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"If only you would have done x,y and z, you might still be lucky enough to fvck her."

This is some prevalent bullsh1t on this forum that needs to be put to rest. The idea that it's always the man's fault; the idea that it's always within your control to keep a woman in your life.
Bro I don't know. The good looking, young available educated single girl doesn't want to have sex with you and its HER fault?

That doesn't make any sense.

Point is, there could be any number of reasons why a woman thinks she finds a better deal in another man. And maybe she actually is more compatible with that other man. Not your problem.

There's no need to beat yourself up over it and scour the potential reasons she left. Just be you and find people that like it.
Of course it's your problem. You have to adapt to the situation and make her fall in love with you, not the other guy.

I think this forum needs to get away from the thinking that we are all Hollywood Stars that should be paid to have sex with hot girls. Nothing could be further from the truth. You have to put time, effort, and money to make the girl fall in love. Nothing is going to be given, you have to go out there and get it.

Find power in the fact that you can go out and meet new women any time you want. This is your only power, which I didn't truly realize until reading it from @deesade
This is a problem too. This site acts like getting an "available, young, educated, young girl with little baggage" is easier than getting a chocolate bar at 7-11. And if she gets 5% testy, drop her and spin plates spin plates spin plates.

Spinning plates is not suitable for PRINCE HARRY. It's suitable for sosuave members.

I remember a conversation with my ex where I was trying to explain how easy it is for a woman to get sex compared to a man. It's funny in hindsight. I said, "All you have to do is go to a bar, and you can take home pretty much any guy you want." Her response: "I wouldn't have to do that, I'd just go in my phone contacts."
You are both 110% right.
 

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"If only you would have done x,y and z, you might still be lucky enough to fvck her."
This is some prevalent bullsh1t on this forum that needs to be put to rest. The idea that it's always the man's fault; the idea that it's always within your control to keep a woman in your life.
There will always be somebody that's better than you at x, y or z. Maybe it's looks, money or personality, or maybe it's some obscure sh1t that that nobody thinks about.
Point is, there could be any number of reasons why a woman thinks she finds a better deal in another man.
And maybe she actually is more compatible with that other man. Not your problem.

There's no need to beat yourself up over it and scour the potential reasons she left. Just be you and find people that like it.

Anti-Dump's Machine is in the dj bible and should be read by any man looking for an LTR.

Find power in the fact that you can go out and meet new women any time you want. This is your only power, which I didn't truly realize until reading it from @deesade

As soon as you get comfortable, the sooner you're likely to be left with your d1ck in your hand.

I remember a conversation with my ex where I was trying to explain how easy it is for a woman to get sex compared to a man. It's funny in hindsight. I said, "All you have to do is go to a bar, and you can take home pretty much any guy you want." Her response: "I wouldn't have to do that, I'd just go in my phone contacts."

Never stop being sprightly with your options, gentlemen. Women will always be one step ahead of you anyway.
I wouldn't want to be with a woman where I felt I had to constantly 'perform' at the peak of my abilities to keep her.

This smacks to me of insecurity. No, I want a woman who is able to say enough... just as I can.
 

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They will be one step away from you if you are stupid enough to race women in becoming more of a ***** magnet than they can be d1ck magnets. Guys wanna go out of their natural role. We are not meant to have women come at us and ask us to bang them. Things are supposed to be this way. Things were always this way, back from the cavemen to nowadays, just the method we do it changed. Then they hit women with a stone in the head and took them to the cave, now they hunt them on social media and real life.

Most men here are not yet at the stage where they don't really give much of a **** about getting p0ssy. This is what they are after. They want it and the more you want it, the more obsessed you become with it and the lower the chances you get it. Men in all times in history had higher purposes to fulfill. Some wanted to become emperors and create kingdoms and write the books of history, some others wanted to become masters at one certain thing. These men got loads of ***** and they never chased anyone or stopped any woman on the street to ask her out. They got it cause they represented what masculine energy is all about.
Yes, this over-valuation of the P is in reality something like a conspiracy against true masculinity. Men should just be doing there thing, and have that stuff sort itself out.. let the women chase. But most men have been brainwashed by the media, and had their masculinity hollowed out. They run around like a thirst bucket without an ounce of dignity.
 
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