugging along.

 

[lizardking82]

There have been plenty of genius men, with masculine energy, that never got laid.

Also, your comment about being obsessed with getting laid somehow hurting your chances? Lol we're all obsessed. Your success depends on your willingness to deal with uncomfortable situations and your ability to keep on plugging along.

Maybe not all men are so sex oriented, ever thought of that? Who would you appreciate more, a scientist who got laid a couple of times during his life and possibly not for his charm OR or some dud who did nothing but get laid? LOL

No, we're not all obsessed. Speak for yourself.

 

[user43770]

Maybe not all men are so sex oriented, ever thought of that? Who would you appreciate more, a scientist who got laid a couple of times during his life and possibly not for his charm OR or some dud who did nothing but get laid? LOL

No, we're not all obsessed. Speak for yourself.

Why should I appreciate either of them? I honestly don't give sh1t about most people, as I don't have the time or energy for it.

What's so great about the scientist - the fact that he suffered through more school? The fact that he probably works for a government funded university that needs to keep finding a way to spend tax payer dollars?

Maybe if you said the scientist cured cancer or something. Otherwise, they're both just sucking in air.

 

[lizardking82]

This is not about giving a **** about people or not, this is about brilliant minds who advanced society to what it is today and someone who merely breeds. You have to be shallow to not know who to appreciate LOL

 

[sazc]

"If only you would have done x,y and z, you might still be lucky enough to fvck her."

This is some prevalent bullsh1t on this forum that needs to be put to rest. The idea that it's always the man's fault; the idea that it's always within your control to keep a woman in your life.

There will always be somebody that's better than you at x, y or z. Maybe it's looks, money or personality, or maybe it's some obscure sh1t that that nobody thinks about.

Point is, there could be any number of reasons why a woman thinks she finds a better deal in another man. And maybe she actually is more compatible with that other man. Not your problem.

There's no need to beat yourself up over it and scour the potential reasons she left. Just be you and find people that like it.

Anti-Dump's Machine is in the dj bible and should be read by any man looking for an LTR.

Find power in the fact that you can go out and meet new women any time you want. This is your only power, which I didn't truly realize until reading it from @deesade

As soon as you get comfortable, the sooner you're likely to be left with your d1ck in your hand.

I remember a conversation with my ex where I was trying to explain how easy it is for a woman to get sex compared to a man. It's funny in hindsight. I said, "All you have to do is go to a bar, and you can take home pretty much any guy you want." Her response: "I wouldn't have to do that, I'd just go in my phone contacts."

Never stop being sprightly with your options, gentlemen. Women will always be one step ahead of you anyway.

I agree on both counts.

She will behave whatever way society and her upbringing dictates. Stop blaming yourself for her behavior. Use your experiences to establish standards and don't be afraid to stick to the standards.

I have also found @deesade to be the perfect blend of game advice coupled with not taking things too seriously in the event that it doesn't work out. He's got strategy but also gives no fvcks and doesn't make it personal.

That's the way it should be.

 

[user43770]

This is not about giving a **** about people or not, this is about brilliant minds who advanced society to what it is today and someone who merely breeds. You have to be shallow to not know who to appreciate LOL

I guess you didn't get the point of my last post. How is the scientist actually making life better for anyone? Credentials mean sh1t to me.

 

[lizardking82]

I guess you didn't get the point of my last post. How is the scientist actually making life better for anyone? Credentials mean sh1t to me.

I didn't miss your last point, I just cannot continue a discussion with someone who doesn't understand that a person inventin something is making the life better for a certain group of people. That is why people buy the product, cause it benefits them and make lifes easier. If you do not get this...what can I say to you LOL

 

[user43770]

I didn't miss your last point, I just cannot continue a discussion with someone who doesn't understand that a person inventin something is making the life better for a certain group of people. That is why people buy the product, cause it benefits them and make lifes easier. If you do not get this...what can I say to you LOL

Most scientists don't invent anything, they just ride on coat tails and create problems. Hence, climate change.

