Kissed a girl - now what?

[Lotus Effect]

Thanks for the brutal truth guys. I've known her for ten years, and couldn't believe I gave it a shot, but I did. Oh well, at least I got a kiss. I just hope it doesn't get awkward in the future, because she is a great girl, and a friend.

It is awkward.

I am in a completely different part of the globe, and I'm feeling awkward.

And furthermore, do you see the pedestal, right? '

Cause I'm seeing it from the other side of the planet.

 

[Gamisch]

What do you mean by that?

Imagine you kissing her and leaving it there. Calm cool and collected. Why? Because you are aware of your own attraction towards women and know you attract them occasionally. So she kissed you,cool.

Imagine that attitude vs what you're doing now. You are like a salesman never making sale and finally got SOMEONE saying: " maybe".

Seems like you are insecure about the product you're selling ( yourself) . Feck that. You sell topnotch shyte and if a woman can't see that it's HER loss ,not yours.

I kissed and slept with many women but its never thread worthy. Nobody her can say something new to help me, as I gotta help myself. It's oke you ask for advice, but yeah, the truth is brutal..

 

[Lotus Effect]

Imagine you kissing her and leaving it there. Why? Because you are aware of your own attraction towards women and know you attract them occasionally. So she kissed you,cool.

Imagine that attitude vs what you're doing now. You are like a salesman never making sale and finally got SOMEONE saying: " maybe".

Seems like you are insecure about the product you're selling ( yourself) . Feck that. You sell topnotch shyte and if a woman can't see that it's HER loss ,not yours.

Almost.

This is supposed to be the mindset. Fake it till you make it, right?

But,

Lesson 6: You are the Great Catch
But you have to become the great catch. Do not live your life as nothing, rather constantly strive for self-improvement.

Until you are not there, you are not there.

As I've said somewhere else, she has not lost anything. Your phagottry and neediness scared her away.

You clearly perceive her as greater value than you, and guess what, she can see that.

Focus on yourself. Improve your confidence. Only then chicks you loose you.
But by then, it will not matter anymore.