 

[user43770]

things dont change. game is triage. save those that can be saved.

we cant waste time and energy on those who struggle to see the light. even among red pillers, theres some that transition and internalize much easier than others.

some will learn to live fulfilling lives whatever way they can,the rest hold onto their belief that you need to be some top 1% to stand a chance of getting with good looking women or that some girl walked away from you because you arent good enough

This post was meant to take a shot at blue-pill thinking individuals. The thought that it's always within your power to keep a woman in your life is unrealistic.

 

[RedScorpion]

Most scientists don't invent anything, they just ride on coat tails and create problems. Hence, climate change.

I liked your first post, but this is plain stupid.

 

[sosousage]

"If only you would have done x,y and z, you might still be lucky enough to fvck her."

This is some prevalent bullsh1t on this forum that needs to be put to rest. The idea that it's always the man's fault; the idea that it's always within your control to keep a woman in your life.

There will always be somebody that's better than you at x, y or z. Maybe it's looks, money or personality, or maybe it's some obscure sh1t that that nobody thinks about.

Point is, there could be any number of reasons why a woman thinks she finds a better deal in another man. And maybe she actually is more compatible with that other man. Not your problem.

There's no need to beat yourself up over it and scour the potential reasons she left. Just be you and find people that like it.

Anti-Dump's Machine is in the dj bible and should be read by any man looking for an LTR.

Find power in the fact that you can go out and meet new women any time you want. This is your only power, which I didn't truly realize until reading it from @deesade

As soon as you get comfortable, the sooner you're likely to be left with your d1ck in your hand.

I remember a conversation with my ex where I was trying to explain how easy it is for a woman to get sex compared to a man. It's funny in hindsight. I said, "All you have to do is go to a bar, and you can take home pretty much any guy you want." Her response: "I wouldn't have to do that, I'd just go in my phone contacts."

Never stop being sprightly with your options, gentlemen. Women will always be one step ahead of you anyway.

and what will you do? shift the society? below average looking women doesnt need to study PUA/DJ/abundance/get any value/anything to get couple male plates in one day.


average male has a problem getting single girlfriend in the period of months, hes higher value than above mentioned woman but he struggles much more getting just one partner

 

[user43770]

I liked your first post, but this is plain stupid.

I'm not denying that the climate is changing, just the cause of it.

 

[user43770]

and what will you do? shift the society? below average looking women doesnt need to study PUA/DJ/abundance/get any value/anything to get couple male plates in one day.

average male has a problem getting single girlfriend in the period of months, hes higher value than above mentioned woman but he struggles much more getting just one partner

All you can do is see the world for what it is and adapt accordingly.

Is the game slanted in womens' favor? Yes, but it's always been that way. The major difference these days is now you don't have to marry them.

 

[sosousage]

All you can do is see the world for what it is and adapt accordingly.

Is the game slanted in womens' favor? Yes, but it's always been that way. The major difference these days is now you don't have to marry them.

yeah but what you say now "go accordingly/adapt" doesnt go along with your thread "stop thinking you need to be 10/10/10 in look/personality/and whatnot .. to get laid"

since women have dating in their favor - and men cant, but they still need/want it - they they have to do something to attract the girl - for example be bigger value.

 

[marmel75]

The problem is that too many guys stop doing what got them to this point in the first place once they meet a woman they like. Instead they newd to continue going on dates and meeting new women and continue doing what they have been...far longer than what most do...

Imo, they should continue meeting and banging new chicks for at least 6 months when dealing with a new chick to ensure they don't get sucked into a situation they shouldnt be in and stay in due to not wanting to start over...

When you have 4 or 5 other chicks that is never an issue

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

No, we're not all obsessed. Speak for yourself.

All men are to some degree. It’s literally in our blood (testosterone).

I'm not denying that the climate is changing, just the cause of it.

There haven’t been any real volcanic eruptions in a long while, so pretty much all climate hangs has been due to anthropogenic causes. Homo sapiens have about 600 years left before we go extinct. My thoughts? We’ll all kill ourselves and potentially every other living organism probably halfway through that.

 

[Roober]

I thought this was going to be an insightful post about guys swallowing their ego, but it's quite the opposite...

Should be titled "another boring thread about women's hypergamy"

 

[user43770]

I thought this was going to be an insightful post about guys swallowing their ego, but it's quite the opposite...

Should be titled "another boring thread about women's hypergamy"

Accepting human nature is no small feat. Biggest ego loss I've had in my life.